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Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie
When we are being emotional we would love for you to be able to fix it.
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Don't ever say that to a guy! We are all hardwired to be fixit guys! When you bring your emotional problems to us you typically want empathy, but we're too busy trying to fix you to offer that. That's why women typically give up on sharing feelings with guys and instead go to their girlfriends. It took me decades to learn this and I still find myself slipping back into fixit mode when I should be validating, but I've gotten a lot better at it