Due to all the drama, I'm out!

[setman]

Better to be..

than to leave.


Setty (SouthSide)

[Ava Kennedy]

You know where to reach me if u need me. I've never met you but consider you a good friend.
xoxo,
Mia

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

I must admit, my bans are the most peaceful times in my life lol! .

Hell yes. I was just telling someone today I need to get banned again. Very very peaceful. The boards are addicting. Easy to get sucked in so one have to have control.

[heidilynnla]

Sami, stand up against the bullies and drama! Take a positive stand! Stick around and make light of things.

[Sami]

See that is where you are wrong, I am single, white, and free. I don't have to do Drama!! As I see it, I am Not being run off.... I choose not to hang out with snitches, that get ahead being mean & nasty, for money & greed.

I ain't married to none of you, so why would you think it's ok to violate my space? I wouldn't call you as you where sitting on your couch with your wife. I don't tell you what to charge your client's , so why the hell would you think you should tell me what my rates should be? Who gives a shit!! If I can't afford something, I move on and buy within my budget. Mud slinging & disrespect all over

Your right London maybe if people would stand up to the ones doing the outing , extorting put a stop to it , it is a serious crime. I think the flood gates of stupid shit has been left open

I will still be around just not around here..

[London Rayne]

You are not alone, I can assure you. Most of us have been bullied or threatned in some way to offer freebies and discounts. I simply make sure I know who I am dealing with, so this crap won't happen. Guys who have their real info. out there are not freaking stupid enough to make those types of threats.

I do wish you well, and you can contact me any time to talk.

[Biomech]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Most of us have been bullied or threatned in some way to offer freebies and discounts.

That's terrible! Maybe I'm a little naive, but I honestly had no idea things like that went on here, or even in the hobby in general. WTF???

I assumed this forum would be a fun place to talk about sex and fantasies, and get some interesting and helpful perspectives from the providers and while there is some of that going on and there are some cool people here, there also seems to be this undercurrent of bitterness, jealousy, useless drama and disrespect for women that I just don't understand, or understand the need for. Isn't talking about sex with beautiful women supposed to be fun?

And after reading what Sami, London and other providers have claimed in this thread, I am literally shocked by what you ladies have to put up with. I figured there were aspects of being a provider that would be difficult, but I didn't realize you had this kind of nonsense to deal with too.

[Guest110516]

If you don't need eccie, your decision makes perfect sense.

The only reason I can see for staying would be to monitor/counter any lies being spread about you. Of course, there's something to be said for not feeding trolls...

Never met you. Probably never will. Live long and prosper.

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Hell yes. I was just telling someone today I need to get banned again. Very very peaceful. The boards are addicting. Easy to get sucked in so one have to have control.

Naomi I just don't understand you and London sometimes. You both have strong opinions and love to voice them on this site yet you both jump at every chance to diss it and say how great it was to be banned. Either you like a site or you don't. I think you both really like it and just won't admit it.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by burkalini

Naomi I just don't understand you and London sometimes. You both have strong opinions and love to voice them on this site yet you both jump at every chance to diss it and say how great it was to be banned. Either you like a site or you don't. I think you both really like it and just won't admit it.

When you're the target of a certain group here that's trying to out your identity, you will not like it either. Now I just try to avoid THEM/avoid confrontation while they stalk my ads and website . It's not eccie's fault that it's happening. These people just don't have anything better to do and go around harassing providers.

Burk, I've already admitted to having a love/hate relationship with eccie.

[guest100913]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

I must admit, my bans are the most peaceful times in my life lol!

Plural. You go girl!!

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by ufriend2912

Plural. You go girl!!

And counting ha ha!

[Guest022315]

Sami i hate to see you jet but at least i know how to contact you. I wish you well.

[jughead1171]

Originally Posted by Biomech

That's terrible! Maybe I'm a little naive, but I honestly had no idea things like that went on here, or even in the hobby in general. WTF???

I assumed this forum would be a fun place to talk about sex and fantasies, and get some interesting and helpful perspectives from the providers and while there is some of that going on and there are some cool people here, there also seems to be this undercurrent of bitterness, jealousy, useless drama and disrespect for women that I just don't understand, or understand the need for. Isn't talking about sex with beautiful women supposed to be fun?

And after reading what Sami, London and other providers have claimed in this thread, I am literally shocked by what you ladies have to put up with. I figured there were aspects of being a provider that would be difficult, but I didn't realize you had this kind of nonsense to deal with too.

Biomech, like you I wasn't aware that there was so much behind the scenes hassles for the ladies here.

[Guest022315]

Originally Posted by jughead1171

Biomech, like you I wasn't aware that there was so much behind the scenes hassles for the ladies here.

I wish the ladies would call out us hobby brothas who act inappropriatly. I get asking for a discount but once she says NO move on or pay her rate. No need to keep whining about it. For those hobbiest who use reviews to threaten providers for services .