Curious about choking

[Sami]

Agree 110% Fawn...

Originally Posted by fawn

seriously not asking, huh.. let me tell you that if you ever did that to me with out asking you wouldn't have a gawd dang tooth left in
your mouth....Ijs

[Jewish Lawyer]

Perhaps you should consult with your therapist. Compulsions of this nature could make many a young lady uncomfortable.

[ChipMonkey]

It's probably ok if it is your chicken.

[mtabsw]

Thought this was about the Texas Rangers, or the Cowboys...

Seriously, I think dangerous games need to be discussed and planned. And if this is something you feel compelled to do without encouragement from your fuckmate, I have to urge some counseling.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by ChipMonkey

It's probably ok if it is your chicken.

I thought that too. Butt then again I was spancking the monkey at the time.


Now if more folk would tickle the taint choking would be an after thought. Or is it too bad the taint does not have a neck?

[TinMan]

Originally Posted by ~Ze~

On a side note, I have noticed with myself, that the act of having a hand around my throat is NOT about the squeeze/choke part but more about the placement and strength without the pain. If that makes any sense. This is also not something I do with everyone, and I also do not enjoy it all the time.

Actually, that does make sense. I've never initiated, but have had several women ask me to do this. It seemed more like a control thing than actually looking for me to hurt them (thank god).

[TexasDave555]

Back in the 90s I hooked up with a civie in Denver while there on business. Her thing was choking... she was extremely wild, my first squirter and first anal lover. She would hold her breath or cover her face with a pillow until she came then she would exhale/inhale...... judging by the sounds of it, she enjoyed it a lot. The neighbors didn't.......

When she asked me to do it to her, about all I could manage was putting my hand around her throat under her chin... she then put her hands on mine and did the squeezing herself.

That was a wild week and many late nights... the purple face freaked me out a little to be honest. I was young and innocent back then.

Now I'd have no issue with it.... but I wouldn't go to the extreme where she was passing out. Might be fun to relive that week....... if not the 7-8 shots on goal in a single night. Now that would be astounding....

[boomvang]

Shades of David Carradine. I dated a woman once that wanted it. I like to swat bare butts with my bare hand? I've been told more than once to lighten up and I don't know my own strength. Like riding bulls and climbing mountains I think I'll give it a miss at least for this lifetime,

[~Ze~]

Breath control/play is NOT the same thing as strength holding under the chin or on neck.

[roaringfork]

Holy hell. And here I was thinking it was pretty wild when this chick begged me to spank her.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by boomvang

Shades of David Carradine.

He hung himself masturbating.

[VIP Mya Michelle]

I have never had anyone even attempt to choke me. It seems that is something you should definetly talk about. If someone asked me if they could choke me i would say no...

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

Hmmm yeah a client would need to ask before doing something like that....same with slapping (face). I've only let a few "civvie" bf's do some light choking.

[Brot]

Yeah you should ask first on this one. It is unusual enough to scare some providers that may have had bad experiences with even less considerate customers.

[~Ze~]

There is just something animalistic that comes out in sex when the passion hits a certain level and you are allowed to indulge a little bit more than the typical GFE.

As I said earlier... unless she makes the suggestion in the moment.. PLEASE talk about these type of activities beforehand.