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Originally Posted by mediavolume
Just make it an eyes wide shut type party.
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Been to those and they are fun, no doubt. Not a great idea in the Hobby though, for many reasons. Some will fantasize that it will be as in the movie. However, these parties are only authentic and as meant with a certain, "type" of individual. Being fit, knowing how to behave or follow rules, and having a lot of "money", are high on the list, especially if escorts are involved. It's the difference between trashcan punch bonfire parties and ballroom dances, so to speak. If you fantasize about participating in such a party, ya might have to step up your game if you really want an optimal experience, or even something close to what is depicted in the movie.
However, if you are just playing dress up with the good ole boys who inappropriately grab asses and whatnot and try to mix those with a more "refined" type of gent, along with the bimbo's mixed with the more polished ladies, then it would be more like a Halloween event. I really don't mean to sound snooty, or judge another, but I do have the experience and they are
very different. I can fit in with most crowds and always have fun, so I have enjoyed both types, but realized some were disappointed, because they were seeking the fantasy the movie portrayed, but got the latter of the two I described. Fantasies are great, but the less you are able to ensure certain aspects when you play them out, some can be, kinda disappointing.
I wouldn't go to a Hooker/John party now, no matter how much I was paid to attend. Too many variables to consider, especially since there are a few shady characters among us, who may or may not manage to figure a way to jeopardize, all that some hold dear and don't wanna lose. ijs If it were only the more elite and swinger types and it was available by invite only, then yes, I'd go. They understand the need for the safety and discretion of all, and they go outta their way to ensure it.