Encounter: Isabel Jade

[Nicky Wayne]

Going to have to take a knee on this one. But glad to know about the 50/50 rule.

[Parttimehobbyist]

Originally Posted by BJlove

Nice review ive had the chance to see her. Nice sexy women!

Thanks Bj!!

[Guest110920]

Looks like I'm disqualified. Oh well, lol.

[austin88998833]

Hey guys don’t take a knee all you gotta do is ask. Lol. I had 1 of the 2 disqualifiers being 50 yrs old. We had tried to get together last Dec/Jan but never could make it happen. However I started following back w her early this summer and we finally met on July 19. During that period right after the site came back up is when she added the 50/50 rule. When I noticed was after we were getting close to setting up a visit and I gave her full disclosure letting her know I’ve past the 50 mark by 3 years but I’m not 50 lbs overweight and that I’m in ok condition for an old fart. Her response was that she can decide when to make an exception. I suppose when I was able to offer somewhat reasonable assurance that I wouldn’t kill over w a heart attack at her place she was ok with it, lol. Point is, if you lay your cards on the table and shoot straight you just might get your foot in the door. Hey, nothing ventured nothing gained ). Now get out there and sell yourselves!!! ROFL! Good luck!

[Parttimehobbyist]

Originally Posted by austin88998833

Hey guys don’t take a knee all you gotta do is ask. Lol. I had 1 of the 2 disqualifiers being 50 yrs old. We had tried to get together last Dec/Jan but never could make it happen. However I started following back w her early this summer and we finally met on July 19. During that period right after the site came back up is when she added the 50/50 rule. When I noticed was after we were getting close to setting up a visit and I gave her full disclosure letting her know I’ve past the 50 mark by 3 years but I’m not 50 lbs overweight and that I’m in ok condition for an old fart. Her response was that she can decide when to make an exception. I suppose when I was able to offer somewhat reasonable assurance that I wouldn’t kill over w a heart attack at her place she was ok with it, lol. Point is, if you lay your cards on the table and shoot straight you just might get your foot in the door. Hey, nothing ventured nothing gained ). Now get out there and sell yourselves!!! ROFL! Good luck!

This.

Nicely said Austin!

[Guest110920]

Honestly, her apparently being the kind of superficial person that even has such a rule puts her on my "don't want to see" list.

I wouldn't take an exception even if it was offered, not that I've ever tried with her. There are plenty of ladies out there that are happy to see me, flaws and all, without me having to beg for their charity in exchange for the privilege of seeing them. But that's just me.

Trying to find an angle to get with someone like that, who would most likely be just trying to conceal her disgust and get it over with? Nah. I don’t care how gorgeous she is, I wouldn’t subject myself to that.

[Fr8nk&Bnz]

Originally Posted by SpankyJ

Honestly, her apparently being the kind of superficial person that even has such a rule puts her on my "don't want to see" list.

I wouldn't take an exception even if it was offered, not that I've ever tried with her. There are plenty of ladies out there that are happy to see me, flaws and all, without me having to beg for their charity in exchange for the privilege of seeing them. But that's just me.

Trying to find an angle to get with someone like that, who would most likely be just trying to conceal her disgust and get it over with? Nah. I don’t care how gorgeous she is, I wouldn’t subject myself to that.

Good point

[arealone]

Originally Posted by SpankyJ

Honestly, her apparently being the kind of superficial person that even has such a rule puts her on my "don't want to see" list.

I wouldn't take an exception even if it was offered, not that I've ever tried with her. There are plenty of ladies out there that are happy to see me, flaws and all, without me having to beg for their charity in exchange for the privilege of seeing them. But that's just me.

Trying to find an angle to get with someone like that, who would most likely be just trying to conceal her disgust and get it over with? Nah. I don’t care how gorgeous she is, I wouldn’t subject myself to that.

Well said. Truthfully I'm with Spanky on this one. Anyone who is crass enough to post requirements as such generally goes on my "do not see" list, mostly because they fit on my "November Bravo" list. They might be absolute model material but with personalities like that I can do better.

[Parttimehobbyist]

I’ve seen providers that have an age limit of 40 +. I’m in my early 30’s. No offense was taken. I just messaged them, hit it off, and had a great time afterwards. No biggie.

