Providers that do the work vs providers that let dude do the work?

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by KittyLamour

No...here we don't go, it's ok to expect good service, but don't be critical when we have limits that are beyond physical capabilities.

I wore myself out trying to please and then he get's upset because he's too fat to fuck like a porn star and takes it out on me. Fantasy is all good but keep it realistic.

Let the fat man live out his fantasy thinking he's a porn star lol, guys please, scrub the ass good and the cheese off your cock before visiting anyone.

I like at least 50/50, you lazy women that just lay there are gonna start paying your clients instead of getting paid

[KittyLamour]

Guys, I wasn't talking about chubby, chubby is fine... I was talking about F-A-T as in obese. I was worried he was gonna have a heart attack after he walked up one flight of stairs he was huffing and puffing so hard. Imagine holding up all that gut with your shoulder just so you can get to a penis that is an innie not an outie even with the belly pushed up. I was being nice with the cheddar cheese comment... try sour milk is a better description. Now I've been in the hobby here since 2010 and I've had ONE client like that in my years of experience. I'd say he was an exception and not what I'd ever describe a large percentage of clients on this site as being like. It was one of the very first reviews I ever received. I think it scarred me for life.

[2short@desky]

Originally Posted by KittyLamour

Guys, I wasn't talking about chubby, chubby is fine... I was talking about F-A-T as in obese. I was worried he was gonna have a heart attack after he walked up one flight of stairs he was huffing and puffing so hard. Imagine holding up all that gut with your shoulder just so you can get to a penis that is an innie not an outie even with the belly pushed up. I was being nice with the cheddar cheese comment... try sour milk is a better description. Now I've been in the hobby here since 2010 and I've had ONE client like that in my years of experience. I'd say he was an exception and not what I'd ever describe a large percentage of clients on this site as being like. It was one of the very first reviews I ever received. I think it scarred me for life.

Nothing wrong with knowing and acknowledging your limits. You may have handled it differently after becoming seasoned.

[2short@desky]

Originally Posted by BLM69

Let the fat man live out his fantasy thinking he's a porn star lol, guys please, scrub the ass good and the cheese off your cock before visiting anyone.

I like at least 50/50, you lazy women that just lay there are gonna start paying your clients instead of getting paid

Agreed. If you don't clean up for the lady, at least do it for us guys that may follow. If you're growing cheese down there, soap and water won't get some of that stuff off, try using NAPTHA.

[KittyLamour]

Man, I'm telling you this guy was so fat he had folds so deep they never got dried out, hence the sour milk smell.

Yes, now I would've definitely handled it better, I was brand new to the hobby and it was a totally harrowing experience then. I just could not believe he wrote a bad review on me...I thought I had really accomplished something when he left... I took that "No" review to the heart, it really hurt my feelings. (sniff)

I'm glad I've grown up as a provider since then.

[Teagenluv]

I can be dominate or submissive depending on what the guy wants. I very much like it to be 50/50 where he is assertive and aggressive and then I take over and fuck his brains out with some wild all out pounding. To have the right all out aggressive fucking the way I truly LOVE IT, you need both him and I thrusting hard in unison. We both need to workup a sweat)))))))

[Reverseheadstock]

Originally Posted by Teagenluv

I can be dominate or submissive depending on what the guy wants. I very much like it to be 50/50 where he is assertive and aggressive and then I take over and fuck his brains out with some wild all out pounding. To have the right all out aggressive fucking the way I truly LOVE IT, you need both him and I thrusting hard in unison. We both need to workup a sweat)))))))

Yes! Both working up a sweat. A "fuck you, no fuck you right back!" kind of thing...

[2short@desky]

Originally Posted by KittyLamour

Man, I'm telling you this guy was so fat he had folds so deep they never got dried out, hence the sour milk smell.

Yes, now I would've definitely handled it better, I was brand new to the hobby and it was a totally harrowing experience then. I just could not believe he wrote a bad review on me...I thought I had really accomplished something when he left... I took that "No" review to the heart, it really hurt my feelings. (sniff)

I'm glad I've grown up as a provider since then.

I worked in the medical setting for many years, some of the mortally obese were so bad it took 7 nurses to change bed sheets and what was called a BigBoy bed. Their skin is like leather...seriously. Ironically, if they were conscious they were the most demanding...hit the call bell for a nurse to give them a drink and it's on the nightstand directly in front of them. I was called in many times to place catheters because they couldn't find it. Your guy may have fit right in.

