JEALOUSY does it belong in the hobby world???

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Biomech

Hate to get technical, but there isn't a big difference between envy and jealousy. In fact, they are synonyms. Both imply a resentment for someone who possess an advantage.

My neighbor brought home a brand new Bentley! Before he even showed it to his wife he brought it over and we took a ride. She got pissed at him for that! But he brought it over because he knew my appreciation and fascination of nice cars! I envy him! That’s a good thing! I've always thought envy to be a positive thing! I was truly happy for him and very happy he took me for that ride. What a nice car!

Two seater sport cars are my thing! Why? At a young age my dad told me if you drive a two seater there is never enough room for that fat ugly girlfriend that always hangs around with that hottie your trying to snag! That kind of stuck with me! LOL

[pyramider]

Using logic and rational thincking have nothing to with jealousy. Now get this bitch back on track people.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Using logic and rational thincking have nothing to with jealousy. Now get this bitch back on track people.

There is logic and rational thinking and then there is making judgement based on lies you were told -- people do it all the time. You can't use logic, rational thinking when you don't even KNOW the person and only know a person-- unless that person has actually done something terribly wrong (such as outing). That is the problem with this hooker board, a lot of you feel as if you know one another and you don't. All you know is words and an avatar. Carry on........

[Sweet N Little]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Using logic and rational thincking have nothing to with jealousy. Now get this bitch back on track people.

oh your just jealous lol
For Zarah...

lol am I right?

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Judging someone you have never met is stupid. Where is Edhighlight? He met me when half of this board thought I was the biggest bitch but met someone that was total opposite. Lisa Lisa, NinaSastri, Ed, WTF, London, CG would all say the same but ask 15 people on eccie that has never met me and you will get a different response and those people don't even know what I look like/what I'm like..etc. Just throwing out examples here. Some people are just like their board personas but not everyone is. Can you blame them? When you are in a business that requires some level of anonymity how can you be 100% yourself? SL, You cannot.

On line persona is one thing. But I promise you this, I'm funny here or so I've been told. And guess what, I'm funny in real life as well! I will give you that there are guys that act like 400 lb. gorillas because they know that we don't know them. But guess what we do know. There ass holes! And I'm willing to bet in real life they are ass holes as well! I'll try and explain from an employer’s perspective! If I double or triple a person’s salary do you think they will do 2-3 times as much? People maybe for a while will bust their butt but within a few months they will go right back to who they were. Nothing will change. Well except the fact you’re paying them 2-3 times as much money! People will always be who they are not who someone wants them to be!

Bingo. I would say there is a fine line between envy and jealousy (but not much of a big difference). I recently had my first girl/girl experience and that was the best experience ever. I love girls -- especially when they're hot and they have a price tag (as in I can take them into the VIP room). I could never be jealous of a hot provider in the same token. What upsets me is ugly providers that can't even get their hair, nails done and bash others, Providers that don't even have their shit together and bash others, Provider that constantly lie about their age or whatever else and bash others, Providers that have to bash behind closed doors and cannot attack directly, Providers that spread lies and rumors about people they do not know (both men and women), Providers that out people and accuse others of outing because they want someone to drag down with them, Providers that blacklist clients for no reason, Providers that send hate mail from anonymous email addresses but yet don't think that you can trace the email to their homes, Providers that have to email the whole state telling providers not to give another provider a reference...etc. When you're a hooker and you're clearly over the age of 18 and you live with your mom or you dad and can't even afford to get your own place but yet you bash other providers that clearly have their shit together, you are the one that's jealous and it is your antics that are truly disgusting. That is what upsets me. Hot providers do not upset me in fact. Hot providers that are full of shit upset me (but I have not met those yet just wannabes). However, for a low drama hot provider, I am always more than happy to take them out to dinner if they're in the area. Hey Ava, You got that?!

Ladies will be ladies, boys will be boys! Personally I could care less what they think, so long as it doesn't get in the way of my hobbying or board experience. Instead of getting upset, giggle all the way to the bank. I bet your banker isn't jealous of you! LOL Don’t worry or get upset with things you can’t control! They can’t get you upset; only YOU can get you upset! I had a couple of cancelations while in Dallas. I'm not mad, upset in the slightest! Hell why would I want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with me? I just took my cash and moved my fat 300-350 LB fat ass 3" dick down the road! No hard feelings! LOL

If I have learned anything in this life is that sometimes people do not like to see other successful people. I do. I love to see people that have more than me it makes me want to work harder. Here on eccie, anyone can make up anything. I don't believe half of the shit I read because I know people in the hobby was so full of shit. I knew a guy that would go around dating providers and reviewing the dates (he was not paying for) and the whole site thought he was some sort of millionaire was he was in fact the exact opposite. He's very handsome, dates providers (actually dates them) and pretty much reviews his relationships and those were the majority of the reviews her wrote. Are people fucked up or what? I never believe anything I read anymore unless I know that person forreal.

