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Guest030714 · 08-23-2011, 07:57 AM

Actually I do tell all my friends I pay. Actually I say I pay for the girls to leave right after not for the actual sex. All the guys at work know I do it and I've actually gotten a few of them to try it. My dad knows but I don't really talk to my mom. Hell even one of my fuck buddies knew I did it. And if we all stood strong I'm sure we could get the laws changed. If we all protested and proved our case that it should be legal it could be. Look at Nevada.

MsElena · 08-23-2011, 08:02 AM

Well, then you're a better person than me.

Thanks for your understanding, its nice to know there's guys like you out there that support what's happened to me.

Guest030714 · 08-23-2011, 08:14 AM

That is support. You shouldn't have to hide what you do. Tell them all thats who you are and to take it or leave it. You like to pleasure men and you're very safe about it. Better then just being some girl who goes around foolishly giving it away to anyone and not being safe. I know a few girls like that. Stand up for your decisions in life. You're an adult who can make up your own mind. I'll admit I piss off people because I tell it like it is even you don't want to hear it.

MsElena · 08-23-2011, 08:22 AM

I'm done.

Y'all can fin for yourselves now. See ya.

ithooks · 08-23-2011, 08:48 AM

Good luck, and hang in there.

Marcus Aurelius · 08-23-2011, 10:45 AM

My friends and family know I pay to play....

But each person must be at ease with their own way of partaking.

burkalini · 08-23-2011, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by MsElena

I'm done.

Y'all can fin for yourselves now. See ya.

I know I said I'm out of the Neb thread but I just gotta chime in on this. I know you guys are trying to make Elena feel better but sometimes you got to sit back and think what it would be like if there were issues that you don't personally have. I know this as I too have just found out that someone who frequents this section has put my real name out there. Now I am single and am not worried for me but I do have a family that doesn't know as I am a father. I think it's the lowest thing someone can do. I feel alot of empathy for Elena as I completley understand how she feels. I also want to let you guys know that some of you are seeing a provider that if she gets mad at you will put your real name out for everyone to see. I understand if they put out your tag name but to out someones real name is the lowest of lows. Be careful guys because it can happen to you.

Guest030714 · 08-23-2011, 03:25 PM

thats true Burk but one of my many mottos is "If you don't want other people to know you're doing it, don't do it." You should never feel shame for doing something you want to do that doesn't hurt others. Not like that guy in CB who was fucking cats. That's just wrong on lots of levels. If you want to pay a girl to blow you, so be it. If you want to sleep with a guy for money, so be it. Better then those government contractors murdering people in the Middle East.

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TwistedMister · 08-23-2011, 04:42 PM

There's a difference between being ashamed of/proud of what you do and wanting the information public. We don't live in a bubble- our actions have consequences beyond how they affect us directly. And some poeple feel differently about this than others. This is where respect plays a large part.

burkalini · 08-23-2011, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by supersinister

thats true Burk but one of my many mottos is "If you don't want other people to know you're doing it, don't do it." You should never feel shame for doing something you want to do that doesn't hurt others. Not like that guy in CB who was fucking cats. That's just wrong on lots of levels. If you want to smoke a little weed, so be it. If you want to pay a girl to blow you, so be it. If you want to sleep with a guy for money, so be it. Better then those government contractors murdering people in the Middle East.

I don't care what the reason is unless its criminal actions against oneself anyone that's tied to this industry that puts out a real name is a low life scum bag. I have nothing but disgust for that type of person no matter provider or hobbyist.

Omahan · 08-23-2011, 06:14 PM

[Thought about it and edited it out - Omahan]

boomer_ci · 08-23-2011, 08:39 PM

Who is outing people?

It would be nice to know who to stay away from.

funlover402 · 08-23-2011, 08:39 PM

Elena,
You asked for ideas - tough one, maybe move?
Depends on what was done / said to whom.
I don't know enough to be more intelligent but would be glad to help in some way.
Including financially.
take care,
Steve

Guest121212 · 08-25-2011, 10:46 PM

I will certainly miss the opportunity to get together and socialize with everyone. I had a wonderful time at the last party I attended in Omaha. If there is anything at all I may do to help speed another date being set to meet again at sometime in the future, please do let me know. If there is any assistance I may lend otherwise, I believe everyone who knows me personally (or intimately) knows that I am always available to help a friend.

Kisses,

- Jackie