No AA...why?

[Iaintliein]

Originally Posted by THN

Ya we are about due for one of these.

I thought "Hey Ladies Do You Like Really Big Dicks" was next on the rotation?

We've covered "Selfies vs Pro Pictures" and "Gee I Just Last Too Long" and the inevitable point counterpoint on rates within the last month. And BBFS threads have become an everyday thing.

So I guess it's a toss up between dick size and dick color and dick color won! Maybe we will get another "My Dick Is Just Too Big" thread soon and can start over.

Perhaps the OP can get his answers here (or on any of the hundreds of similar threads around the board):
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=315600

[DFW_Ladies_Man]

I was just thinking to myself: "we haven't had an NBA thread in a while" and right on cue....

I personally don't like the NBA policy considering I think I'm pretty credible here on the board but fuck it. There are plenty of non NBA ladies that will gladly take my money.

Everyone assumes its a pimp telling the girl to have an NBA policy but from some ladies I have talked to were told by whatever lady is assisting them to have one. So dont just blame the pimps, some of the ladies on here are at fault too.

Another reason is because other clients give ladies shit for seeing AA, it ruins their business

Some myths:

not all AA men sling large cocks
not all AA men try to "destroy your pussy"
not all AA men are unhygienic or uneducated

People need to stop watching black porn assuming that we run around here with 10 inch dicks. Those dudes are in porn for a reason.

It saddens me to think that some of theses ladies are approached by my fellow AA's out there with their pants hanging off their asses, hair looking crazy, not even speaking proper english, and trying to get a session with some of our well respected ladies on eccie. I don't even hang out with dudes like that so I can understand why a provider would shy away from seeing an AA that approached her looking like that. (I did just stereotype the fuck out of us didn't I?)

Anyhow, not all ladies that say NBA are NBA. I have seen plenty of ladies who claim they are in print, but just simply ask them in a private message, and be ready for some light screening. You probably won't get to review them either but so what.

[Iaintliein]

Originally Posted by txboi817

I was just thinking to myself: "we haven't had an NBA thread in a while" and right on cue....

I personally don't like the NBA policy considering I think I'm pretty credible here on the board but fuck it. There are plenty of non NBA ladies that will gladly take my money.

Everyone assumes its a pimp telling the girl to have an NBA policy but from some ladies I have talked to were told by whatever lady is assisting them to have one. So dont just blame the pimps, some of the ladies on here are at fault too.

Another reason is because other clients give ladies shit for seeing AA, it ruins their business

Some myths:

not all AA men sling large cocks
not all AA men try to "destroy your pussy"
not all AA men are unhygienic or uneducated

People need to stop watching black porn assuming that we run around here with 10 inch dicks. Those dudes are in porn for a reason.

It saddens me to think that some of theses ladies are approached by my fellow AA's out there with their pants hanging off their asses, hair looking crazy, not even speaking proper english, and trying to get a session with some of our well respected ladies on eccie. I don't even hang out with dudes like that so I can understand why a provider would shy away from seeing an AA that approached her looking like that. (I did just stereotype the fuck out of us didn't I?)

Anyhow, not all ladies that say NBA are NBA. I have seen plenty of ladies who claim they are in print, but just simply ask them in a private message, and be ready for some light screening. You probably won't get to review them either but so what.

Very well said. The cultural trap so many fall into will burden them their whole lives. You don't have to be ghetto to be black, and you don't have to be black to be ghetto.

Regards,
IAL

[Guest110416]

Originally Posted by FriskyGambino

Not trying to start a hate post, but I'm just genuinely interested in some of the reasonings why some ladies say no AA. Weird thing is my current ATF posts no AA but still sees me on the regular (I'm black btw). I guess I'm trying to figure out which providers say "NBA" but are still willing to see black guys.

I will not venture a guess why a provider has an NBA policy because I do not care, I am not AA. A good way to show a provider your displeasure in her business practices (either forced on her or otherwise), is by just taking your business elsewhere. Your money will spend and pay bills like any other guy's money will, so fuck her.

All the myths about AA men are a blanket statement are usually made by the education, or lack thereof, of the provider or her handler. Some may be true, some not, but keep in mind, those myths are also true with other races as well (pimps, having bigger than normal dicks, tearing the pussy up, asking for discounts, wants the provider to be his true friend/girlfriend, ect.).

It really does not matter why a provider has the rules she does and she does not need to explain her rules to anyone, it is her body. Besides, if she gave one, what explanation why a provider has an NBA policy would suffice an AA man?

Originally Posted by txboi817

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Anyhow, not all ladies that say NBA are NBA. I have seen plenty of ladies who claim they are in print, but just simply ask them in a private message, and be ready for some light screening. You probably won't get to review them either but so what.

But why jump through hoops if you do not have to? You do not want to review her because you might like to see her again or she asked/told you not to review? Unless she has a no review policy (which none do that advertise on the internet), I will never let a provider tell me I cannot review her, as that is my option to do/not do as a paying client.

[johnniewalkerblack]

I'm AA and proud of it. I'm also a Gentleman, and proud of that too.