I can't speak for what other guys do, but I try to keep it real! While my hobby habits are different than others I offer no explanation other than I'm a man whore, an attention whore and I'm having fun! That might not set right with some, but oh well, I don't lose any sleep over it! I don't need to get over anything! They are the ones with the issue not me! I just keep having fun here and while hobbying. They can just be pissed! I certainly can't control them, only myself!


I will have to disagree with that comment. 99% of the problems come from insecurities. For some, when they are unsure of themselves they drag others down with them. They bash and trash others. When their lives isn't going the way they planned, they make up things in their heads about other people and use it to attack them. It's all psychology. Ever heard the saying misery loves company? Recently I looked at a provider's gallery - one that was attacking me and I immediatly realize why she was bashing me as hard as she was. Hell Everything made sense at that moment.

But if you think about it, isn't the root of insecurity selfishness? If someone wasn't selfish why would they be insecure? If someone is insecure why is that? They want to be like you? I think that might be correct. But really they are selfish because they just want to be YOU! Truthfully it’s a complement, it just doesn't feel like one! LOL If you spend more time being a better person and enjoying your life you spend less time caring about people who are selfish, jealous, insecure little babies! Let them figure it out! Enjoy your life! Just saying....

Now if none of this makes sense then by all means, get some T-Shirts made up, post your coming to Texas and start a national thread about your tour! They just love it when you do that! LOL

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

oh your just jealous lol
For Zarah...

lol am I right?

Yes! Hahahaha! You know this all too well my love

For the haters I play this song http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=up5oHnTtG50

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

oh your just jealous lol
For Zarah...

lol am I right?

When you wear RED your ALWAYS right!

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Yes! Hahahaha! You know this all too well my love

For the haters I play this song http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=up5oHnTtG50

How about we try this one instead! LOL

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lX63u9LEhdQ

If you see your brother standing by the road
With a heavy load from the seeds he's sowed
And if you see your sister falling by the way
Just stop and stay you're going the wrong way

You got to try a little kindness
Yes show a little kindness
Just shine your light for everyone to see
And if you try a little kindness
Then you'll overlook the blindness
Of narrow-minded people on the narrow-minded streets

Don't walk around the down and out
Lend a helping hand instead of doubt
And the kindness that you show every day
Will help someone along their way

You got to try a little kindness
Yes show a little kindness
Just shine your light for everyone to see
And if you try a little kindness
Then you'll overlook the blindness
Of narrow-minded people on the narrow-minded streets

You got to try a little kindness
Yes show a little kindness
Just shine your light for everyone to see
And if you try a little kindness
Then you'll overlook the blindness
Of narrow-minded people on the narrow-minded streets

[Fast Gunn]

That fleeting glance became a truly classic photo of days gone by.

However, was that really a look of jealousy?

I think if I was sitting next to Jayne Mansfield as Sophia Loren was, I would be sneaking a look too, but it would be one of admiration.

. . . Just look at how those ripe melons grab your attention even today and draw you into their own gravitational field!

[Naomi4u]

On line persona is one thing. But I promise you this, I'm funny here or so I've been told. And guess what, I'm funny in real life as well! I will give you that there are guys that act like 400 lb. gorillas because they know that we don't know them. But guess what we do know. There ass holes! And I'm willing to bet in real life they are ass holes as well! I'll try and explain from an employer’s perspective! If I double or triple a person’s salary do you think they will do 2-3 times as much? People maybe for a while will bust their butt but within a few months they will go right back to who they were. Nothing will change. Well except the fact you’re paying them 2-3 times as much money! People will always be who they are not who someone wants them to be!

True but you cannot compare the real world to this world.
You are talking about a world where faux flirting goes on 90% of the time. You are talking about a world where some girls can't even have normal conversation (each and every post of theirs is an ad), you are talking about a world where guys delude themselves into thinking that the girl has feelings for him because she gives him a special (no she wants you to come back!). You are talking about delusional island. This is delusional island. Anyone can be anyone here. Don't you get it? Everything here is a lie. We lie about our names, some lie about where they're from, most providers lie about their age so how do you get any truth? Simple. You do not. How can you tell if someone is legitimate or not? Meet that person in real life, pull them aside and have an actual conversation with them .. etc. Sure there are a lot of douchebags here hiding behind nice guy acts but it's also the other way around. Do you see why I cannot be jealous of a provider? This is fantasy land -- NOTHING is real to me here LOL!

Ladies will be ladies, boys will be boys! Personally I could care less what they think, so long as it doesn't get in the way of my hobbying or board experience.

