Rudeness, lack of common courtesy

[BONEDIGGER]

Deposits are scams

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Yourdesire maybe if u answered me we could meet, I've tried 10x but u never answer, so it's not on me

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Scam artists ask for deposits plus I heard u flaked on ppl before

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Originally Posted by yourdesire

Hey I have responded immediately and everytime it's the same thing. Are you available? When I respond yes within 5 minutes I hear nothing till the next day then it's are you available? Repeat...

itsc rude to ignore, I've tried over and over yet u never answer, common courtesy u answer even if not interested

[Nikkilove91]

First off, dude, not everyone thinks like you do. So for you to go in my inbox and tell me what I should do and how I should it...you are not a client you are a wannabe pimp b

[HoustonRiley]

We have a section for the ladies just like the men do.... And often if your name can be found with negative stats it doesn't help you. If multiple ladies are ignoring you this may be something you've done thats inexcusable thats keeping ladies away.

Im parttime and instead of some gents understanding that.....not all of us work 24/7, they've said this about me too. That I ignore. But how about im just at home for 2 or 3 weeks each month with tiny scattered tours. I dont check any of the boards of im not available. It usually isnt personal.

Providers decide
Who
When
How much
Since forever

All Money Isn't Good Money. And When you're older like many of us providers commenting on this thread. You want that smooth peaceful money. You don't want that headache money.

[Enchanterlingum]

I am not going to pile on because there is no purpose in it and you have made it clear that you won't listen anyway.



I will just say that this thread is a cautionary tale to others that your reputation is under review even when you think it's not. Act accordingly. Money doesn't buy respect or respectability.

[outlawsprint]

I have a recent situation of being ghosted. Reached out in various forms to see if I personally did something to bring it on. At this point in time I have heard not a peep. If I am in the wrong I would like to know so as to not repeat. Just a vent. Thanks for listening.

[BONEDIGGER]

Originally Posted by Enchanterlingum

I am not going to pile on because there is no purpose in it and you have made it clear that you won't listen anyway.



I will just say that this thread is a cautionary tale to others that your reputation is under review even when you think it's not. Act accordingly. Money doesn't buy respect or respectability.

Don't give a rats ass what u losers think

[yourdesire]

Digger that's part of the problem "Don't give a rats ass what u losers think" the question is what's the solution my friend?

[Emmie]

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Originally Posted by yourdesire

Digger that's part of the problem "Don't give a rats ass what u losers think" the question is what's the solution my friend?

[Emmie]

You were always a great gent to ME.

Originally Posted by outlawsprint

I have a recent situation of being ghosted. Reached out in various forms to see if I personally did something to bring it on. At this point in time I have heard not a peep. If I am in the wrong I would like to know so as to not repeat. Just a vent. Thanks for listening.

[Emmie]

Yes, it is!! As providers we see the comments, we see how some people degrade us or talk like we're just ignorant people. I would say a majority of us females are VERY well educated. I personally am not going to spend time with someone who thinks I'm a lesser HUMAN BEING because I choose to be a provider.

Originally Posted by Enchanterlingum

I am not going to pile on because there is no purpose in it and you have made it clear that you won't listen anyway.



I will just say that this thread is a cautionary tale to others that your reputation is under review even when you think it's not. Act accordingly. Money doesn't buy respect or respectability.

[BONEDIGGER]

Originally Posted by yourdesire

Digger that's part of the problem "Don't give a rats ass what u losers think" the question is what's the solution my friend?

Common courtesy is the solution, a few simple words, NOT INTERESTED, ignoring someone is just plain rude but courtesy on this site is very hard to come by, yourdesire u have always been cordial to me but OTHERS, screw them and their high and mighty attitudes

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by yourdesire

Hey I have responded immediately and everytime it's the same thing. Are you available? When I respond yes within 5 minutes I hear nothing till the next day then it's are you available? Repeat...

Hey everyone,

Let's stop a minute and think about how changed things are with the internet and the messages, especially the messages left in the hobby. Unless one spends most of the time following the private messages just for the hobby, most people will not give immediate responses.

For example: I had been out of town for three days and not visited this site, or viewed my hobby messages, for 3 or 4 days. Guess what, my favorite "retired" and moved out of town lady showed up and announced she was in town for a visit. I missed seeing her again.

Don't all of us have private lives, and separate hobby email and hobby names: That is for everyone's safety.

Many ladies only take communication by text messages for later meetings. The old fashioned telephone for a voice contact is still available; it gives not only immediate contact, but a feeling about the true nature and concerns of the other person. Shouldn't all of us be more sure of the other person, if we can speak to them first?

Emails lack a lot, even if they are fast, the response might not be.