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Willow Breeze · 05-22-2013, 05:57 PM

I love this idea. I need to find a short skirt.

pyramider · 05-22-2013, 08:22 PM

So do I.

Her m&g rate should be her hourly rate. The m&g will likely take over one hour, plus travel time. Time is a precious commodity. It would be easier to do simple research on the lady and book an appointment, one can get a good idea if the two will mesh by simple research.

oldbutstillgoing · 05-23-2013, 02:50 AM

However, "simple" research is not always so "simple". And far from complete. If I am going to spend double my normal budget on a gal, I want to make sure it will be worth it. Nothing beats face to face to determine chemistery. Even then, its not a sure thing.

But, this is not a thread on should there be personal pre-session meetings. Its simply an idea on how to make it doable and fair to those who wish to do so. Keep in mind ladies, one of the benifits of doing this is you get something no matter what. And, if a guy has made a deposit on a session, or what ever you want to call it, he is far more likley to follow through as he already has invested his money. If your a guy or gal willing to consider doing this kind of meeting, then I see this as a win - win. There are a number of mays to modify it to your circumstances.

I hope it at least gets you thinking about how to do this. Anything that can bring a seller and buyer together is a good thing to at least consider. Having a plan in place is far bettter than just responding off the hip. When you are a seller and demand is high, you can do what you want. But, when times are tougher, the sellers who can adapt and find new ways to meet customer demands will capture more business than those who do not.

Best wishes to everyone. Hopefully, my meeting with the provider in question will lead to the fuck of my life. I sure hope so!!!

HoneyRose · 05-23-2013, 08:50 AM

A couple of thoughts:

The offer is more appealing if you offer to drive to her part of town, either near her home or near her incall, as charming as you think it is to offer drinks at a trendy bar she has to drive 40 minutes to get to

Be understanding about a cancellation if she gets an offer for a regular session. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. (Un pajaro en mano vale mas que ciento volando!)

oldbutstillgoing · 05-23-2013, 11:41 AM

As always Honey, you are wise.

EmilyEzzell · 05-23-2013, 11:41 AM

Amen to what HoneyRose posted

Each lady has different circumstances which effect whether she would consider doing this or not. For example, A lady may have kids, a real life job, Real life friendships to nurture, etc. Throw in gents who want to meet her for drinks for free or by giving her a deposit. This type of lady is going with the bird in hand (like HoneyRose mentioned.) Like Pyramider said...time is money, especially to this type of lady.

Other ladies have more free time and available to meet with no time constraints.

OBSG, Your scenario will work for some ladies. Other options would be to get a group of people together. Ladies and Gents to meet and mingle. It's an opportunity for a gent to see if he clicks with a lady. A lady would be mingling with more than one gent (marketing herself). This may be valuable time she is willing to give.
This was mentioned in another thread on M & G's. It's time consuming for anyone to step up and start one of these functions. The people in that other thread would be a place to start. The desire has been expressed.
Just another option

samantha thom · 05-23-2013, 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by EmilyEzzell

Amen to what HoneyRose posted

Each lady has different circumstances which effect whether she would consider doing this or not. For example, A lady may have kids, a real life job, Real life friendships to nurture, etc. Throw in gents who want to meet her for drinks for free or by giving her a deposit. This type of lady is going with the bird in hand (like HoneyRose mentioned.) Like Pyramider said...time is money, especially to this type of lady.

Other ladies have more free time and available to meet with no time constraints.

OBSG, Your scenario will work for some ladies. Other options would be to get a group of people together. Ladies and Gents to meet and mingle. It's an opportunity for a gent to see if he clicks with a lady. A lady would be mingling with more than one gent (marketing herself). This may be valuable time she is willing to give.
This was mentioned in another thread on M & G's. It's time consuming for anyone to step up and start one of these functions. The people in that other thread would be a place to start. The desire has been expressed.
Just another option

I agree with everything Emily said. But the group of people mingling...hmmmm, I get many invites for that, but I haven't had interest to come. That means I will be seen in person by many people. I'd rather meet one on one for discretion purpose...but that is just my personal opinion.

SweetAterPie · 05-23-2013, 05:14 PM

I would suggest to anyone inclined to such an endeavor, an insistence of a taxi service, some folks among us disregard discretion.

pyramider · 05-23-2013, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by OldButStillGoing

However, "simple" research is not always so "simple". And far from complete. If I am going to spend double my normal budget on a gal, I want to make sure it will be worth it. Nothing beats face to face to determine chemistery. Even then, its not a sure thing.

