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Originally Posted by mwsatx
Looks like I'm in the minority here. I'm paying the bill, I'm going to get what I want. I definitely prefer submissive.
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I agree about ensuring you get what you pay for / want. I think that should have some sort of pre-amble (if you will) that sets the stage for the want of a session. Once that has been done (assuming you can be confident the provider is willing/able to provide) then I (personally) want to see her be more in control.
I don't think this is an all or nothing, for my dime I want a provider who has enough savvy to take social queues and can take the session in various ways. Typically this might mean a bit more seasoned or experienced provider.
Maybe that is part of the deal, the less experienced and/or potentially younger providers (maybe clients as well) gravitate toward the provider being more passive and the more experienced (yes maybe older) tend to gravitate toward the more aggressive provider?
