Stupid Question!

[Crimson32]

Dan sounds like you and SweetPie need to do a little hanging out together:: Good for the OP to let some frustration out but you should keep the bitching for another thread and start posting the providers intel that NCNS on here so everyone can jump on your band wagon- it's not like we are dealing with the ladies at StarBucks here.. Some providers are going to be respectful of your time and others will not- just like some hobbyist do the same to providers.. Ask Ginger Bread Girl- she sat in front of some strangers door with her dress hiked up over her head.. Just be glad the provider didn't ask for you to stand in front of the door with your pants around your ankles and then ditch you.. Im sure that would be a lot more damaging..

[samantha thom]

That's just rude and inconsiderate! I've been lucky in the 2.5 years of doing this, I have never been NCNS by any of my appointments (not once) and vice versa.

[Monkey Butt]

Ms. Star when I wrote the original entry I should have included hobbiest also for NCNS. Manners are a two way street. The provider that NCNS has great reviews (90 something) that is why I didn't list her name. Good manners are good manners, just don't string people along! Also some of the responses on this thread was funny as hell, I need to pose more questions.

[Gentlemen Rendezvous]

Half the world's problems are caused by bad communication. The other half are caused by good communication.

[melannie_star]

No Worries monkey butt Your a sweetheart!

You had a good point though,and yes this thread was very entertaining!

[jazz1j]

Originally Posted by nosweat

well put TXCWBY. the short and long of it.. while some providers claim they have good business sense, BUT I have yet to meet one with any clue whatsoever...They sell pussy and make lots of money quick they could never make anywhere else, then they think they are smart business people and powerful and THAT is what gets 99% of them in trouble..
case in point: hobbyist-"id like to see you more often, but at your rate it is difficult to purge funds.."
provider: yeah but aren't I worth that much?.. you can give me a gift card, yada yada..
when she should say "OK I can do 50 less but you have to make it at least x times/month.
Not only does she keep him from seeing some of the lower priced talent and possibly lose his biz- she keeps all his biz and makes more at the end of the day.. yeah she has to work a little harder- but she makes MORE money...

I had a provider that did not want to go through my reviews to screen.. she was too busy.
OK understand, but as all business people know you can never have enough customers and what you are doing is a service business.. and not only by sucking my dick.
for me I am extremely busy- I run a multinational commodity company with offices in 3 international time zones..I like to have some on the side, but it has to be convenient, great service and no drama.. when it becomes a hassle I move on..plenty of talent out there

nosweat you sound like you have no respect for providers. You make it seem as if you are trying to imply they are all bimbos and they couldn't possibly make it in "your world". You almost make it sound as if you think you are above them, yet you contract their services. Then you seem insulted as if she should be willing to lower her standards because you would like to see her more often and you can't "purge the funds". Did it ever occur to you that maybe she has plenty of clients that see her on a regular basis and doesn't ask her to drop her rate? So why should she make an exception just for you? Seems a little arrogance mixed with self entitlement which= narcissistic. If you run multinational commodity company with offices in 3 international time zones why can't you "purge the funds" for her rate on a regular basis? This hobby is a luxury not a necessity treat the ladies with some respect.

[nosweat]

Jazz1J- quite on the contrary.. ALL of the women I have seen have always been treated with the utmost respect..(yeah they will confirm so). Yes- I do believe 99.9% could not make it in the real world- that is why they have chosen to become providers..they can make a lot of money very quickly using their looks and bodies. I do not belittle them for it- more power to them.. happy to have them- world's oldest profession
But I cannot say they would have the greatest business acumen or they probably wouldn't be where they are.
In terms of the EXAMPLE I used:
It is simple supply and demand- if the provider does not have a need to drop her price for more volume then she shouldn't- smart business..I am only using my comments as an example not pertaining to any specific individual of my personal experience. I have providers I see at x rate level and others at y rate level. They set it and if I agree we go forward.. but if they wanted/needed more frequent biz this MIGHT be a conversation that would come up.
In regards to "purging funds"- I make PLENTY of money.. no need to go into where i live and who I associate with etc.. but I dont throw money around just because I have it.. further when funds start disappearing in large sums from bank accounts-certain flags tend to come up.. some of us have SOME restrictions in that regard.. maybe you don't-which is great for you.. The hobby for me is not a luxury- it is a business transaction-one that I enjoy periodically and one from which I have met some very nice people and had a great time with. I appreciate your comments but no need to attack .. I am entitled to my opinion as you are yours.