You are 100% right. It becomes a problem for example when I make a post and some provider or two providers start to pick apart each and every word I have written - it gets in the way of MY board experience. It may not happen to you but it does happen to others not just me. It's annoying. Sure I would love to tell them off but my biatch days are over.

I can't speak for what other guys do, but I try to keep it real! While my hobby habits are different than others I offer no explanation other than I'm a man whore, an attention whore and I'm having fun! That might not set right with some, but oh well, I don't lose any sleep over it! I don't need to get over anything! They are the ones with the issue not me! I just keep having fun here and while hobbying. They can just be pissed! I certainly can't control them, only myself!

True. True. True.

But if you think about it, isn't the root of insecurity selfishness? If someone wasn't selfish why would they be insecure? If someone is insecure why is that? They want to be like you? I think that might be correct. But really they are selfish because they just want to be YOU! Truthfully it’s a complement, it just doesn't feel like one! LOL If you spend more time being a better person and enjoying your life you spend less time caring about people who are selfish, jealous, insecure little babies! Let them figure it out! Enjoy your life! Just saying....

Agreed.

Now if none of this makes sense then by all means, get some T-Shirts made up, post your coming to Texas and start a national thread about your tour! They just love it when you do that! LOL

Nah... I think I'll pass on that. BTW you were just asking for trouble lol!!

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Originally Posted by Still Looking

How about we try this one instead! LOL

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lX63u9LEhdQ

If you see your brother standing by the road
With a heavy load from the seeds he's sowed
And if you see your sister falling by the way
Just stop and stay you're going the wrong way

You got to try a little kindness
Yes show a little kindness
Just shine your light for everyone to see
And if you try a little kindness
Then you'll overlook the blindness
Of narrow-minded people on the narrow-minded streets

Don't walk around the down and out
Lend a helping hand instead of doubt
And the kindness that you show every day
Will help someone along their way

You got to try a little kindness
Yes show a little kindness
Just shine your light for everyone to see
And if you try a little kindness
Then you'll overlook the blindness
Of narrow-minded people on the narrow-minded streets

You got to try a little kindness
Yes show a little kindness
Just shine your light for everyone to see
And if you try a little kindness
Then you'll overlook the blindness
Of narrow-minded people on the narrow-minded streets

Hahaha You tell me this all the time.

[Shayla]

Never found my jealous in the hobby world. I definitely was in the "real world" though. Almost everything I did involved some sort of competitiveness and I wasn't a good loser... haha.
Honestly, there isn't a lot to compare here to even be jealous of. Escorts aren't models and there is no set standard of what one should look/act like. It's a matter of opinion.
If you're comfortable in your own skin there is little room for jealousy.

[Still Looking]

I think I'm winning you over! LOL Zarah, unfortunately there are a few bad people out there; I'd be a liar if I denied that! But I feel there are a lot more good people that do bad things. You’re not going to win everyone over, but I bet you'll be surprised the enjoyment you'll experience winning over just a few. Look at them as friends you just haven't had the opportunity to meet!

Let me lead by example!

This goes out to my dream girl Shayla. I'm sure she wouldn't ever even think to give me the time of day! Why would she? She is sweet, hot and every guy in the damn would wants to be with her! Including my buddy Petite! I'm no different! So this one’s for you Shayla baby!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fnHHUWs4CgU

Mods it’s a real relaxing song. Please enjoy while Zarah is loading bullets in her gun! LOL

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Shayla

Never found my jealous in the hobby world. I definitely was in the "real world" though. Almost everything I did involved some sort of competitiveness and I wasn't a good loser... haha.
Honestly, there isn't a lot to compare here to even be jealous of. Escorts aren't models and there is no set standard of what one should look/act like. It's a matter of opinion.
If you're comfortable in your own skin there is little room for jealousy.

The defense Rests! LOL

[Naomi4u]

I think I'm winning you over! LOL Zarah, unfortunately there are a few bad people out there; I'd be a liar if I denied that! But I feel there are a lot more good people that do bad things. You’re not going to win everyone over, but I bet you'll be surprised the enjoyment you'll experience winning over just a few. Look at them as friends you just haven't had the opportunity to meet!


Mods it’s a real relaxing song. Please enjoy while Zarah is loading bullets in her gun! LOL

Bwahahahahha look at those people here as friends?? Must one of your funny jokes . To each their own of course

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Bwahahahahha look at those people here as friends?? Must one of your funny jokes . To each their own of course

I sense I'm softening you up Zarah! Can you say something nice about me? We once had a little disagreement, but aren't we OK now? I'm ok anyway.....come on now you know you can do it! I'm all but certain there is a sweetie under there somewhere. LOL