Sucks when you get shorted

[Lust4xxxLife]

If you post his handle here, everyone will know (now and in the future) that the guy is an ass and should be avoided.

If you don't post his handle here, many will think that you fully intend to see him again and the purpose of this post is to gain bargaining leverage.

[ItalianaPrincess]

Girl - Post his handle!!

I am posting an alert VERY similar to this tomorrow. I had a gent last Friday night short me in a very similar fashion.
Like your guy, he also promised to correct the issue the next day...
I've sent him 4 text messages, 1 PM and an email explaining to him that I would be giving him until this Friday to "make it right" with me or else I will have no other choice than to post an alert.

Don't worry, I WILL BE posting his handle.


...21 hours, 52 seconds left buddy. C'mon now!

[lisa.lisa0302]

Really?

Oh I see, she pissed him off, because she was trying to receive payment for a service he had gotten. Oh Okay.


How does one politely and graciously go about getting a payment when getting shorted. Im all ears, because I really really really think her check is not in the mail.

If you were shorted, how would you go about getting your payment, because I do not think a pretty young business woman such as your self would sit by the mailbox either.

Originally Posted by Shayla

I'm not condoning what he did to you, but perhaps the way you were contacting him was enough to piss him off. Calling and texting when he could potentially have a S/O? If this is the case, I can see why he said you have the wrong number.

[TonyStark]

Originally Posted by ItalianaPrincess

Girl - Post his handle!!

I am posting an alert VERY similar to this tomorrow. I had a gent last Friday night short me in a very similar fashion.
Like your guy, he also promised to correct the issue the next day...
I've sent him 4 text messages, 1 PM and an email explaining to him that I would be giving him until this Friday to "make it right" with me or else I will have no other choice than to post an alert.

Don't worry, I WILL BE posting his handle.


...21 hours, 52 seconds left buddy. C'mon now!

Could it be the same guy????

[LazurusLong]

Yes. Post his current handle.

Like way too many other guys who do shit like that, anyone want to take bets he has at least 2-3 OTHER spare handles just waiting to be used?

I'm curious as to how you screened him.

Did he call and say, Hello, I'm fake stolen handle XXX on ECCIE, let's get together?

Or did you collect P411 info and screen him that way?

WAY too many guys since ECCIE started claiming to be handles, including STAFF handles, where ladies are not screening properly.

Go look at how often Torito's handle has been stolen or any number of other guys on this site.

[Springfield]

What a prick, I would post his handle too.

[sweet.treat69]

I just wanted to say something and then I'm done posting on this thread, and you all can reply as you wish.
This thread is mainly to alert providers and give them an opportunity to contact me privately for his handle.
I don't feel that it is necessary to expose his handle to everyone. I feel that the guys urging me to post his handle will not benefit form me doing so. I know from reading the forum and other similar threads that situations like this erupt into total drama and chaos.. Not my style at all.
I'll say this again, and one last time:

I have absolutely NO problem giving any provider his handle.

As far as screening, I screened him like all my other clients: I contacted 2 providers he has seen before by phone, asked a couple basic questions, and both gave him the okay. He also has 5 other reviews, which I looked at, and a little over a dozen posts.

He is legit on ECCIE as far as I can tell, but like I said, you will come across a few assholes here and there on this site, regardless of how many reviews and posts he has, just like some providers have dozens of "Yes"s but she may not always be a happy ray of sunshine.

Girls, again, feel free to PM me for his handle.

[Shayla]

Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Really?

Oh I see, she pissed him off, because she was trying to receive payment for a service he had gotten. Oh Okay.


How does one politely and graciously go about getting a payment when getting shorted. Im all ears, because I really really really think her check is not in the mail.

If you were shorted, how would you go about getting your payment, because I do not think a pretty young business woman such as your self would sit by the mailbox either.

Honestly, I count it before the session even begins so this wouldn't be a likely scenario in my case.
Secondly, if by chance I did get shorted, the most I would do is send him a pm and if I didn't hear back then I would cut my losses. I'm not going to stress over some chunk change. That's just me, though.

[Guest021812-3]

Sweettreat,

1. Did he actually PM you from his handle, or did he contact you another way and just give you his handle?

2. The reason, IMO, that you should post his handle here is that it will permanently put him on everybody's radar, which will follow that handle around for quite some time. If you merely reveal it in PM's to providers, the only people who are alerted are those that happen to be logged on to eccie during the window of time that this thread stays on the front page.

[69er]

Ladies, you are not alone in this area.

I had a consultation with a lady recently, where I found out the donation posted on her showcase here, was not what she expected to be paid. Turns out she thought she had changed her rates, but failed to do so. So she wanted me to pay what she normally asks, rather than her special. I paid to avoid the fuss... but I'll never be back. I've beat myself up a bit about this as well, and decided that if this happens with any lady ever again... I'm walking.

So, getting screwed on the fee is not unique to the ladies here, happens to us gents as well.

[durango95]

Most hobbyist will not like this post but oh well. I was accused by a provider a long time ago of shorting her, and thats not my style, never have and never will.

So when the session is over, I present the "fee" and ask the lady to count the donation in front of me. Now most ladies the first time I see them kind of react surprised when I ask this, but the lady will count this and I have never had one complain afterward. Even if I have seen a lady four or five times, I ask them to count the fee in front of me, after a few times its all cool. Or if I am seeing a lady the first time for a longer date like at my place, I will hand them the donation up front and ask them to check the fee, again in front of me. I have always checked the fee and never had a problem. The lady will then relax and the illusion of GFE proceeds. This is not for everyone, but my way of making sure things are right. Just my 2 cents worth on how to handle the donation.

[Guest022315]

It's sweet treat call on this one. Let's respect her wishes and quit trying to pry it from her on this thread. Sweet Treats it does suck to lose out on the amount but i suspect you will make it back and then some.

To the hobbiest who did this At least pm Sweet or respond to this thread

[berkleigh]

Please POST IT

I have talked to several ladies lately and alot of this has been going on.

Could be the same guy or just assholes.

Sorry it happened to you.

[Guest021812-3]

Originally Posted by berkleigh

Please POST IT

I have talked to several ladies lately and alot of this has been going on.

Could be the same guy or just assholes.

Sorry it happened to you.

Why don't you have them post it too?

[berkleigh]

Originally Posted by TheBizz

Why don't you have them post it too?

We have and do...elsewhere.

I can't make a Provider post anything.
I can only suggest it and offer the info.
Its up to her based on the situation.

But I have spoke with several Ladies that I am in contact with daily and its ridiculous the amount of shorting, cancellations and NCNS that are occurring.


It happens to all us...whether a New Lady or a Well Known Provider