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Originally Posted by mrredcat43
Not gonna lie, I'd rather see a bbw who gets into it and blows my mind, versus a smaller gal who acts like a dead fish and acts like she's doing ME a favor.
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I agree, personally, I love all categories of ladies. I just don't think most guys here feel that way. Just look at the reviews, how many bbw reviews do you see popping up? Are the posted reviews the population? No, can the reviews be perceived as a sample being representative of the population? I would say yes. The simple fact that there is a post asking if we, as hobbyist, hate bbw's attest that the bbw demographic doesn't get much play.
Now if you perceive these to be facts, then you would probably agree:
Society has norms
Norms determine standards of beauty
Obesity is not traditionally held as a standard of beauty
A norm is a norm because most of the population conforms to it
The majority of the population is reflected in most samples
Therefore societal norms will be prevalent in most subsets of populations (I.e. the hobby)
Ok, now let's put it all together. If society doesn't view obesity as beauty in a traditional sense, a subset of society won't view it that way either. Therefore, in an arena were the majority of participants seek to enjoy other participants that conform to the normal standards of beauty (blonde, blue-eyed, spinner, etc.....), the non traditional participants won't see as much success (of course there are outliers). This is reflected in pricing as well, most bbw's charge a little less than spinners. So this is not a new revelation.
Personally, I view beauty a little differently, it takes more than just a hot bod or a cute smile to make me want to patronize someone's service. I have to look for something special about them. For example, bbw Katrina is high on my tdl because her posts crack me up in a way no other post has. But then again, I am not traditional in any sense of the word, so my view cannot be reflected as a view of the majority.
It's an ugly truth, but, it is what it is. We just have to cope and move on.
I'd hit it!