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Originally Posted by Naughty_Jezabelle
I got called a "slut" once and I said no sir... a slut fucks everyone for free... I grew out of that stage LMAO...
Who cares if they think we are sluts... I for one get turned on when I am bent over getting pounded and he says you are a little slut... I think that makes me explode immediately.
We provide a service... this is a business... not all customers in a business are gonna be easy to please.. but this is what we have chosen to do. It was a choice.. end of story.
True there are some lines that shouldn't be crossed. But them feeling the way that they do about us.. is their business not ours. Our purpose is to be pleasing. If there are certain things you don't want to deal with put it in your advertisement.
They aren't here for us we are here for them. IMHO...
Disclaimer: This message was in no way intended to start a fight or argument. I am not trying to offend any persons. And no animals were harmed in this message.
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I agree with you Jez, and as you say we are here for them- that is most true.
But I also think I deserve to be treated with respect and dignity. Sometimes, no matter what one puts in their advertisement, it does not get read or taken to point. It is pasted all over my website and still I get some "jerks" calling me. Some people, I think only read the rate and call you. It happens everyday to so many providers. There is proof if it everywhere. This also comes with the territory and "choice" we made but if WE dont demand respect and dignity and uphold those values to some point, we are just asking to be trampled all over and THAT is something I completely refuse to do, period. If we dont uphold our own values- no one is going to do it for us.
Just because I do what I do, does not give anyone the right to disrespect me in any way, shape or form. This is how I think of "most" human life. I do believe and agree that respect is a two way street. I give it and so, I expect to get it. Just because society, as a whole, does not agree or like what we do and is ready to judge and condemn us, I have and will conduct myself with integrity at all times. That is something I will never allow anyone to take from me. No one will make me feel cheap or use me. I will not allow it. If that makes me a bitch- so be it. If it makes me unappealing to the minority- so be it. I lose no sleep over it. I will be respected. I am a human being regardless of what society or anyone else may think or label a provider as being.
Thanks for your post, Jez. You have a wonderful way with words.
Respectfully,
Kelli Ann Preston
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