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Old 05-04-2011, 03:02 PM   #16
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very well put and you have to add in personality as well that and performance is what keeps them coming back
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Old 05-04-2011, 03:17 PM   #17
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LOL ... i learned a long time ago, never ever judge a book by the cover ..... or how much fun a lady is by her looks !!!

personality and performance are the most important for me. just my opinion.
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Old 05-04-2011, 03:42 PM   #18
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Got to be both. The ad catches the eye (what does the gentleman prefer), the reviews capture the imagination. After all, we each like different things in both categories. If both are accurate, all is good. If one does not live up to expectations, then I feel like I wasted resources.
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Old 05-04-2011, 03:44 PM   #19
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I think attraction draws them but performance keeps them IMO
Exactly SnL!

She could be the most beautiful lady out walking around; but if she sucks in bed or is a complete airhead/shithead, why would you go back? I know I won't.

Beauty is certainly one thing but if there is no personality or lackluster performance, its one and done along with a mediocre review!
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Old 05-04-2011, 03:53 PM   #20
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If I am not physically attracted to her I am not going to call and will not know about her performance. I am kinda surprised by the answers above.
Well damn. A man that makes sense here. I've always liked you Chipper . now please take away my points.
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If I am not physically attracted to her I am not going to call and will not know about her performance. I am kinda surprised by the answers above.
Sometimes I'm attracted to them and still won't call them lol.
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Absolutely!! I'm so glad that's the way it has worked for me!
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Old 05-04-2011, 07:28 PM   #23
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I would like a combination of beauty, performance and personality, but I must say that many times beauty is only skin deep and I would probably rate performance and personality above beauty. If the chemistry is there and the performance, beauty is not really an issue.

But a lot of this goes back to research that I would see someone less attractive if they had very good reviews on performance, personality and conversation.

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Old 05-04-2011, 08:14 PM   #24
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That makes so much sense! The only way to get to know her personality and performance is to get her to the door first. If she is someone you view as not your type, she won't be there to begin with. I always liked that line that goes, "Why do ugly girls give the best blowjobs? Because they have to!"

At least it's nice to know if I want a really good blow job I should not call an attactive provider.
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Old 05-04-2011, 10:01 PM   #25
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You cant separate the two. You need some combination of each which can vary depending on the provider's attributes.
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Old 05-05-2011, 02:15 PM   #26
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Attitude. Was that a choice? Yeah, attitude.
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Old 05-05-2011, 09:57 PM   #27
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While certainly the combination of the two is most desired, one of the interesting things I've learned from hobbying is that looks don't guarantee a good performance. I've had several very average looking ladies (and some below average) show up and they could outperform the Super Model types. Not always true, but it does happen.
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Old 05-05-2011, 10:38 PM   #28
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I would say it's a combo, If my pictures and ads get your attention and then you come to visit. I then have the opportunity to show you my beauty, personality & performance. That's a trifecta with a bang! That's a happy man Then you are sure to visit again.
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Old 05-06-2011, 05:33 AM   #29
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I tend to see the lady's I meet at social gatherings, lets me see first if I am attracted.

Attraction for me does not equal beauty, because there are some beautiful providers that I meet that just total turn me off with their attitude.

Performance is easy to figure out when you read the reviews, so over all its a combination of both for me...remember attraction does not = beauty.
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Old 05-06-2011, 05:51 AM   #30
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Why would you have to choose one or the other?? Do your homework and get a beautiful woman AND great performance!! Look around - there are very beautiful ladies everywhere that will leave you breathless - Don't settle for less!!

As far as percentage, how about Beauty 100% - Performance 100%
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