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bigmarv · 09-17-2010, 04:33 PM

Because every guy needs a good hobby that he has a strong passion for. After all strange pussy is the spice of life.

m5552009 · 09-17-2010, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by tsrv4me

SO lost all interest in sex after menopause .....I think she knows I do this but is OK with it as long as I am discrete.......and I am very discrete ......

The same thing happened to my SO, but this hobby activity is a secret so far.

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jic980 · 09-19-2010, 11:36 PM

I have trouble meeting women....that is to say I'm shy and awkward around women.

Dharma · 09-20-2010, 12:22 AM

Nevermind.

pyramider · 09-20-2010, 09:16 PM

Why not hobby?

digitalbananna351 · 09-20-2010, 09:31 PM

I move kind of slow with attractive women... by the time I get a phone number they are married and on their 3rd kid......

CenterLock · 09-20-2010, 10:03 PM

So wait - you put aside the lick and stick for this? Or put that aside for the lick and stick? I'm confused.

But to answer the question - hmmm..... to help bolster the local economy? And if I find cando I can let him know where he is. That and enjoying the imperfect perfection that variety always brings.

TexTushHog · 09-20-2010, 10:47 PM

For the same reason a dog licks his genitals -- because I can.

pmdelites · 09-20-2010, 11:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Hobbyfun

Just wondering what made you start hobbying

My so has medical problems and the sex has all but stopped 2 are 3 times a mouth and that's on a good mouth.

This started years ago.

For me if they was sex of any kind good are bad are dull sex I would not be doing this.

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Originally Posted by DecemberLove

I have to ask if the mouth rather than month was a Freudian slip?

i wondered if anyone else had noticed that slip of the tongue [pun intended], even thru the mobile phone typing [i'm assuming that's the cause of the typos].

texastornado · 09-21-2010, 01:04 AM

Although my SO and I have great sex, I have a need for adventure, desire to meet new people, love for the female body and the many variations of it, very horny, love bbbj's (all speeds and styles), huge fan of dfk, nipple fetish, ...can't help myself. It's the best hobby I have!!

BigEddie · 09-21-2010, 10:53 AM

I'm somewhat successful with ample disposable income, but I'm not attractive and have little charisma with women. So this is a natural. In addition, there are also some things I like to do that I would not be comfortable bringing up with a non-provider.

Gonzo DFW · 09-21-2010, 11:58 AM

Yeah, most every woman I've heard discuss it says menopause didn't affect their sex drive. BULLSHIT!!! If my SO was still the girl I married, you'd never hear from me. But that's life. And that's the value of providers, socially and philosophically. I have always thought, even when monogamous, that escorts and other providers should not feel demeaned by what they do. My forays into hobbying only reinforce that. It isn't just sex for all of us, some of us like the little bit of intimacy that goes with it. In fact, when most guys talk about one provider being more GFE than another, it's the illusion of intimacy that usually makes the difference.

erudite · 09-21-2010, 11:59 AM

I'm single and took up hobbying regularly a few years after college.

At first, it was a way to get access to pussy while also going through the agonizing and expensive rituals of chasing girls, getting dates, and pretending to care about "So, what do you like to do?" and "Where are you from?" blah blah blah.

Later, when I realized I would not likely ever want to get married, I stopped chasing non-providers altogether. I may regret my decision some day, but so far I am convinced it was the right decision.

If you think about the financial cost, time investment, inevitable frustrations, frequent disappointment, and ultimate grief that accompany many of today's "traditional" relationships, particularly when children are involved, P4P looks likes a pretty damn good deal.

Yes I am sure a happy marriage is spiritually rewarding. But how many marriages are ultimately happy?

Hardallnight · 09-21-2010, 12:13 PM

1

I love a variety of women.
2

I have a busy schedule. I don't have time to pursue free pussy.
3

We are still in a recession. Free pussy is expensive.
4

There is usually no drama when you tire of one provider and move on to the next.

Apollo! · 09-21-2010, 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Hardallnight

1

I love a variety of women.
2

I have a busy schedule. I don't have time to pursue free pussy.
3

We are still in a recession. Free pussy is expensive.
4

There is usually no drama when you tire of one provider and move on to the next.

+1 all good answers..