GFE?

[Guest062317-1]

Hotrix, I don't think you could have said it and better.

And Stella, welcome to the Miss Community sexy

[hotrix1]

Originally Posted by Flora

Hotrix, I don't think you could have said it and better.

Unfortunately, it still is a business arrangement although there's a friend connection but there's just no emotional attachments allowed. On this level it isn't quite a REAL LIFE GF experience but for the time allotted it's an escape from reality where one assumes a role for the moment. Some are just better at it than others.

I for one, do wish that more providers understood that about the GFE principle being a fantasy of having a GF that could be both mentally and physically stimulating and satisfying without having the RL responsibilties and emotional trauma when the provider ends their appointed time together. Unlike a RL GF where there's so much drama involved it hardly justifies the incursion into emotionally charged situations for the amount of effort, time and money to just wind up getting both parties hurt and disappointed in the end.

[Guest062317-1]

I am going to throw my perspective out there with the way I feel about the whole "GFE" thing...
Being an independent escort, is a business and strictly that. Time and companionship are what's paid for. Who is ever to know what exactly is going to transpire. I have had appointments with gentlemen over the years that is has become strictly nothing more than a very engaging platonic friendship, in which enjoyment of conversation and meals shared or just going out and doing stuff that is not related to the acronyms of hobbying.

"GFE" is a loosely used term. The discussion could go on for days.

I would have to say that if a man were to judge me, I would fall into the non-gfe category...but in my own category. I don't engage in a lot of the acronyms that gfe is affiliated with because to me I have to have boundaries and those boundaries are not applicable in my RL relationship. Most of you know that CIM is THE sacred kiss for me and I have only shared this with under a handful of men in my RL. It had been stated in reviews that this has happened and it pisses me off to no end, because it has never happened. Why the need to feel to stretch things out there is beyond me. I'll never understand...

I am a unique provider, I guess...
I absolutely have to get to know someone on a mental level (purely platonic). I guess you could say I'm a whore with morals. I can never give a man in the hobby a fake illusion, in a time frame, the true experience they are looking for because my heart and mind are with someone else whom I love dearly.

Like I said, it's business. What you see is what you get. The real me.

[stone cold911]

Thanks Hotrix great comment . Just what i was thinkin about.
I the i key is chemistry an attraction on both sides.
Happy hunting and play safe.

[SknyDiva]

I gotta go to the Mississippi gulf coast. Lots of fun to be had.

[SknyDiva]

Originally Posted by Flora

I am going to throw my perspective out there with the way I feel about the whole "GFE" thing...
Being an independent escort, is a business and strictly that. Time and companionship are what's paid for. Who is ever to know what exactly is going to transpire. I have had appointments with gentlemen over the years that is has become strictly nothing more than a very engaging platonic friendship, in which enjoyment of conversation and meals shared or just going out and doing stuff that is not related to the acronyms of hobbying.

"GFE" is a loosely used term. The discussion could go on for days.

I would have to say that if a man were to judge me, I would fall into the non-gfe category...but in my own category. I don't engage in a lot of the acronyms that gfe is affiliated with because to me I have to have boundaries and those boundaries are not applicable in my RL relationship. Most of you know that CIM is THE sacred kiss for me and I have only shared this with under a handful of men in my RL. It had been stated in reviews that this has happened and it pisses me off to no end, because it has never happened. Why the need to feel to stretch things out there is beyond me. I'll never understand...

I am a unique provider, I guess...
I absolutely have to get to know someone on a mental level (purely platonic). I guess you could say I'm a whore with morals. I can never give a man in the hobby a fake illusion, in a time frame, the true experience they are looking for because my heart and mind are with someone else whom I love dearly.

Like I said, it's business. What you see is what you get. The real me.

I'm a Little freakier Flora.

[rrabbit6926]

Originally Posted by Flora

I am going to throw my perspective out there with the way I feel about the whole "GFE" thing...
Being an independent escort, is a business and strictly that. Time and companionship are what's paid for. Who is ever to know what exactly is going to transpire. I have had appointments with gentlemen over the years that is has become strictly nothing more than a very engaging platonic friendship, in which enjoyment of conversation and meals shared or just going out and doing stuff that is not related to the acronyms of hobbying.