[Guest110920]

Originally Posted by Parttimehobbyist

I’ve seen providers that have an age limit of 40 +. I’m in my early 30’s. No offense was taken. I just messaged them, hit it off, and had a great time afterwards. No biggie.

It doesn't seem like quite the same thing to me. Maybe in the same ballpark. I guess it's all a way of being told "you're not good enough" based on generalizations about men who are of a similar age, weight class, or whatever, just for different reasons. Typically from what I've been told the stereotype for men under 30 is that they can be cheap and entitled. Not saying you are, of course.

You might have a bit different perspective in 20 years though. Or might not, who knows. All I know is, the only ladies I'm interested in spending time with are the ones who will enjoy it too, not just endure it. If someone had to make an "exception" for me, I would not be able to shake the perception that they were in the "endure it" camp.

[Parttimehobbyist]

You might have a bit different perspective in 20 years though. Or might not, who knows. All I know is, the only ladies I'm interested in spending time with are the ones who will enjoy it too, not just endure it. If someone had to make an "exception" for me, I would not be able to shake the perception that they were in the "endure it" camp.

I hear ya man and I can understand where you’re coming from.

I do know that her 50/50 rule is there for a valid reason (and it’s not a superficial reason), but I don’t want to speak for her and would rather have guys PM and ask her about it.

[Guest110920]

Originally Posted by Parttimehobbyist

I do know that her 50/50 rule is there for a valid reason (and it’s not a superficial reason), but I don’t want to speak for her and would rather have guys PM and ask her about it.

Maybe so. But I also know a lady who has repeatedly received nasty PMs from her complaining that she’s giving references to guys that she says are not up to her high standards and telling her to stop, like giving a reference to someone who asks for it is the same as actively providing a referral. I’ll have to agree to disagree on this one, as that does indeed seem superficial to me. I’m sure she does have her rationalizations for it though. Don’r really care enough what they are to ask her, and she’d probably tell me to go to hell if I did, so I guess I’ll never know and that’s okay with me.

[niteswimmer1]

Originally Posted by SpankyJ

Honestly, her apparently being the kind of superficial person that even has such a rule puts her on my "don't want to see" list.

I wouldn't take an exception even if it was offered, not that I've ever tried with her. There are plenty of ladies out there that are happy to see me, flaws and all, without me having to beg for their charity in exchange for the privilege of seeing them. But that's just me.

Trying to find an angle to get with someone like that, who would most likely be just trying to conceal her disgust and get it over with? Nah. I don’t care how gorgeous she is, I wouldn’t subject myself to that.

+ 1

[Guest110920]

Before anyone goes there, I fully support her right to have whatever rules she wants, just like I would any provider. If I can't live with their rules, I just don't go see them (or in this case wouldn't have had the opportunity to do so). But, having a rule even with a reason doesn't inoculate someone from commentary or criticism about it here. Just ask providers who don't do BBBJ for their own reasons, but get heavily criticized for it, often privately but sometimes publicly.

The 50/50 rule probably wouldn't have gotten much more than a shrug from me since I had little interest in her to begin with, except for how the rule was phrased in her bio, which seems like a bit of a taunt along with the rule:

"No 50/50 - if youre 50 years or older or 50lbs or more over weight please click the X on the tab."

This came across to me as "If this describes you, you're not even worthy to be reading my bio page. Dismissed." Something more along the lines of "For my own personal reasons, I am unable to see men who are 50 years or older or who are 50lbs or more overweight" likely wouldn't have elicited the same response.

That plus knowledge I described previously of confrontational messages to another provider who was merely providing clients with references they requested like any good provider would (but she [Isabel] considered them referrals of clients who didn't meet her high standards) is what formed my opinion of her. Which admittedly is not worth any more than anyone else's opinion, but is sincere.

By the way, it was a good, well-written review. I don't mean to disparage the review itself in any way, there was nothing wrong with it despite my opinion of the provider it pertains to.

[arealone]

I, like others, am not here to disparage the review which is exceptionally well written and describes the experience the reviewer had with said provider.

However, I, also like others, will disparage the provider. She may have her reasons for her rules. I have my reasons for mine. The fact that she places that statement on her profile forms an opinion of her in my mind and, therefore, I would not see her, even if I did qualify under her rules (which I don't).

To me there is more to the experience than the obvious of superficial appearances and releases. Of course, that's just my humble opinion.