Debating the Pros and Cons of having an incall . . .

[TinMan]

I prefer the apartment incall, particularly if it's a low volume provider (less likely to get the notice of the neighbors), but I can see the advantage of the large hotel. I'm comfortable in either.

Outcall doesn't work for me.

[slowmover]

Originally Posted by Kathryn

I could make extra inviting, etc.

BINGO! In my opinion you can't become a top notch provider with the type of client you probably want (a guy who will pay your 300/hr rate) without a classy incall. I would give you the names of some girls who have perfect incalls, but I would need their permission first. What makes it for me: Secluded, clean, tastefully decorated, stocked bar (or at least ice and glasses), clean towels, clothes hangers, etc. If you go the hotel route, pick a big one where I could be there meeting a business friend, attending a conference, etc. The lower end motels make me nervous, so I tend to avoid them.

Best of luck to you and hope you find something that works for you.

[Tiffani Jameson]

Originally Posted by slowmover

BINGO! In my opinion you can't become a top notch provider with the type of client you probably want (a guy who will pay your 300/hr rate) without a classy incall. I would give you the names of some girls who have perfect incalls, but I would need their permission first. What makes it for me: Secluded, clean, tastefully decorated, stocked bar (or at least ice and glasses), clean towels, clothes hangers, etc. If you go the hotel route, pick a big one where I could be there meeting a business friend, attending a conference, etc. The lower end motels make me nervous, so I tend to avoid them.

Best of luck to you and hope you find something that works for you.

Darling, while the term 'top notch' is not my favorite one, a woman's incall doesn't make her so. An incall is only an extension of the service she provides. So if she's a shitty provider with a great space, she still wouldn't be a top tier Companion.

But I understand what you mean. A great incall is just icing on the cake with a wonderful woman.

[Randall Creed]

Good points made by all so far. I'll add a little by saying, I don't mind any particular type of incall, as long as it's safe. There's nothing worse than having to go to a location that has yellow tape, potholes all over the place, and shady looking characters pretending to be on the phone as you pass by them.

In contrast, going to a nice, plush hotel or decked out apartment sets a good vibe. Sure, it's a bit of a downer to have to pay for parking or deal with a gate code, but it's not a deal breaker by any stretch (and please, give me the damn code BEFORE I get to the keypad so I don't have to sit there looking like a dumbass who clearly isn't supposed to be there. It's a bad look, especially if there are cars behind me). I like knowing ahead of time what level of an incall I'm going to (5 star vs 3 star). That way I can dress appropriately. Showing up at a low budget notel overdressed looks just as bad as showing up to a towering 5-star wearing NIN t-shirt, ball cap, and Jordans. Just saying. Walking through a football field sized lobby underdressed is as bad as it gets. I mean borderline anxiety attack creating. It almost feels like everyone in there is thinking LOUDLY, 'Hey, everyone! Look at that, underdressed, fish out of water black guy over there! What is HE doing here?!? He must be going to see some fancy call girl or something! What other reason could he possibly be coming here for?!'

Just saying.

[TinMan]

I didn't take slowmover to mean that a classy incall makes a provider "top-notch", just that it's hard to charge near-HDH rates without a nice incall.

I agree with him. If I'm shelling out $300 I want a nice setting, whether it be hotel or apartment.

[honeydavis]

Originally Posted by Chung Tran

my immediate thought is, if you are outcall only, you shut out 30% of your possible market.. myself included

Waaay more than 30%... try like 90%

[Prolongus]

Originally Posted by TinMan

I didn't take slowmover to mean that a classy incall makes a provider "top-notch", just that it's hard to charge near-HDH rates without a nice incall.

I agree with him. If I'm shelling out $300 I want a nice setting, whether it be hotel or apartment.

Exactly. $300/hr. at the Lido isn't gonna cut it for me.