Does having achild turn guys off?

[Alyssa Marie]

Originally Posted by threepeckeredbillygoat

I would have guessed: baby sitter

Lol. That too! But one does need to spend time with their kids for that whole bonding thing that is suggested.. Lol. I just meant to the OP, she seems to be wearing her heart on her sleeve so to speak..
I found a happy blend of real world me and escort world Alyssa and it works purrrrrrrfectly.

[threepeckeredbillygoat]

Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

Lol. That too! But one does need to spend time with their kids for that whole bonding thing that is suggested.. Lol. I just meant to the OP, she seems to be wearing her heart on her sleeve so to speak..
I found a happy blend of real world me and escort world Alyssa and it works purrrrrrrfectly.

Yea I know girl, I'm just fuckin around. I love to see a parent put their kids first. And if someone doesn't like the fact that a lady has kids, fuck em!

But I'm definitely on the same page with you. I feel it's better if people keep the amount of RW information they let bleed over into this world to a minimum.

[Roger.Smith]

I don't mind if a provider has a child, it only matters when dating. Then it's a definite no-go.

[Guest112814]

I usually see more mature ladies so most of them have children and that responsibility seems to increase the chance of a better session because they were not our late partying or whatever - they seem to be, in general, more responsible and trust worthy. They have real-world responsibilities and are not here for games. Heck, one of my ATFs is a grandmother and she loves them to death and that character is VERY attractive to me. At this stage in my life a woman that takes her children as a serious responsibility is sexier than a latex outfit. My top 5 ATFs all have children and I don't think that's an accident - they're mature and dependable. And by the time a woman has a child - she usually really knows what she's doing BCD

Mommy marks? There is NOTHING wrong with that IMHO - they're people and I respect that about them - not a turn-off in the least. Funny I once got a PM asking why I didn't mention a lady's mommy tummy in the review - to be honest, I didn't even notice it. If I was 25 I would have noticed but not at this stage in my life.

[Guest060214]

no problem as long as it's not mine.

[Guest110416]

IMO, providers with kid(s) is not a turnoff as far as a session goes, but the only drawback is your availability may be an issue due to your family obligations, which there is nothing wrong with. Also, even though it is true for those w/o kids, because of the extra mouths to feed and people to clothe, the ullness is on her to provide greater satisfaction to clients to get that steady repeat business.

[DarkeyKong]

I don't mind you having kids, but I should never ever meet/see them (talking from experience) ESPECIALLY AFTER A SESSION!!! Plus we like to have an illusionary experience with providers. Once real life is brought into the session, it dampens the experience a bit. That's just my perspective.

[txlonghornfan811]

Originally Posted by Glenn Quagmire

My Dear CNM,

You are putting too much info out on this board.

Weirdos exist and some of them read here.

You probably don't even need to tell your clients anything about your personal life. You can just say, "I have some real life things to do".

Keep the fantasy image a fantasy. It is both good for you, your family, and the client.

Sincerely,

GQ

"Prior Engagement" works

[Annika]

Originally Posted by modus

I would wager 75% of the providers have kids.

Everyone I know does except one that can't

[samantha thom]

Spending time with your family is priceless. You don't lose anything by turning down appointments, girl!
And from my experience, all my repeat clients that I've known for years like me the way I am. They like me because I have a real life outside of hobbying. They like me as a real person and those are the kind of clients I want.

[samantha thom]

Originally Posted by planojim

Negative from this stand point. Having a child/children is not a turn off and the fact that you choose to spend your weekend time and make them your priority would make me feel better about being with you when you're not busy with them. If you fail to make your kids your priority then that tells me you're a person not worth employing.
Oh!! And those 'mommy marks' that you might have....they're 'battle stripes' that you have earned by doing something wonderful that we guys will never be able, or probably desire, to replicate.
Your child is and always be your priority! If your customer(s) don't understand that fact then it is "they" who don't deserve to be with "you"!
Have a wonderful day all!
PJ

You're an awesome guy, Jim!

[Annika]

Originally Posted by samantha thom

You're an awesome guy, Jim!

Yes he is

[BigSexy]

[QUOTE=curvesNmore;1055387176]You both are right. I guess I just was curious about what the guys thought. But yeah. I just see some women are pregnant and still in the hobby.(Nothing wrong with that...I did the same) so I was just wondering why it wad a turn off if it was. Thanks. [/QUOTEz,pdy

Most likely because a guy doesn't want the child to come in between his fun. Especially when they are after a good time when they want it. It happens but you can't worry about them. You are a very attractive girl and I am sure you will find more then your fair share of men to spend time with. I know I would

[planojim]

Dearest Samantha,
Thank you so much for the compliment! You are a personification of exactly what I was talking about! (except for the "stripes" comment...because you ain't got a kiddo mark on your sweet sexy body) You've always put your family concerns first when we've made an appointment to meet. As much as I wanted to see you I would NEVER think of putting my selfish needs in front of the needs of your children.
Jim

Originally Posted by samantha thom

You're an awesome guy, Jim!

[txcwby6]

I'm all for procreation...so long as none of them share my DNA.