Clients who constantly text yet never book ?

[Pooyie!]

I figure these gentlemen are either

a) clueless and just don't realize what they are doing,
b) have a serious mental problem, or
c really like you, and don't have the means or opportunity to see you as often as they want to.

I can almost understand why someone would drop you an email every 4-6 months because they are concerned that you might forget about them and have to go through screening again. Some of us just don't have enough opportunities to maintain references. But texting is ridiculous.

If you know how to use one of those websites that enables you to SMS text from your computer, you could maintain a sort of "formletter" outlining your policy and feelings with regard to these texts so you can send it when necessary without as much trouble. You've already done an excellent job expressing a very reasonable stance.

[Kimberly Kisses]

Originally Posted by Nikki Tylor

Ok - having two phones wasn’t the question I think most people have two phones as I do !

Question is - how do you handle clients as so that have this behavior ? I typically block as I have more people blocked then not for I am extremely selective these days .

2nd part of my question was - profiling- what is that behavior ? Please read what I said in starting of this thread .

Well, I answered your question. I don't deal with this at all. I would block if so. As to the profiling issue, not a clue what you are talking about.

I don't attract stalkers I guess, because it's known I'm not single and no one has my address.

Usually when a guy messages me, it's to hook up on that same day, not to shoot the shit. I'm pretty much to the point.

How would I deal with it? Simply block them after being told I'm not at liberty to be texting back and forth with people not making an appointment. I'd do it discreetly and politely, then block if it happened again.