[melannie_star]

Yes- I do believe 99.9% could not make it in the real world- that is why they have chosen to become providers..they can make a lot of money very quickly using their looks and bodies. I do not belittle them for it- more power to them.. happy to have them- world's oldest profession
But I cannot say they would have the greatest business acumen or they probably wouldn't be where they are.



Sorry to bust your bubble but time to get off of your high horse.
The fact that some of us make just as much or even more than you, is beside the point. I enjoy what I do and was not by mistake or poor choices in life that I am here. My life was good before I chose this lifestyle, and just as good now.
We all live in the real world, no matter what we do or how we do it. It takes a strong woman to do what we do, this business is not for everyone. I have seen many come and go because they can not handle what comes along with it.


you may be a very respectful guy in person, but your choice of words is a big turn off... and that is really hard to do. LOL. But no worries, its no sweat off my back.

[projectbliss]

Nosweat, you might make a few dollars but I think most of the gentlemen here do as well. However, money doesn't equal class and talking down to a lady is unbecoming a gentlemen. Women here do not sell pussy as you so eloquently put it, you contract for time to be in the company of a lady and maybe indulge a fantasy. True, there are different levels to providers, just like different levels of gentlemen.

[nosweat]

melanie- I am not on any high horse.. Maybe you DO make more money than me (i hope you do!!) I think that is a mighty long stretch (But not really the issue at hand) I commend you for being in a field you choose.. yes I would agree it is w/out a doubt a very difficult profession.. as is porn and various other sex related careers. It does take a strong person and very independent minded to do what what you do AND sustain it over time.
I couldn't do it..

The issue is what I consider the business acumen of providers.. not that I have any lack of respect for them.. some that I have seen are very nice.. wonderful people.. have become friendly with and taken out to dinner etc..I am not demeaning your profession- I am just stating the vast majority are not particularly the brightest business minds.
I have met some business that aren't the sharpest tacks either.. doesn't mean I degrade them..

[nosweat]

Project- a LOT of people in Dallas make a LOT of money and some a LOT more than me.. some of them might very well be here..I am not talking down to the ladies.. it might seem so because of emotions.. I am simply saying the vast majority are not great business people.. That is it!!!
In regards to what you do with your time with providers is up to you.. the ones I see- we fuck.. I do not pay to engage some romantic interlude-They ones I have seen are great people- I enjoy getting to know a little about them-but I am there for the sex.. you might be there for other things all of which is great for you. to each his own in that regard..

[jazz1j]

No sweat it is a business transaction, but when I said it's a luxury I meant that just because you're low on disposable income doesn't mean she should lower her rate in hopes of seeing you in again. By luxury I mean that hey I would love to drive a rolls royce everyday but if it's not in my budget should I then go to the dealership and say hey you should lower the price and I will buy 1 twice a month. They would laugh me off the lot. If I have chevy money then I have to drive a chevy. Spending time with a provider is a luxury in life I don't need it to survive. My wife doesn't need all those high end shoes and jewelry, I buy them as a luxury. That is what I meant by luxury.

[nosweat]

I hear you Jazz it's a unrequired personal expense.. like eating in a great restaurant..

[melannie_star]

nosweat,I apologize if coming off rude as well, about the high horse. I am not having a good eccie day, which is neither here or there..LOL, and was easily offended. Everyone has opinions and I think a healthy debate is a good
Have a great day, I'm taking some me time and going to the salon!

[Crimson32]

Originally Posted by melannie_star

nosweat,I apologize if coming off rude as well, about the high horse. I am not having a good eccie day, which is neither here or there..LOL, and was easily offended. Everyone has opinions and I think a healthy debate is a good
Have a great day, I'm taking some me time and going to the salon!

Gosh Melannie quit hurting feelings!! Lol- when we going to hang out again!??