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lisa.lisa0302 · 02-09-2010, 11:55 PM

Did you say your college professor, not cool, and one of my biggest fears at the moment, i would pass out if my college professor knew what i did, and i don't want some of my classmates knowing what i do either.

Im with you there, im stuck with my decision, i have always showed my face, it didn't matter to me "then", now it does.

KohanaKoa · 02-10-2010, 12:13 AM

For me there is no deal breaker not showing your face. I have had some providers email me face pictures after I was reviewed, but as long as you have pictures that fairly represent your body, then I am good to go...

hotlips_houlihan · 02-10-2010, 12:21 AM

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Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Did you say your college professor, not cool, and one of my biggest fears at the moment, i would pass out if my college professor knew what i did

yea, he pulled me aside after class and said "what are you doing on EROS?"

my response was "what are you doing looking at EROS?" lol

I got an A and it was never mentioned again..but still

Trooper Hawk · 02-10-2010, 01:13 AM

A provider looks doesn't concern me. To be honest I could care less. I'm not interested in that, as long as she's willing to cater to my fantasies and fetishes done deal.

But IMO your all gorgeous anyway. 4 the record.

Saturn · 02-10-2010, 01:34 AM

showing face can make a difference whether some guys see you or not. You got to weigh the pros and cons....

NerdKing · 02-10-2010, 04:34 AM

Show your face ... the eyes communicate so much about you. One more thing ... smile! Makes a huge difference for me.

Private Encounter · 02-10-2010, 06:44 AM

Provider showing her face is important to me....I put a lot of emphasis on face besides the body, but it is very important. Plus, hobbyists who have not seen you before can make sure they are meeting the same person who they think they are....It reduces the anxiety..

Hardallnight · 02-10-2010, 06:56 AM

Just keep in mind that once it's on the internet it never goes away. Below information is still searchable and comes up with my ugly mug.

I did edit some information to somewhat protect my identity.

IN THE COURT OF CRIMINAL APPEALS OF THE STATE OF OKLAHOMA

Hardallnight v. City Of Oklahoma City No. X-XXX-XXXX
(Misdemeanor)

Filed: 07/31/1997
Closed: 07/16/1998

Appealed from: OKLAHOMA County District Court

Parties

Hardallnight. , Appellant
The City of Oklahoma City , Appellee

Lower Court Counts and Other Information

Count Case Number Statute Crime Special Sentence Judge Reporter
- Offering To Engage 15 Days In City Jail Plus $750

toyrrific · 02-10-2010, 08:19 AM

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Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan

yea, he pulled me aside after class and said "what are you doing on EROS?"

my response was "what are you doing looking at EROS?" lol

I got an A and it was never mentioned again..but still

And this is the correct answer to the question. If the person is here and sees your face then they are as exposed as you are and certainly do not want anyone to know.

That is why there is screening for socials and membership required for swing clubs and alternative events.

I believe that face pics will certainly increase your business and would not see a provider that does not show her face. The alternative to privacy in this situation is the presumption that she may have acne........

The first time that I found out that the owner of the company I work for and I were both looking at ASPD with BCD access was definately interesting. Now, we are planning to go to the next social together.

Will Boner · 02-10-2010, 08:50 AM

I totally understand a person's need for privacy; it's their choice.

Having said that, and as an experienced hobbiest, I can truthfully say that for me as well as most of my male friends, the face pic is extremely important. After all, it's the face we communicate with and which our brain attaches to. In fact, I would take a pretty face over a pretty body any day. For girls that have both, you've been blessed.

hobbyhorse · 02-10-2010, 08:59 AM

If have a nice face it usually helps to show it, I know it can sometimes make me pass over someone if I can't see their face. That being said, if you have a lot of potential for negative recognition think very hard about that. We would love to see your face but not to your detriment.

Iaintliein · 02-10-2010, 09:04 AM

If you decide to got down that path I suggest you start with some of the shots showing only part of your face, like behind the fan, or hat, or with a mask (digital or real) for a while to see if that helps. If you think it does then you can slowly show more. If not, you can slowly show less.

In fact, I thought about asking your permission to post the shot of you on the fur with the digital mask in the gothic hall setting in my recent thread on "Fanatasy Photos" but I figured since you didn't have it on your site you didn't want it out there.

By the way, not being a big boob guy, I think your face is your best asset, for those who don't know her, Meg has lovely eyes.

Regards,

Gonzo DFW · 02-10-2010, 09:12 AM

Gotta admit, the face is something that puts me over the hump (sorry!) on many occasions. I've spoken to you at one of the luncheons and you'd definitely get appointments just from your looks. But the WWW is like Vegas, whatever goes on the WWW stays on the WWW, and that might not be so cool a few years from now. Agree with Honey Rose, that's the big reason a lot of hobbyists come to the various get-togethers--to see and get an insight into the personalities of various providers. I'm booking an appointment this week based solely on a chance encounter at the same social I referred to. Maybe you offer face photos if a hobbyist inquires.

Judge Smails · 02-10-2010, 09:29 AM

Just one of three factors ( others being reviews and posts) but as pointed out, could be the tie breaker.

lagniappe · 02-10-2010, 09:46 AM

If you are unwilling to show your face and you photoshop out your tatoo then I percieve you as someone who has something to lose should your involvement in this world become known. That, in turn, leads me to believe that you will conduct your business in a manner that does not attract undue attention from neighbors. Discretion is vitally important to me and I prefer to see providers who feel the same way.

Do I make exceptions? Sure. Nicole Preston and Reese Foster are two of my favorites. Their maturity and intelligence make a big difference to me. For what its worth I had known Nicole for years before I saw her BCD. My mistake. In Reese's case I heard such glowing reviews I had to take the plunge.