Question for the Gents? And the Ladies?

[DocHolyday]

[OldGent]

So ~P highlights hypocritical behavior and it's an attack? And the folks that back her up are Attacking too? It's funny how when someone on the board has nothing to back up their point they resort to general whining. Very intelligent and mature. Facts are facts jack.

[need4discreet]

What was this thread about again?

[Lena Duvall]

Fascinating! I guess the whole 2-reference verification system which thousands of escorts and clients all over the country depend on is all of a sudden illegitimate and irrelevant based on who discusses it... even though "references" or specifically withholding references was a point of discussion in the original post.

Ladies - What are your thoughts on a Provider getting mad at a Client for wanting to see another Provider and refusing to provide a reference? I personally think it is a double disrespect. 1. She's refusing to assist her newbie client to get established in the hobby.
2. She's refusing to assist her fellow Provider in staying safe in this industry. As well as .... your thoughts???

Please add to ....

The OP asked questions and got answers.

Yes, other methods of verification exist. But the use of other verification sites make up just a percentage of how clients choose to screen. And provider references are a major factor. Here I was thinking one of the purposes of this board was sharing information on which companions or clients are good to see. But if the opinion of strangers don't matter, why do clients read and write reviews again? And why do the operators of this site charge good money for access to the opinions of strangers?

[Dickjonesbr]

Originally Posted by OldGent

So ~P highlights hypocritical behavior and it's an attack? And the folks that back her up are Attacking too? It's funny how when someone on the board has nothing to back up their point they resort to general whining. Very intelligent and mature. Facts are facts jack.

No it's not that. I had posted another topic in here. Her first post on the subject was with attitude and gave the persona she is better than us hobbiest. Now that is just my opinion and the way I seen the post coming. It is more than just that one too. She has bad attitude to me.

[Guest123018]

Originally Posted by Dickjonesbr

Her first post on the subject was with attitude

Did my comment require some sort of special delivery?

[Guest123018]

Originally Posted by Dickjonesbr

and gave the persona she is better than us hobbiest.

Um YES!!!!
Does one come before two?
I'm #1 as far as I'm concerned
and everything else Is 2nd.



Carry on Dick ....

[gimme_that]

She silent like Charlie Chaplin now..........

Shoot the game is raw now. Ladies can take away an ok on p411 all for the simple reason of you not wanting to see them again. Of sooner than someone else.

They find other ways to do it usually. The mentality I hear a lot is chicks aren't as ref friendly behind the scenes as they seem. But some ladies require too much info to verify a refs. Some ladies needs help guiding the dick in and everything.......

[MsMajicMouth]

I'm with P and the others on this....provider refs ARE important to some of us. Maybe I look at it a little differently as I play primarily in SBC, a very HOT zone. We, as a community, have tightened up on this part of the hobby....we reference People, not just handles. We match phone #s, use security questions, etc. I admit it sounds extreme, but it has kept us all safer and out of trouble. And we, the top GFE ladies in town, have made it quite clear that if you visit our town, you are expected to play by our rules. If you don't, then no, we won't provide or accept references from you...ie, using backpage specifically in SBC is a huge no no...it's a risk to all of us. If you don't agree, that's your choice of course. You just won't be playing with me or mine :-)
Nor is petty drama or undercutting other ladies accepted in SBC...this is how the strength of community helped us... communication among hobbyists and providers brings bad mojo like this out pretty quick
As for calling out bad behavior, well hell yes! If someone opens the door, why not? I've publicly called out people who have been disrespectful or played games. Isn't that what this board is for? We each have our own private areas of discussion, but some warrant a broader audience.

My 2 cents

Majic

[Guest123018]

Originally Posted by MsMajicMouth

I'm with P and the others on this....


As for calling out bad behavior, well hell yes! If someone opens the door, why not?



Majic

Thank you Majic!

As far as I'm concerned the OP and the WK's who agree
w/her behaviour shouldn't be In this hobby.

The hobby Is a serious game.

We as providers can never be too safe!!!!

The guys should do their research on providers
and providers should do whatever Is necessary for safety.

So yes when a provider (the OP) opens the door she should remember
the door swings both ways ....

[SknyDiva]

Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

Why don't you tell us since I just asked you for a client reference a couple days ago and you have Ignored me.

Good thing I check all my other resources for screening since you're a flake about providing a simple reference to other providers.


Why don't you let the other providers
know that you ask for references but
you don't provide them for the guys.

Oh, and let the guys know this so
they'll know not to use you as a reference

Do you guys screen? Shove that down YOUR THROAT.

[SknyDiva]

[QUOTE=Seeking ~P;1059139492]Um YES!!!!
Does one come before two?
I'm #1 as far as I'm concerned
and everything else Is 2nd.



Carry on Dick

SHE KNOWS IT.
NOW CARRY ON DICK. MR. HIGH AND MIGHTY HOBBYIST.

[SaltyDog71]

Originally Posted by Slayde

What are your thoughts on a Provider getting mad at a Client for wanting to see another Provider.

I had that exact thing happen to me last year. A provider I had seen once every 3 months or so, and was bisexual, because I had done a double with her and her girlfriend once before. My SB is very bisexual, so I asked provider if I could bring my SB over to play sometime. She got plum pissy, what you are seeing other girls? Is that why you only see me once every three months. I was in shock that she was mad at me for seeing other people. She hasn't spoken to me since.

[Adaline]

Originally Posted by SaltyDog71

She hasn't spoken to me since.

Her loss hunny!!

[Adaline]

Now normally i'm not one to get into these little pissing matches but i've had this issue this week with SEVERAL providers, and Slayde, i've given you TWO references WITH DETAILS to help you out but yet I never got one back. Don't worry, i'll continue to give them because I want to keep my gentlemen happy, even if it means them wanting to see another lady.

Carry on.....

Let me know if anyone else needs a reference :-)