No I hear what you are saying totally, tntangie. There are some really great women here - really great women! Smart, classy, attractive - the whole package. I understand how I came across the way I did. I went back to edit it but had to go do something and then forgot before the time ran out.
My point was to say I'm not trying to put myself out here like "I'm not just some dumb twat". It read as if he was painting me as some uppity bitch who thinks every other lady on here is a dumb twat and I'm not. I felt like the tone was being spun that way and I wanted to make sure to let the OP know I'm not posting because i think I'm better then "some dumb twat".
I meant that the overall landscape of ladies who come to this industry are ladies without a lot of options at the moment (again i say mostly!). Most are young and lack a safety net so this becomes the safety net for a brief moment until they find someone or something else.
Most ladies who start this don't stick with it for whatever reason. The ones who make even a short term career (5yrs or less) are few and far between and long term careers are extremely rare. Taking that into account will hopefully put my comment into the context in which I meant it.
I look up to the Kendall4Us, EmilyEzzels, tntangies, Elisabeth Whispers, Fawns and Ginas (esp) of the hobby very very much. Its obvious they have other options but chose to provide bc they love it.
I took issue for being singled out as trying to prove something to everyone about myself - "that I'm not some dumb twat" and that I think I'm being "noble" for simply exercising some basic common decency.
There are some fantastic women who provide but I'm not interested in posting what I post bc of some self-serving need to be seen as one. Hopefully I made a little more sense this time but probably not since I can't walk and chew gum and I keep getting interrupted every five seconds to get off my phone and join the xbox party my kids have going. Lol.
Again sorry if came across like an asshole. I didn't mean it that way. Thanks for addressing it. Happy New Year!
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