Which ladies prefer not to see black gentlemen?

[The DarkSide]

E=MC in 2 hot chicks!

[AdventureAdams]

Not in KC, but the only color i care about is green

[Enchanterlingum]

I do not see black men, period.

Nor any others for that matter.

[Guest020813-03]

I wish my skin was this color, I'm jealous! LOL! Sadly I was born pasty white with white blonde hair dang french/irish decent)





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[neglecedpole]

Zada I have never found any problem with your skin, color or there wise!!! Lol

[Autumnkc]

love them too! Seems to me that the ONLY ones that find me are the SWEETEST GENTLEMAN around... lucky I guess

[Modda]

I know this one is going to explode....

Not trying to be funny OP, but the truth is like asking the following..

A Muslim coming and asking "Tell me how many of you thinking all Muslims are Terrorists, if so lets shoot them and we all can live in peace". No one will come forward and say.

Its like that bro, I can understand your feelings and even I went thru. One good thing is we are not in England.

Can't understand why we co-relate all terrorists to 'Muslim' and all problems in this hobby to only 'black men'.

[guest010313]

Well will you listen or just make assumptions?

Looking at you specifically modda. You are already assuming you know the reasons.

If this can be a civilized discussion I will participate. But there is a long documented history of most of you people making asinine inferences and accusations because you read only what suits you.


And by "you people" I am referring, of course, to the regular posters of this forum. But without a fucking doubt had I not clarified it would have been the start of six pages saying nasty things to me about it. So keep this little example in mind.

[Guest102513-1]

All right you people, let's stay civilized and Princeness Assumption is ready to preach, and is making notes, lol

First round of drinks are on me....always helps them people to start talking.

[guest010313]

Q E mutha fuckin D

[Guest102513-1]

Gotcha!!! I just luv it when it, when ya talk all gettho like....bottoms up!!!!

Regarding thread does it really matter

[Allie_Kat]

I didn't see black men until a couple of years ago. I had a few I had issues with and wasn't comfortable seeing them. Now I won't refuse service to anyone unless they speak "gangsta" or are rude or don't have TWO references.

[blk07lac]

I want to thank all the ladies that replied by post or inbox...

[FireSerpent]

Originally Posted by MsElena

That might be a tough one for ladies to answer out in the public forums as some wish to keep that a secret so it doesn't ruin business for them.

Honestly, it is usually pretty simple to find out which ladies do not see black men. It does occasionally take some research and time to find out, but not THAT much. And, as far as ruining business, I seriously doubt that. There are thousands of guys of other ethnicities on this site and in this city who could give two shits who you don't see, so long as you DO see them. I know of several women on this site how are quite public about not wanting black men to call them up... and their phones have yet to stop ringing.

In my experience, sometimes, there are exceptions to this rule. I used to make a big deal out of trying to find out if a lady does not see black men before scheduling a meeting with them. But, what I've found out is that most of these women have had singular or multiple bad experiences... pimps, rapists, robbers, etc. and feel that by stating that up front they will reduce the opportunities of those individuals contacting them. In some cases this is true, however, the types of people they're trying to avoid don't care what they put on their profile or advertisements, they'll contact them anyway. They're only rejecting clients who they would not have any issues with (from a business standpoint) should they meet them in person.

Concerning the original poster's statement, I have a list of providers who have an open policy of not seeing black men (and several who think they've kept their desire to not see black men a secret). Granted, I'm a black man and I've seen a few of these people before and have not had any issues with them, you'll have a far better time by not going where you're not wanted.

I don't see this thread going off into a ditch. However, I do not predict you will be getting many ladies answering this one in public.

May your "To Do" list be long and full of interesting, unbiased people

[KCQuestor]

From what I understand, some women announce that they don't see black men because they believe that will increase their business with men who don't want to see women who DO see black men.