Need advice about 18 yo sugar baby.

[Say What]

Just start going to a different strip club. You owe her nothing. Or, make her the proposition you can afford. She'll take it or she won't. Either way, great.

[FunMonday]

Originally Posted by darkmoonmaster

I’m not rich , I only do ok in my small business. I can’t longer support her for too long. I thought this about being a sugar daddy would be more cheaper than hiring providers. All this starterd as a fantasy as I’ve never been with a teen before .
Her fuckings skills are ok but her oral skills needs some work, it’s ok because because she’s only 18.

Yeah , a lot of drama with this girl. She cries all the time on my chest.
She’s (edit by staff) and likes to party the whole night. Spends money like there’s is no tomorrow. I think she does all these to disappoint her dad, because he never took care of her.

I still want to see her cheaper like only spend tops $1k per week on her and still be friend with her. That’s the reason I suggested her a few times that I’m ok if she starts seeing other gentlemen, I’m not jealous.

If you spent that on 2-3 quality, drama free providers each week I’m absolutely positive you would not be hung up on this one. And do her a favor. Stop enabling her bad habits! Tough “love” man. Drop that shit before you have a bunch of problems.

[Massagejunkyie69]

^^^^ Don't blame the sugar baby's when you thought it would be cheaper. I've been a sugar daddy for a couple of years and my pay per meet allowance is typically $200 and sometimes I'll go up to $300 if she's into anal.

If you really offering her $2000 a week, that's $104,000 per year, or $8600 a month. That's far from "cheaper" than escorts.

For me, the difference between a sugar baby and an escort is the hourly clock watching mentality. Is it $200 an hour? Then she's a hooker. If its $200 per date, then she's a pseudo sugar baby and will spend either 30 minutes with you or all night - all for the same $200.

if you really want to keep seeing her, then it might be time to break it off. If feelings are developing - then she could wind up taking you for far more than what she's currently getting from you.

Like others have said, its time to tell her that you want to go to a regular allowance of about $500 per week with at least 2 visits a week (or something similar). She might take you up on it for a few weeks, then ghost you, or she might ghost you right away.

The other thing you could do is offer to pay some of her bills in exchange for cash. Tell her you want to be a "real sugar daddy" and not someone who simply pays cash to young woman. (that might impress her). Then offer to pay her apartment rent and as time goes on, you can add in other bills as you see fit.

Hope it works out for you.

[Guest042522]

Listen to massage junkie. Tell her you like her and want to see her, but can’t afford that cost. Offer her $500/ week and work somewhat around her schedule.

I hope you’ve had a vasectomy. If you haven’t been using one....well, I’m not sure what to say.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

for 1K a week you could have 2-3 ladies a day and get the best BJ or other skills way mess with a 18yr with skills that are just okay -how old are you ?

Originally Posted by darkmoonmaster

I’m not rich , I only do ok in my small business. I can’t longer support her for too long. I thought this about being a sugar daddy would be more cheaper than hiring providers. All this starterd as a fantasy as I’ve never been with a teen before .
Her fuckings skills are ok but her oral skills needs some work, it’s ok because because she’s only 18.

Yeah , a lot of drama with this girl. She cries all the time on my chest.
She’s into drugs and likes to party the whole night. Spends money like there’s is no tomorrow. I think she does all these to disappoint her dad, because he never took care of her.

I still want to see her cheaper like only spend tops $1k per week on her and still be friend with her. That’s the reason I suggested her a few times that I’m ok if she starts seeing other gentlemen, I’m not jealous.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

100%

Originally Posted by FunMonday

If you spent that on 2-3 quality, drama free providers each week I’m absolutely positive you would not be hung up on this one. And do her a favor. Stop enabling her bad habits! Tough “love” man. Drop that shit before you have a bunch of problems.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

For sure ,,

Originally Posted by DownForWhatever

Amen and Hallelujah!

[FunMonday]

Originally Posted by Michelle ma Belle

Listen to massage junkie. Tell her you like her and want to see her, but can’t afford that cost. Offer her $500/ week and work somewhat around her schedule.

I hope you’ve had a vasectomy. If you haven’t been using one....well, I’m not sure what to say.

Not trying to be an ass but if she gets knocked up it might be a challenge to figure out who the daddy is. But if you give her a lot of money every month I’m sure she’s not opposed to you being the daddy. I cringe every time I hear these stories. I steer clear of young women and women with bad habits.

[Billogoods]

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[Precious_b]

Go back to business school.
You negotiated this arrangement very badly.
Start again with another.
And strike a bargain that both parties like.

[SeV]

I can’t speak for anyone else, nor will I remotely try. My sugar daddy gives me roughly 2K a month. When we travel together he covers expenses, makes sure his truck is full of gas when he entrusts it to me. He gives me a shopping allowance when he goes to his games or his purpose for us being there. These are things he does of his own volition. I do not ask, I do not need to and I believe this is what keeps our relationship beneficial to both sides. We bond over meals, movies and romantic endeavors. Money isn’t everything, simply paper turned necessity. I much rather have what I need, things like lumber bundles or materials for the A Frame, ordered directly and delivered to me instead of paper given directly. This is just my personal tastes, and I truly believe I never will connect with someone my age (24-25). perhaps this girl is like myself (minus the daddy issues), and just craves consistency and stability. The option is there to see others and occasionally I will accept someone I find truly fascinating, like the gentleman who wrote my latest review. I hope perhaps this will enlighten you on some level, from someone in arrangement. Best of luck OP and remember most reviewers here have never had a sugar baby and it is believed that 99% of companions cannot be sugar babies . Be careful who you accept advice from, especially if they’ve never been in similar shoes because anyone and everyone can form an opinion.

[FireKitten]

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[darkmoonmaster]

Yeah it’s never a win to win situation. I wish she would understand my situation
But if she finds better options than mine, good for her and I wish her good luck .
I’ll miss her but life continues. The only thing I know I was straight forward with her, respect her and I took care of her. Maybe a few years later we meet up again or not. Thanks you all.

[darkwader]

Originally Posted by SeV

I can’t speak for anyone else, nor will I remotely try. My sugar daddy gives me roughly 2K a month. When we travel together he covers expenses, makes sure his truck is full of gas when he entrusts it to me. He gives me a shopping allowance when he goes to his games or his purpose for us being there. These are things he does of his own volition. I do not ask, I do not need to and I believe this is what keeps our relationship beneficial to both sides. We bond over meals, movies and romantic endeavors. Money isn’t everything, simply paper turned necessity. I much rather have what I need, things like lumber bundles or materials for the A Frame, ordered directly and delivered to me instead of paper given directly. This is just my personal tastes, and I truly believe I never will connect with someone my age (24-25). perhaps this girl is like myself (minus the daddy issues), and just craves consistency and stability. The option is there to see others and occasionally I will accept someone I find truly fascinating, like the gentleman who wrote my latest review. I hope perhaps this will enlighten you on some level, from someone in arrangement. Best of luck OP and remember most reviewers here have never had a sugar baby and it is believed that 99% of companions cannot be sugar babies . Be careful who you accept advice from, especially if they’ve never been in similar shoes because anyone and everyone can form an opinion.

[SeV]

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