NCNS rant!

[emplover]

Originally Posted by bigryan2222

Your thread was NCNS Rant, kinda hard to know not to read a thread if there is no sign it doesnt have any value from the subject. I know how you feel, but as I said it doesnt help anyone to know something is happening but no information.

Its your information to share as you wish though.

Ain't it the truth...

[FrankieP]

Cant tell you how many times I've read on here that it isn't cool to blast somebody over NCNS if they get back to you within 24 hours. If you think it's appropriate be my guest. But I'm not going to start a flame war over it. And I've found that treating women with some respect and not fucking with their money goes a long way in this business. It pays off in so many ways. But that's just me.

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by FrankieP

And I've found that treating women with some respect and not fucking with their money goes a long way in this business. It pays off in so many ways. But that's just me.

Me too..

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by FrankieP

It pays off in so many ways. But that's just me.

Originally Posted by malwoody

Me too..

Me three.
And one of the results is a full dance card.

[old door builder]

Me four. Being a gentleman and having respect has it's own rewards!

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by old door builder

Me four. Being a gentleman and having respect has it's own rewards!

+1

However respect is not synonymous with being a WK, Minion..etc.

[Jayhawker]

*Added tags - JCM

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by Jayhawker

[dirty dog]

Originally Posted by Jayhawker

Looks like the Herpe is back

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by dirty dog

Looks like the Herpe is back

I needed a lil humor today... here we goooo lol

[bigryan2222]

Originally Posted by FrankieP

Cant tell you how many times I've read on here that it isn't cool to blast somebody over NCNS if they get back to you within 24 hours. If you think it's appropriate be my guest. But I'm not going to start a flame war over it. And I've found that treating women with some respect and not fucking with their money goes a long way in this business. It pays off in so many ways. But that's just me.

I agree with most off what you said here. But, starting a thread saying well reviewed providers are ncns and not not saying who they are makes you look like a bit of a bitch. So either take it and deal with the ncns, post names and deal with the drama, or hedge your bets and look like a whiney pussy.

I could be less blunt, but this is the internet and no one listens to respectful reason.

[FrankieP]

Originally Posted by bigryan2222

I agree with most off what you said here. But, starting a thread saying well reviewed providers are ncns and not not saying who they are makes you look like a bit of a bitch. So either take it and deal with the ncns, post names and deal with the drama, or hedge your bets and look like a whiney pussy.

I could be less blunt, but this is the internet and no one listens to respectful reason.

You are welcome to your opinion, but the thread did exactly what I wanted it to do. 2 of the ladies have contacted me to apologize and offer me a discount or extra time as a thank you for being patient and not calling them out. Who's the bitch now? You catch more flies with honey than vinegar my friend.

[bigryan2222]

Originally Posted by FrankieP

You are welcome to your opinion, but the thread did exactly what I wanted it to do. 2 of the ladies have contacted me to apologize and offer me a discount or extra time as a thank you for being patient and not calling them out. Who's the bitch now? You catch more flies with honey than vinegar my friend.

Understood, you were more politely extorting them. I am a bit baffled how you could not do that privately. I get treated well by a vast majority of girls because I treat them well and with respect. You said you didnt want any drama, but this thread was drama and I doubt a thread was needed. If the girl is really only contacting you know because of this thread they are making it up for the wrong reason. I only say that since I suspect the girls would have contacted you with respectful direct contact.

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by bigryan2222

Understood, you were more politely extorting them. I am a bit baffled how you could not do that privately.

IMO I think I have to agree with BigRyan on this one.....this should have been privately and if you got absolutely no where...then you go public

[bigcockpussylicker]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

Hell no its not the new norm.

But as long as guys won't put a girl on blast, those who don't know how to handle their business will just keep jerking guys around.

Then guys will double book plans A, B, and C to make sure they have the good time they were expecting. Then girls will double book just in case they were someone else's plan C, and the merry-go-round just keeps spinning.

Yes, putting an NCNS out there will cause some drama on a hooker board. And? Will you lose sleep over it? Will you lose your job, girlfriend, or best friend over it? Will your dog run away over it? Nope, nope, and nope. Like Gloria Gaynor, you will survive.

Yes, I have a selfish agenda here. If guys don't put the flakes on front street where they belong, how do those of us who have our shit together stand out? Not being a flake around here is somewhat akin to pissing yourself while wearing dark pants - it gives you a nice warm feeling, but no one really notices.

Sorry you got flaked out on, but don't reward and encourage bad behavior by keeping it to yourself. The next guy who was going to book with her, who then chooses to book with someone else more reliable will thank you, as will the reliable provider he sees instead of the flake.

/rant

well said
no matter the excuse/reason, if you schedule a meeting and the meeting does not happen, tell the board...otherwise nothing will change
mistakes are only as big as their consequences

Think about your child/SO/Dog/etc
if you don't inform them of wtf they are doing wrong, they will keep shitting on the couch
My fav person this applies to lets her son eat chicken nuggets(with BBQ sauce), while playing with her Ipad ...while he's on the toilet...he'll be there for hour or so...even has the balls to ask for juice.. WHILE ON THE TOILET!
WTF?