Houstons crazy verification demands....

[Cendell M]

No I got some shitty post uneducated post from way back. I’ve grown out of the Eccie from then.But thank you for the compliment Lexus Lover!!

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by Cendell M

No I got some shitty post uneducated post from way back. I’ve grown out of the Eccie from then.But thank you for the compliment Lexus Lover!!

Integrity has nothing to do with "liking" someone and has little to do with others' opinions. That's sort of why those in high school who get the "Mostly Likely To Succeed" don't. It was a popularity contest. And usually people with integrity these days aren't "popular"!

[Cendell M]

I thought this was integrity

Integrity is the practice of being honest and showing a consistent and uncompromising adherence to strong moral and ethical principles and values.[1][2][3] In ethics, integrity is regarded as the honesty and truthfulness or accuracy of one's actions. Integrity can stand in opposition to hypocrisy,[4] in that judging with the standards of integrity involves regarding internal consistency as a virtue, and suggests that parties holding within themselves apparently conflicting values should account for the discrepancy or alter their beliefs. The word integrity evolved from the Latin adjective integer, meaning whole or complete.[1] In this context, integrity is the inner sense of "wholeness" deriving from qualities such as honesty and consistency of character.[5] As such, one may judge that others "have integrity" to the extent that they act according to the values, beliefs and principles they claim to

Didn’t know it was a popular situation, I guess it’s not a compliment? Sorry if I’m showing ignorance. I choose to see it as a compliment. If I’m not “popular “ then I’m just as fine with that too.

[Majichands]

Originally Posted by winn dixie

They all have major gps. LC has better choices

Guess I am Having a blonde moment.
LC is what?
I have a twitter that is not associated with any family stuff. That can only be done with 2 separate phones.
Most guys are not verified on oh2 but with all your posts and reviews on here you should of been ok.
I know so many who screen so much they chase away then bitch because they are slow.


Sorry you could not find fun while you where here.

[bbkid]

I've no dog in this hunt other than to say that after reading this thread that I'm lovin' me some Cendell.

[Cendell M]

Originally Posted by bbkid

I've no dog in this hunt other than to say that after reading this thread that I'm lovin' me some Cendell.

Thanks babe love u too doll. MUAH

[Jackie S]

Originally Posted by Cendell M

Thanks babe love u too doll. MUAH

Cendell, check your PM’s

[bigstickdave6969]

Originally Posted by Majichands

Guess I am Having a blonde moment.
LC is what?
I have a twitter that is not associated with any family stuff. That can only be done with 2 separate phones.
Most guys are not verified on oh2 but with all your posts and reviews on here you should of been ok.
I know so many who screen so much they chase away then bitch because they are slow.


Sorry you could not find fun while you where here.

LC IS Listcrawler.

[jrttx]

Many are asking for employer info like LinkedIn and some are even asking for DOB or copy of DL showing DOB. Seems like a lot of private info to give up. They say they ‘destroy’ it after verifying but how do we know for sure? Also with that info they could almost do serious identity theft. And let’s not even discuss possibility of someone hacking them.

[purplepimp]

Hell, I've been lurking here and on OH2 for years. The number one thing that keeps me from pulling the trigger (and from spending entirely too much money, if I'm being honest) are the verification requirements.

I understand the necessity, I suppose - a woman has to feel safe, because of course she does, but there is NO WAY I'm going to send a stranger a copy of my driver's license OR tell them where I work.

Also, like another poster mentioned above, this is basically a once every 1-2 years thing for me, so I wouldn't be able to provide the whole 'x-number of references from the last 6 months' either.

It is what it is, though.

Anyway. Please understand - I'm not bitching. It's just the reality of the situation for many of us.

[Dorian Gray]

What I read was blah blah blah....
No one gives a fuck. Follow their rules or short on your room crying jerking of to cuckold porn

[JJ8901]

Ugh.... If you want to see a provider..... Follow her rules.

Sheesh.... noobs make giving references and following basic protocol sounds like climbing kilimanjaro....

[Italia DiBella]

True
Tis is the business

[Blaze7]

Originally Posted by purplepimp

The number one thing that keeps me from pulling the trigger are the verification requirements.



Many are asking for employer info ... or LinkedIn . . . and even a copy of your DL

There's been many a tempting ad, or reviews on a board, that I have had to pass on. I guess I'm "paranoid" or something but that kind of 'verification' is Very Hard for me to do. Where I am - Denver area - I've been able to see a few that "required" that kind of screening by giving my username on eccie or ToB (a Denver thing) or TER. Some will see I've posted for years, and even PM me on the board to clarify more. Others restate what's "required" and I have to move on.

[Cendell M]

Originally Posted by jrttx

Many are asking for employer info like LinkedIn and some are even asking for DOB or copy of DL showing DOB. Seems like a lot of private info to give up. They say they ‘destroy’ it after verifying but how do we know for sure? Also with that info they could almost do serious identity theft. And let’s not even discuss possibility of someone hacking them.

Don’t be overdramatic