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Guest101613-1 · 04-18-2013, 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Arverni

Taylor you can push your views on me anytime!

Especially your views on fire safety!

We should meet.. I'm so well versed on fire safety that ADT should hire me as their new poster child.... hahahah

PM me...Starting to finally see clients tomorrow... 5 days off bc of fire...geeeezzzz...lol

disilene · 04-18-2013, 10:31 PM

I must be the odd one out. I like it when the lady is intelligent and can show it by having an intelligent conversation about current events. What do they call that...a sapiosexual? Turned on by someone who exhibits intelligence?

Though I agree, once the action starts......if the mind ain't on whats happening....someone is doing something wrong.

If she mentions the Khardashians......I am out the door. Though I do appreciate a good talk about Duck Dynasty.

keri2114 · 04-19-2013, 08:53 AM

2 funny!

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Originally Posted by Arverni

Yes it does. I could not leave because she had not checked me out. I couldn't put anything in her mouth (or at least, I didn't have the urge to - not with this woman).

keri2114 · 04-19-2013, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by disilene

Though I agree, once the action starts......if the mind ain't on whats happening....someone is doing something wrong.

My point EXACTLY!!

Aphrodite · 04-21-2013, 11:07 PM

I think people inherently want to be 'heard' and be thought of as 'interesting'. If someone feels isolated (ADHD aside) then there is a greater need to connect. My new motto is 'be interested - not interesting' which opens my heart to those who don't seem to grasp how inappropriate he/she is at that moment. OTOH, it is crappy to feel like a hostage when the Chatty Cathy (clerk, provider, etc.,) doesn't grasp what a turn-off they are by being so desperately needy. Hard for many to find that 'balance'.
Ideally, a provider should know it isn't about her - it IS about the client.

*putting soap box away*

fenderman · 04-21-2013, 11:59 PM

I don't know about you but I never had conversations during sex with my girl friends unless it was talking sexy and dirty, we did enough talking outside the bedroom but when it came time for business that's where all our attention was at :>

bucnbeach · 04-22-2013, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by LilRed

I am ADHD and yes, I can be a chatter box sometimes, especially if my meds have wore off and I'm meeting someone new. I have told many of my guys that this is a great way to shut me up. And it does the trick every time

Red, making a mental note

Truth be told, I enjoy taking with interesting ladies...