Please, if one does some research you can get the read on so many ladies.

Roguejet · 05-23-2013, 10:56 PM

There you go! Take his $50 (or so), bore the hell out of him as fast as you can, and leave! I'm dying to meet you!

oldbutstillgoing · 05-24-2013, 01:02 AM

This is so true, But not always and not on all ladies. I have a way of doing thngs that has proven very successfull for me. Why would I want to change that? You do things your way and I will do mine my way. Why would you crittize someone elses way of screening women? I don't see why some of you wasted your time posting on the thread as you added nothing to the topic of how to make meetings like this work. I know I would like to know how some of you decide who to see. Not that I would change the way I do things, but you never know what tips you can pick up along the way. And things to avoid as well.

I have done this or something like it many times and have never been dissappointed with the session when it took place later. Not once. OTOH, when I don't follow my process before seeing a lady, I have a much lower success rate of being happy with the results.

Again, this is not a thread on should these kinds of meetings be done. If you want to discuss that, please do so . In your own thread.

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Originally Posted by pyramider

Please, if one does some research you can get the read on so many ladies.

KittyLamour · 05-24-2013, 02:00 AM

Vs. charging for a meet and greet... why not just skype?

pyramider · 05-24-2013, 02:56 AM

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Originally Posted by OldButStillGoing

This is so true, But not always and not on all ladies. I have a way of doing thngs that has proven very successfull for me. Why would I want to change that? You do things your way and I will do mine my way. Why would you crittize someone elses way of screening women? I don't see why some of you wasted your time posting on the thread as you added nothing to the topic of how to make meetings like this work. I know I would like to know how some of you decide who to see. Not that I would change the way I do things, but you never know what tips you can pick up along the way. And things to avoid as well.

I have done this or something like it many times and have never been dissappointed with the session when it took place later. Not once. OTOH, when I don't follow my process before seeing a lady, I have a much lower success rate of being happy with the results.

Again, this is not a thread on should these kinds of meetings be done. If you want to discuss that, please do so . In your own thread.

If its a proven method why are you asking about it? I thinck it's obvious what you are doing. You are seeking free time , or severely discounted time from the lady. Just pay her rate and do a dinner date because that is whet you are seeking.

Guest070818-1 · 05-24-2013, 05:59 AM

I love meet and greets, but not for the purpose of the hobbyist holding a big discount ticket over my head! Its a big turn-off even before we get BCD. If he shows me respect, I show him respect. We shouldn't have to demand anything of each other!

Otherwise, I don't expect a gentlemen to pay me for my time. I am a single young woman w/o kids, so my time really isn't that valuable (unless you contact me before Exam day!). I am very appreciate of going out to dinner and returning with a bit of gas money (It takes aprox. $45 to fill up my tank) and knowing that I got to meet a very sweet guy.

That alone leaves a great first impression for me to remember once I get him BCD....

oldbutstillgoing · 05-24-2013, 09:38 AM

Did you actualy read the first post? I am not asking about it. I put it out there as a way to meet a need several guys have expressed desire in. Its amazing what you will understand if you actualy take time to read and understand. I have no beef with you pyramider. I enjoy a lot of your posts. But don't assume you know what I am trying to do. You'r wrong. Why would you care if I want to do things this way? And others have expressed the deisre to do the exact same thing. You may have no desire to do thngs this way. Great. More power to you.

Prehaps a little clarification will help you understand. These are typicaly short. 10-15 minutes. Maybe 1/2 hour. Though I did have one go over 4 hours. If we are enjoying each others company and the lady wishes to streach out the meeting then I am fine with that. Her choice. I always let the lady know she can cancel if she needs to for any reason. Heck, most of the ladies I have met this way did not charge me a dime for the meeting. They enjoyed the company, the drinks and maybe a meal. There is no session at the time. Those come later. Its not a dinner date. If I wanted that , I would schedule it that way. The only reason I offer to pay for the meeting is I want the lady to know I am not a tire kicker. I have respect for their time and energy they put into their work and don't require anything for free. Also, I have already researched the lady in question before I ever ask for a meet. We may have exchanged emails, chatted, phone calls, etc. It is not the first thing I say when I make contact. Nor do I do this with every provider. It depends on the lady and what I am looking for in a session with her.

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Originally Posted by pyramider

If its a proven method why are you asking about it? I thinck it's obvious what you are doing. You are seeking free time , or severely discounted time from the lady. Just pay her rate and do a dinner date because that is whet you are seeking.