Im thinking about dating an escort

[Keyzer Soze]

The advise the three ladies who have posted, pretty much says it all. Good luck.

[blasphemouse]

Former means she's not no more?

The past is the past. If you keep bringing it up, it won't stay a past though... It's up to you two to decide if you let it be the past and move on and carve out a new future, or have it be a piece of the puzzle in your new relationship.

Bottom line, if you really care for someone and want to be with them, ask yourself if you really want to lose that person due to what she decided to do as an occupation in the past? She may have been a provider, but remember, there are people who do just as much or if not more in civi worlds. (For free! Preposterous.) Just saying.

Best of luck.

[bearf15amc]

The emotional boundaries are the problem. At first no big deal but that will be the honeymoon time... then there is reality if she continues to provide. It can be done and has been done and will be done...

[jimmyww]

get past the dating part get married to a escort I am . no guys not taking her away from any one. we can fake it till we make it.

[Bob McV]

If it is the right time and the right person then no reason not to seek / define a relationship, but I do have to say I feel LMCC nails it

Originally Posted by Little Miss Cuntcakes

Dont take this wrong....
But if you've got to ask if it's a good idea, it's probably not.

[Chincho]

What most don't want to say out loud and offend their favorite hookers is that they view hookers as "damaged goods".

[Exithere]

Originally Posted by Nerdguy

Im 26 and I went to see an escort (former schoolgirl) and i was wondering if it was a good idea? We've been texting fairly often and the mention never comes up unless I bring it up. I was wondering if im taking a big chance or if any escort could give an idea if this is a good idea or not.

It sounds like you are more interested in dating than she is if you are the one initiating the discussion.

FWIW, even if there is mutual interest, I'd venture that the odds are against you having a successful long term relationship without a lot of maturity and good communication.

[WestCoastWendii]

Just play within the rules.... you'll have a lot less stress this way. This isn't a dating site, it's a site to get your rocks off. Good luck.

[RichardRamirez]

Originally Posted by Chincho

What most don't want to say out loud and offend their favorite hookers is that they view hookers as "damaged goods".

or hookers calling hookers damaged goods ! nice !!!

its not ok do date a whore , but its ok for whores to have kids , here there congratulating a whore for having a kid, talk about values ! http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1243416 so much contradiction

i say do it ! fuck it ! fuck it real good !

[Chincho]

^ He did not suggest going bareback with her or starting a family and that's not the topic! The topic is dating not baby making, dating is not some big huge deal in the beginning.

[NikkiWhite]

Originally Posted by RichardRamirez

or hookers calling hookers damaged goods ! nice !!!

its not ok do date a whore , but its ok for whores to have kids , here there congratulating a whore for having a kid, talk about values ! http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1243416 so much contradiction

i say do it ! fuck it ! fuck it real good !

Nobody said whores don't deserve love or families

I seriously doubt she has a client's baby .

We are talking about the transition from client/provider to bf/gf not condemning people here for having personal lives.

[BD1969]

Well if you go to Jaz page and her picture is still listed... Good luck.. If your ok with her providing while your dating. . You a big man..

[flinde]

Oh, go for it. I can think of a couple people it worked out ok.

Mrs flinde #2 was a dancer (stage name JJ) three Mrs flinde's ago. Seemed fucked up at the time, the divorce proceedings lasted longer than the marriage, cost a lot of money etc etc, but looking back, hey, how many of you dumbfucks can say you were stupid enough to marry a stripper?

Makes for some great stories. Current Mrs flinde, MD loves me to tell my stripper stories to all her dorky doctor friends.

Old JJ made picking up strippers lots easier - she brought one home with her after work at the TOTS every now and then.

All things considered, with the hindsight of 26 years - fuck - I'm glad I was dumb enough to marry that stripper. I like to piss off the Judge Mrs flinde, the math professor Mrs flinde and the MD Mrs flinde by telling them that the smartest Mrs flinde was the lovely JJ, and its the truth.

I hope that this advice is helpful

[Precious_b]

Originally Posted by Camille Fox

It takes a VERY mature person to make a relationship like this work. Correction, it takes TWO VERY mature people to make a relationship like this work.. AND a lot of trust, AND a lot of self confidence, AND a sh*t load of luck, AND FINALLY, not having access to ROS probably won't hurt you either... IJS.




Best of luck,


Camille


P.s.: don't make her stop working for "love", ever. Here is a VERY timely blog entry. I happen to agree with it. http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/a...maggiemcneill/

I would stress that the mature one starts with yourself.

Like some have said here, and the Oracle of Delphi, "Know Thy Self"

[Little Miss Cuntcakes]

Originally Posted by RichardRamirez

or hookers calling hookers damaged goods ! nice !!!

its not ok do date a whore , but its ok for whores to have kids , here there congratulating a whore for having a kid, talk about values ! http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1243416 so much contradiction !

So does that mean you're not coming to my baby shower?! Lol
Don't be so judgemental killer.
If Charlie Manson found love, why can't a eccie whore?!



As for the "damaged goods" stereotype.. That shit goes both ways. Don't act like some of you male members on this board don't have daddy issues. All y'all need is some Victoria Secrets glitter body spray, a pole and a stripper name like idk "ANDREW" or something
If it's the right time, if it's the right person shit just falls into place. There's no question or doubts. It is what it is.
If you gotta "talk" about it or ask others than you subconsciously already know the answer. You just need others words to justify your "what ifs".
From experience, it's not a good idea. Take it for what it's worth and enjoy the moment while it's there.
Oh... And don't knock her up lol