Mr Peter Bota please explain

[chicagoboy]

Originally Posted by Tara Evans

Im close to another ban from all the points I racked up last week just defending myself from the asswipes

Steady, Tara - please try not to post anything too cunty UITB!

[KittyLamour]

Originally Posted by chicagoboy

Steady, Tara - please try not to post anything too cunty UITB!

And you sir, try to be more objective and not post anything too trolly. The path you are on is far from noble but reeks of the very problem this thread is about.

[chicagoboy]

Tara knows I have her best interests at heart, and she is smart enough to heed good advice.

Back on topic ...

Perhaps Peter Bota does get penalized, but manages his points carefully.

[KittyLamour]

Originally Posted by chicagoboy

Tara knows I have her best interests at heart, and she is smart enough to heed good advice.

Back on topic ...

Perhaps Peter Bota does get penalized, but manages his points carefully.

I beg to differ. I don't recall you ever giving good advice, but do recall you being a shit stirrer and an instigator.

Back on topic...

This isn't about managing points to maximize the ability to spread hatred unpenalized. This is about why hatred and abuse are tolerated around here in the first place.

[FunInDFW]

I wonder if this would be taken more seriously if it was sent to a mod privately instead of publicly creating strife between the community and the mods. Publicly, sounds like people are being whiney tattle babies as if people/posts like these aren't already noticed (rtm?). Post also seems rather passive-aggressive asking someone to explain why they can get away with something which implyies rules aren't being enforced on them. A clear shot at the mods.

Of course, trying to add your experience to it while dropping insults just seems petty and ironic.

[NYr]

Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

Mods just don't give a fuck anymore, that's what it seems like anyway

we do....we don't read every post. RTM button is your friend. Points get issued and things tend to stop. We don't publicly state what we do, so you may not realize it.

[TheEccie214]

Originally Posted by KittyLamour

I agree, trolls seem to be given free rein around here to smash on whoever they like with impunity. Degrading or insulting other members should not be tolerated. The problem is... how do you censor someone's free speech on a shmb without compromising the integrity of the site?

I think the answer lies in the community as a whole standing up to trolls, bullies and meanies and not tolerating it anymore. Call them out on it, rather be a white knight than a troll or even worse someone who stands by and watches as a fellow human being is victimized and says nothing.

For example, and I don't mind sharing because this entire post is complete and utter bullshit. It was meant to do one thing, which was to destroy me. This is but one of hundreds of posts just like it attacking me and spreading lies and misinformation to the community. Anybody who knows me knows it is malicious slander, but they can't stand up for me for fear of receiving the same treatment. The community has got to be who comes together and ends it. Cut it out of the forums like the cancer that it is.



There was a time when I was a much more fragile person than I am now and they literally drove me into the deepest of despair and depression with their constant and incessant cruelty. The lies and slander they spread about me were outrageous and gullible people believed them. How much damage was done to my reputation? A hell of a lot. Who has the right to do that to anyone? Nobody. This isn't the paparazzi. Yes, I've made mistakes in my life...but who has the right to systematically try to ruin someone around here? I was strong enough to get past it and see it for what it really was, but what if I hadn't been strong enough? I could've easily fallen through the cracks of society and given up instead of using their hatred as motivation to prove them wrong.

I am an imperfect human being who has worked very hard to turn her life around. I am an attractive woman who keeps her appearance a priority as well as her standards of customer service. I have self-respect, integrity, and dignity. I value my reputation highly. I make sure and protect my client's privacy, treat them like they are the center of my world and the most desirable guy on the planet for the time we spend together. I maintain a comfortable private incall and make sure that nothing ever disturbs or makes a client feel nervous or uncomfortable.

I stand behind every word I just wrote and beg you to compare the person I am with the person I was painted to be by TheEccie214 and other trolls just like him.

While I don't recommend stooping to their level, I do agree that such behavior should not be tolerated and this community has to be the one to stop it. Mods cannot censor this site. We do not wish to be censored, but we do wish to be respected as human beings.

I've not said one bad thing about you in the last week Kitty, trying to give you the benefit that once again, you've changed. Yet here you go bringing me into it and derailing this thread to make it about poor Kitty. For the record Kitty - I have zero points so go complain to whoever gives a shit about you of how wrong the world is. You and Tara always complaining about how the world has done you wrong.

On topic - what's a pillow biter? Thought that was an older term used for gays. Abe gives a lot of good examples of direct insults that are usually dealt with pretty swiftly but Pete very well may have many points.

