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Originally Posted by Wheretonow
We all want some level of passion demonstrated by providers, but what's the minimum acceptable level? ... Pretty much for me it's about at least giving the illusion (real or imagined) that she actually enjoys my company.
So fellow ECCIEers, what's the bottom line as far as IOP for you; and ladies, how good are you at making us think you're actually happy to see us?
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see down below for my response.
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Originally Posted by Alecia
I truly enjoy when I am in the company of a sweet gent and it shows!
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this is a part of it for me - that while i am there, the woman [as best as i can tell] truly enjoys my company and my interactions with her. [and if she likes my jokes, all the better
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Originally Posted by grnhrn
I like a lot of passionate kissing and affectionate touching. Doesn't have to be DFK but do it like you mean it. When in missionary, look me in the eye and again kiss me passionately like you mean it. Make me at least think you are enjoying being with me and even like me. Want to "role play"? Act like you are a hot and horny GF that is really happy to finally see and make out with me again.
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well kissing is a nice to have, but it is not something that moves a woman off my g-visit-her-again list.
i can agree with the objects of these sentences, just would rather not say them imperatively - she should do this or do that. see below for why i say that.
if she acts likes she enjoys the consultation, she racks up positive points on my mental "should i visit her again" scorecard.
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Originally Posted by elgato111
For me the passion of a session means she pays attention to me, loves to hug and touch all over, enjoys DFK with me for real, looks into my eyes like I am the only one in her life, at least for the next hour.
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this is getting closer to what i believe.
when i arrive, i'm hoping [not expecting] that she will care about me enough as a potential returning client to do the best she can to make me want to return and consult with her again.
does she enjoy talking w/ me about various things?
does she caress or kiss or touch me that's stimulating?
does she perform various activities and appear to enjoy them?
once i've consulted w/ her a time or two...
does she perform various activities that she remembers i really enjoy, even if it's not her most favorite activity? [not that i'm asking her to subvert herself to my desires]
does she sometimes let me run the show knowing that i will respect her boundaries?
does she tolerate my time-challenged-ness and let me stay my consulting time even if i'm few mins late in arriving? knowing that i will depart when needed to accomodate her schedule?
if it appears that she enjoys my being there...
if i enjoyed my time interacting w/ her [based on pre-sesson TCB, appearance, activities, location, etc.]
then i'll add her to my gvha list.
i dont want nor need an illusion or fantasy.
i just want an open and honest live person-to-person intimate interaction.
which sometimes is just a quick down and funky consultation session where very little of the above applies [and i have a few women i consult w/ like this] - just do it to it and be on my way.
and if there is anything in my behavior that she doesnt like or appreciate or enjoy, then i would appreciate her telling me so that either i change it [which i have done before] or we say our goodbyes.
sometimes, i have let the woman know [afterwards via email in the nicest way i could express myself] why i didnt feel it was an open and honest live person-to-person intimate interaction [with specifics and possible suggestions]. in most of those cases, i received nothing but hellfire and damnation from the woman saying i was spineless piece of shit who wouldnt "man up" and tell it to her face and that she didnt fucking need my damn money in the first place.
well, ok i didnt tell it to her face, but damn!!! anyhoo, they were off my gvha list even before i finished reading their full-bore blasts.
so, illusion? not really.
give me a real interaction where we have delites!