If provider doesn't want to see AA men, then that's her choice. Move on. Too many great ladies here that do see AA men.

When I lived in Chicago, this is what a AA provider told me why some providers have this attitude:

1. Majority of AA men try to haggle on pricing
2. Many AA men try to treat the provider as if the provider was their girlfriend

She said while this happens with other races, it occurs more with AA men.

[DFW_Ladies_Man]

Originally Posted by davidfree986

It really does not matter why a provider has the rules she does and she does not need to explain her rules to anyone, it is her body. Besides, if she gave one, what explanation why a provider has an NBA policy would suffice an AA man?

good question and there really isn't an answer to that. But look at it this way: When I reach out to a provider I have to ask if she's AA friendly. Not a problem but I do like to check instead of showing up and getting turned away. now that goes one or two ways

1) she ask: how old are you? do you have references? do you use magmums?

2) she just says no.

sometimes she will ask me if I'm AA and of course I tell her. but if I wasn't AA her next response would be: When do you want to see me and how long.

I have heard every excuse under the sun but as you said, it is THEIR PREFERENCE. and I'm cool with that. I guess i'm just advocating for us "good ones" who just like to hobby. I get it there are bad apples out there but there are plenty of us AA guys that are respected here in the community that really shouldn't have any problems seeing ladies what so ever.

I have a long list of ladies I'd LOVE to see but can't, because of the reasons listed in the thread. To the OP, if they don't want to see you, fuck it...move on. When rent is due or business is slow, they will go through their PM's and see you wanted to see them. Then hit you up trying to give you a "sympathy session" just ignore them.

[NinaReneé]

I've had many issues with aa men when I starred in 2014. From being followed from my hotel to getting my tires slashed. Rude and disrespectful even from the older men. I'm not completely against seeing aa men I see them over 50.

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by txboi817

People need to stop watching black porn assuming that we run around here with 10 inch dicks.

I didn't learn it from black porn.. I heard about it from my 1950's "race records" collection.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rws_7mLTqj8

[DFW_Ladies_Man]

Originally Posted by davidfree986

But why jump through hoops if you do not have to? You do not want to review her because you might like to see her again or she asked/told you not to review? Unless she has a no review policy (which none do that advertise on the internet), I will never let a provider tell me I cannot review her, as that is my option to do/not do as a paying client.

i wouldn't consider it jumping through hoops, but again you aren't AA so you don't get to experience the issues we have with scheduling. see my sig, i don't discriminate with what race I see but I also like to branch out and see new girls from time to time. (as many of us guys do) At one point when I first started hobbying i realized most of us AA guys here were just cycling through the same ladies while everyone else was able to have their pick of the litter. If a girl decides to see me despite her NBA policy and her preference is to ask me to NOT review her, then I won't. (unless its a dangerous situation that warrants me to notify others) I do that for HER business because there are a lot of racist guys in here that will black ball her. Don't blame me, blame society.

[DFW_Ladies_Man]

Originally Posted by NinaReneé

I've had many issues with aa men when I starred in 2014. From being followed from my hotel to getting my tires slashed. Rude and disrespectful even from the older men. I'm not completely against seeing aa men I see them over 50.

over 50? damn? I guess I gotta wait a while to see you :-) I'd be interested in seeing how many dallas AA men on eccie are over 50. I'm not kncoking your preference but damn can some of us AA guys between 30-49 get a chance!

[Velvetangeltouch]

Man slur really nailed it! I've had men say that crap before we had an appointment. I don't do arrogant or egotistical.. And it is preference. But I learned a lot like to get something for nothing. I love the ones that are can we be fwb babe.. Hell no!! Nothing in life's free.. I tend to tell them you wand a fwb go get a gf..

[Velvetangeltouch]

Man slut really nailed it! I've had men say that crap before we had an appointment. I don't do arrogant or egotistical.. And it is preference. But I learned a lot like to get something for nothing. I love the ones that are can we be fwb babe.. Hell no!! Nothing in life's free.. I tend to tell them you want a fwb go get a gf. I'm the girl next door type but when men act like that over time we have to have this wall to keep from getting rail roaded.

[Brandee69]

Originally Posted by txboi817

i wouldn't consider it jumping through hoops, but again you aren't AA so you don't get to experience the issues we have with scheduling. see my sig, i don't discriminate with what race I see but I also like to branch out and see new girls from time to time. (as many of us guys do) At one point when I first started hobbying i realized most of us AA guys here were just cycling through the same ladies while everyone else was able to have their pick of the litter. If a girl decides to see me despite her NBA policy and her preference is to ask me to NOT review her, then I won't. (unless its a dangerous situation that warrants me to notify others) I do that for HER business because there are a lot of racist guys in here that will black ball her. Don't blame me, blame society.

Unfortunately true....

[CaptCroakers]

Because you're in Texas

[TexasCowboy]

Myself look at all races and ethnic cultures being equal, do not discriminate against anyone. Enjoy the presence of AA and ethnic women making love to them in the bedroom is fantastic. There are good and bad individuals from all races and ethnic groups in life both man and women.