"GFE" is a loosely used term. The discussion could go on for days.

I would have to say that if a man were to judge me, I would fall into the non-gfe category...but in my own category. I don't engage in a lot of the acronyms that gfe is affiliated with because to me I have to have boundaries and those boundaries are not applicable in my RL relationship. Most of you know that CIM is THE sacred kiss for me and I have only shared this with under a handful of men in my RL. It had been stated in reviews that this has happened and it pisses me off to no end, because it has never happened. Why the need to feel to stretch things out there is beyond me. I'll never understand...

I am a unique provider, I guess...
I absolutely have to get to know someone on a mental level (purely platonic). I guess you could say I'm a whore with morals. I can never give a man in the hobby a fake illusion, in a time frame, the true experience they are looking for because my heart and mind are with someone else whom I love dearly.

Like I said, it's business. What you see is what you get. The real me.

CIM the sacred kiss? Really I would think Greek would be more private but the each their own.

[Guest062317-1]

Yes rabbit, everybody has their different boundary. Mine is swallowing a man's seed. It's a very personal and intimate exchange

[biomed1]

Originally Posted by Flora

I am going to throw my perspective out there with the way I feel about the whole "GFE" thing...
Being an independent escort, is a business and strictly that. Time and companionship are what's paid for. Who is ever to know what exactly is going to transpire. I have had appointments with gentlemen over the years that is has become strictly nothing more than a very engaging platonic friendship, in which enjoyment of conversation and meals shared or just going out and doing stuff that is not related to the acronyms of hobbying.

"GFE" is a loosely used term. The discussion could go on for days.

I would have to say that if a man were to judge me, I would fall into the non-gfe category...but in my own category. I don't engage in a lot of the acronyms that gfe is affiliated with because to me I have to have boundaries and those boundaries are not applicable in my RL relationship. Most of you know that CIM is THE sacred kiss for me and I have only shared this with under a handful of men in my RL. It had been stated in reviews that this has happened and it pisses me off to no end, because it has never happened. Why the need to feel to stretch things out there is beyond me. I'll never understand...

I am a unique provider, I guess...
I absolutely have to get to know someone on a mental level (purely platonic). I guess you could say I'm a whore with morals. I can never give a man in the hobby a fake illusion, in a time frame, the true experience they are looking for because my heart and mind are with someone else whom I love dearly.

Like I said, it's business. What you see is what you get. The real me.

Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

CIM the sacred kiss? Really I would think Greek would be more private but the each their own.

Originally Posted by Flora

Yes rabbit, everybody has their different boundary. Mine is swallowing a man's seed. It's a very personal and intimate exchange

Definitions apparently differ from place to place.

CIM does not equate to Swallowing in most parts of the US.

BBBJTCWS or BBBJNQNS would typically mean that Swallowing will happen.

The comments above are only to point out a variance in definitions that appear to be regional.

They are not a comment; nor are they a judgement, about you or your rules for running your business.

Biomed1

[Guest062317-1]

I know biomed😙. I just always associated cim with the whole swallowing thing. Just can see a woman holding it on her tongue or in her mouth for a minute and running to the bathroom. I'd rather not even go there.

No judgements assumed

[rrabbit6926]

Flora,

I can see your point on the intimate exchange. Myself I pride myself when a woman swallows for me, especially if I prep for the date and want my juices to not be displeasing. One question and this one is more a joke then anything else. If swallowing is considered an intimate exchange, what do you consider snow balling?

[Guest062317-1]

Lol honestly...I just had to look that up. For me...that would be weird. What makes some men like that?

[rrabbit6926]

No telling. It isn't my thing either.

[Guest062317-1]

Lol

[Brer Rabbit]

Originally Posted by Flora

Lol honestly...I just had to look that up. For me...that would be weird. What makes some men like that?

I guess I am ignorant in such matters. I had to look it up too. Too far out there for me. Not knocking those who participate (whatever floats your boat), but . . .

Nope.