[2short@desky]

Originally Posted by Teagenluv

I can be dominate or submissive depending on what the guy wants. I very much like it to be 50/50 where he is assertive and aggressive and then I take over and fuck his brains out with some wild all out pounding. To have the right all out aggressive fucking the way I truly LOVE IT, you need both him and I thrusting hard in unison. We both need to workup a sweat)))))))

Grudge fucking and Sport Sex is fun

[Analeese]

Originally Posted by Admiral Giggle

Not really the best Ad or Sales Pitch since a large percentage(pardon pun) of hobbiests somewhat fit your description.

Thanks for the visual. Time for me to go to some sit ups so I can eventually see my dick.

Just cause you can't see your dick love doesn't mean a provider can't when she's down there pleasing you...as long as my guy is clean (showered) I can work around alot of things to make sure my guy leaves the happiest and wanting to come back again and again

I get what Kitty is saying...but I would not have said it so harshly...

I appreciate the honesty.. but I'm sure some guys who fit that description don't appreciate it.

Nothing wrong with being realistic...but we are selling fantasies people...

Edit: it does suck to work your ass off during a session to please someone... Trying to push past physical limitations sometimes even putting yourself through a little bit of uncomfort just to get the job done...only to be left with a no review that hurts your business..

[Fantastical]

I like for us to please each other

[Teagenluv]

When two people are both into driving each other wild with pleasure, sex is beyond wonderful))))

[KittyLamour]

Originally Posted by 2short@desky

I worked in the medical setting for many years, some of the mortally obese were so bad it took 7 nurses to change bed sheets and what was called a BigBoy bed. Their skin is like leather...seriously. Ironically, if they were conscious they were the most demanding...hit the call bell for a nurse to give them a drink and it's on the nightstand directly in front of them. I was called in many times to place catheters because they couldn't find it. Your guy may have fit right in.

Somebody finally believes me!!

[Karismatic_Kiley]

Being a Dominant woman I tend to do all the work which is how I like it until I wish the man to take over or couple. By then they are so sated that there is nearly never hesitation. I do like to throw it back which is normally the ending and I certainly put effort into that

[KittyLamour]

Originally Posted by Analeese

Just cause you can't see your dick love doesn't mean a provider can't when she's down there pleasing you...as long as my guy is clean (showered) I can work around alot of things to make sure my guy leaves the happiest and wanting to come back again and again

I get what Kitty is saying...but I would not have said it so harshly...

I appreciate the honesty.. but I'm sure some guys who fit that description don't appreciate it.

Nothing wrong with being realistic...but we are selling fantasies people...

Edit: it does suck to work your ass off during a session to please someone... Trying to push past physical limitations sometimes even putting yourself through a little bit of uncomfort just to get the job done...only to be left with a no review that hurts your business..

I appreciate your understanding but believe me, what I just described was positively flattering compared to how he butchered me in that review as a new provider. Nor was he anywhere near realistic in his portrayal of me, but tried to hurt my pride, my feelings and yes my business. I honestly had provided the best service I could, I went out of my way to make him happy and I was shocked, to say the least when he let me have it with both barrels.

I have been a verified provider here for seven years and I stated that in all my hobby experience, he was an exception to everyone else I have met. Meaning that out of a multitude of men I met in a seven-year period, nobody else fit his description.

There's no better feeling than snuggling with a big guy...they make you feel so little and delicate, I sincerely enjoy large men, in fact, they turn me on. This was a scenario unlike any other I assure you.

Gentlemen, I did not mean to hurt anyone's feelings, if you feel that way about what I posted, please...rest assured he was way bigger than you are. I promise. I'm sure if these guys are men enough to hobby, they are mature enough to not get their tighty whiteys in a wad over something like what I just described. I'm not here to "mommy" anyone and protect their little, precious feelings. I grew thick skin a long time ago, as did most everybody else who is used to the shenanigans of Dallas coed.

oh and ps. He couldn't see his own dick and neither could I. He was so large it was an innie, not an outie. Kind of like an extra belly button. It's very difficult to pleasure something you can't find except through strenuous and exhausting effort.