[Sir Lancehernot]

Originally Posted by NYr

we do....we don't read every post. RTM button is your friend. Points get issued and things tend to stop. We don't publicly state what we do, so you may not realize it.

I'm just speculating here, based on my own worldview, but I think it's possible that, without public admonition, the perception that the eight-letter-word-for-jerks and idiots here have free rein is shared by a lot of people.

And, again, just MHO, a natural consequence of that is that it discourages the "good guys" (and gals) from posting and participating in this community. The easiest way to avoid wrestling with pigs is to avoid the pigpen altogether.

[Tara Evans]

Originally Posted by NYr

we do....we don't read every post. RTM button is your friend. Points get issued and things tend to stop. We don't publicly state what we do, so you may not realize it.

Yeah right thats a joke and you know it

[Tara Evans]

Originally Posted by TheEccie214

I've not said one bad thing about you in the last week Kitty, trying to give you the benefit that once again, you've changed. Yet here you go bringing me into it and derailing this thread to make it about poor Kitty. For the record Kitty - I have zero points so go complain to whoever gives a shit about you of how wrong the world is. You and Tara always complaining about how the world has done you wrong.

On topic - what's a pillow biter? Thought that was an older term used for gays. Abe gives a lot of good examples of direct insults that are usually dealt with pretty swiftly but Pete very well may have many points.

I don't complain about shit. Your the one with no fucking life following me around here 247 grow up already get a life seriously. It makes you look bad. You think you hurt me you don't you never have and never will. Your a joke to this whole board

[KittyLamour]

Originally Posted by TheEccie214

I've not said one bad thing about you in the last week Kitty, trying to give you the benefit that once again, you've changed. Yet here you go bringing me into it and derailing this thread to make it about poor Kitty. For the record Kitty - I have zero points so go complain to whoever gives a shit about you of how wrong the world is. You and Tara always complaining about how the world has done you wrong.

On topic - what's a pillow biter? Thought that was an older term used for gays. Abe gives a lot of good examples of direct insults that are usually dealt with pretty swiftly but Pete very well may have many points.

You brought yourself into it by continually trying to harm me and other people on this board. The way to not be made an example out of is to avoid the behavior altogether. If nobody gives a shit about how wrong the world is, how does anything ever change? It's not just me and Tara, the community at large is sick of haters.

And for the record, standing up for yourself and choosing to not be a victim is not complaining about how the world has done you wrong.

Don't be bitter. GET BETTER.

[TheEccie214]

Originally Posted by Tara Evans

I don't complain about shit. Your the one with no fucking life following me around here 247 grow up already get a life seriously. It makes you look bad. You think you hurt me you don't you never have and never will. Your a joke to this whole board

Keep playing little girl, you'll be banned (again) soon enough.

[Admiral Giggle]

Originally Posted by honest_abe

how do you get away with all the insults and name calling you administer to various members on a variety of threads? i did some quick research and found these postings from you..

there were several times where you simply posted "bitch" or "cunt" but i eliminated those redundant postings as much as possible.. i also eliminated the hateful verbiage you posted in the ML section as well..

i couldn't quote the threads that have been closed, but sure enough you posted insults and name calling on those too.. and the posts in private tags have been eliminated in these examples..

*** the actual total count of name calling from this member is alarming ***

so please sir explain how you have managed to escape a major vacation form the tirade of hate you have inflected upon us..???

for the gents (sorry ladies) here is an example of Mr Bota's fine array of insults on this review.. he confined his postings to private tags:

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1980615&page=4

After reading this useless thread...Abe..

It's none of your business or anyone else business how many warnings or infractions someone receives.

Why do you even care? Some of you sound like siblings in the backseat whining to mom & dad "he's touching me", "I'm not touching you." "Yes you are." etc, etc, etc, etc.

If he, you , or anyone else builds up enough points a vacation will happen. No need to be the High School Hall monitor. Leave that to us.

The only thing you should worry about is seeing providers and continue to bump your own reviews over and over again when someone comments. One day they might reach the post count of the "Let's Welcome Pistolero." thread on the main page or the "Welcome back tara". Threads.

Trivial arguments on a Hooker review board on the internet.

[honest_abe]

this thread was not meant to take an indirect stab at the mods.. it 's meant for Mr Bota to chime in here and answer for his overly excessive and consistent obscene and disrespectful behavior..

it this thread is in fact out-of-line on my part, please close it or remove it from the board..

otherwise, i'm still waiting for PB to answer in public..

[Tara Evans]

Originally Posted by TheEccie214

Keep playing little girl, you'll be banned (again) soon enough.

. Trust me you will too little boy