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guest032013 · 11-15-2011, 12:56 AM

Privacy anyone? PM?

NormalBob · 11-15-2011, 06:08 AM

The theme that the term and timing needs context is true.

If two things are present, there's a problem:

1. "I love you"
2. I want something more from you than my typical P4P

My advice to hobbyists is to leave the situation as soon as you can while maintaining some grace.

And Chloe, should Charlie Brown be bitter? No. Simply not falling for Lucy's manipulation a second time is enough.

There are plenty of women that will tease Charlie's balls only to pull away at a time of their choosing.

guest032013 · 11-15-2011, 07:35 AM

Anyone specific we need to know about or just general info here?

Love You Nikki !!

offshoredrilling · 11-15-2011, 09:09 AM

gee I hope I'm the only one that talked about errrrr never mind

NormalBob · 11-15-2011, 09:18 AM

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Originally Posted by whosdair

Anyone specific we need to know about or just general info here?

It's good general information. It's an old Jedi mind trick used by a few.

"These are not the hobbyists you are looking for."

Newbies beware.

offshoredrilling · 11-15-2011, 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by JEN OF SYRACUSE

I think that this applies to the guys also.Do you know how many times I have heard that from clients hell I had one guy that I met one time continue to text me after the appt and days later that he loved me mind you I only seen him once and after a few days I had to change my number because he started talking about he loved me so much and he was gonna hurt himself because I wasnt responding to the texts.I usually just let the guys know that they dont love me its just fun and if they continue to say it then I just stop seeing them.Especially after what I went through with the situation I explained its a major turn off.

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Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

gee I hope I'm the only one that talked about errrrr never mind

Ok the joke at the AC is I'm married to 3 providers. It was talked about between me and one of. yes one of the current 3. I was engaged to a x-provider for a short time. long after she quit. All I have known and saw a lot. Or at the time. All have told me that they have have had many guys fall in love in a short time frame. its puppy love. give a dog a bone!!!!!!!!!!

Guest091813 · 11-15-2011, 11:46 AM

when in the heat of the moment and a guy loses all sense of the ability to keep the words from flowing..i chalk it up to,,he's caught up in the moment...and let it go..what happens happens...what he said he said..

when a lady outside of the heat of the visit sends messages like that to a client out of the blue..and you havent engaged at all in texting or emails or calls outside of the "BIZ".. I look at it she's trying to get something from you..
(usually everything including messing up your whole inner circle and those that are there with you..family, wife,children,job everything in life you have created..)...

When a provider see's you off the clock and opens up to you about how she feels about you..and you go with it..and dont stop it or let her know your not down with it..dude..she has fallen for ya..step up and make it right or be down with it and be what you said..(whatever that was)...just dont blow outa town and
be all invisi...

just advice to all you..from a nun..

steve_b · 11-15-2011, 11:59 AM

Ya mean all the babes that told me they loved me we're just pullin' my leg? Sheesh, I'm heartbroken. I was really starting to think I was one hot dude....

jokacz · 11-15-2011, 11:59 AM

I love you, Nita

MC · 11-15-2011, 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by jokacz

I love you, Nita

Amen.

Guest091813 · 11-15-2011, 12:09 PM

awww ya'll now..i may get the wrong idea..stop,,please.. no... dont... stop...
see..signs may be getting all mixed up..

the nun..me and that nun there be shoppin at the same spots in da hood!!

we get the best lacy and silky stuff eva!!! we shop togetha btw!!

Lexxxy · 11-15-2011, 01:46 PM

I always get kind of weird when a Gent asks me to say I love him, I don't like it but I do it.

Guest091813 · 11-15-2011, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Lexxxy

I always get kind of weird when a Gent asks me to say I love him, I don't like it but I do it.

you have stated in the past you have done lots of Dominatrix stuff(shots/movies..ect.whatever that includes,either u being Dom or sub what ever I have no idea what you do in those shots)...
and this is what is weird to you..
lol..
no ill will here..
however..i find that to be an extreeeeeemely funny and off the wall comment ...
considering the things that go along with that whole "other" ball of wax!!!

ahhh sometimes you really make me laugh!!!

Doove · 11-15-2011, 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by whosdair

Anyone specific we need to know about or just general info here?

Love You Nikki !!

Me thinks this thread is more interesting than any of us realizes.

montana1958 · 11-15-2011, 02:46 PM

It's happened to me twice. Once with an atf in front of another girl in the room which made it a bit awkward. Kind of like that Dallas cheerleader when the Bills receiver handed her the ball. The camera stayed on her way to long and was very awkward for her. I thought it was the best moment during the entire game. She was pretty hot. But the I love you was in my opinion an ending to an amazing duo appt. I understood why she felt that way. LOL