Undesirable

[rockerrick]

Why would a big big woman blame her undesirability on the color of her skin?
That's sounds racist.
It's not the color of your skin, it's the fat content of your body.

[Hermosa]

Lena, you go girl!
I know the trools will rip, because thats what they do. I also know that each and everyone of us can choose who and whatever type person they want to. That goes for both guys paying and ladies providing. Still, there is an interesting disconnect here. Saw a study a while back that discussed the acceptance of different races in America today. One of the major indicators are the number of mixed marriages that take place. Today, we have more mixed marriages than at any time in our history. That is true also between Black and White. However, on BP, even on eccie, there are a lot of providers who openly say "no black men"! As you point out, men don't say that, but they clearly hold the same view by their choices. So, it really is quite a contradiction.
My observation as a "Old fart" is this. We seem more interested in mixing it up with different races. However, there does seem to be a hesitation with the black community. Hispanic and Asain seem to have a much easier time in this community than the black ladies. I don't know if it is body type, presentation, or fear? I mention this because as a simple white kid in the 60's, it just seemed to me that the only black people I knew were on the TV and they were pissed off. Maybe it's some misplaced guilt over the way America treated black people in the oast. Reguardless, I do think if we are honest, we know that there is a difference in how the Black ladies are viewed. This view seems to be evident even amoung themselves. Ever notice how some seem to "lighten up their pictures?
I've always thought it would be benificial if this could be a honest discussion in this country without all the idiots (on both sides )chiming in. Now, I doubt anyone is going to go for a "sip of chocolate" because they feel guilty, but, ho knows?
But good for you girl being real and making it work!

[pfunkdenver]

Originally Posted by rockerrick

Why would a big big woman blame her undesirability on the color of her skin?
That's sounds racist.
It's not the color of your skin, it's the fat content of your body.

What makes you say "big big woman"?

[pyramider]

Taint knows no race ... Taint does not discriminate ... Taint photos should be posted ...

[rockerrick]

Originally Posted by pfunkdenver

What makes you say "big big woman"?

Shoulders, arms, flab under raised arms, and ass... She is chunky.
Couple that with no pics and 300 hr... no wonder she's undesirable.

P.S. Do you really think I care that you call me a troll with your 61 post and 2 reviews?
Slide back under your rock dummy!
Come back out after you have made a contribution.

[o2flyhi]

As a fifty something year old white guy living in the Deep South, thought I'd add my $.02 for what it's worth.

In my 1 1/2 yrs in the hobby I've seen mostly white women. But I've also visited black women, PuertoRican, Asian, Hispanic and mixed. I really don't give a rip about race but do have my preferences regarding body type. Don't care for a larger gal or flab of any type. Petite is my preference. Don't know if that makes me racist, sexist or bigoted. My best buddy prefers hooking up with fat gals. It's just personal preference.

[gentlemantoo]

It is not racist to be attracted to white women, it is not racist to spend your money on what you like, and it is not racist to not buy into this nation's blame game and white guilt.

Most people today did not own slaves and I think I can say no one was or is a slave. Slavery is horrible part of our history, as is the racism that followed the civil war. Start being a part of our society instead of separating yourselves out with the race card.

For example, the term "African American" separates black people from our society. I think that term is racist, they are Americans, as we all are that are born here and are citizens. How about we just call us Americans? Include yourself, I do not hear the term Asian Americans" nor Hispanic Americans. Or "European Americans".

Funny how beautiful, slim, blonde, young women never complain about this subject. Advertisers use these women to grab a consumer's attention because most people or a vast majority find them attractive, no blame, no fault, just use your assets best you know how. I do not think it is discriminatory to not have any basketball players that are under 5 feet tall. If a person is born a midget, it is not his fault but he loves basketball. And for 4'6" he is great at the game but cannot play in the NBA as his talents will not compete against 7 feet tall men.

Some men like black women, some men like fat women, some men like fat black women. The majority of men like the model type body, a caramel toned skin (pale white women are not as attractive as tanned skin on a white woman), thin, blue eyes, the Barbie look. Advertise to your niche or like the midget find a different profession. I first suggest stop blaming others for your downfalls or failures. Be a beautiful American.

[jughead1171]

Been in the hobby for awhile now and looking back at my hobby experiences I don't recall ever seeing any white providers. As an old fart white male I hadn't really thought about it until seeing the OPs post. I am pretty much split on seeing black providers and Hispanic providers. Not intentional on my part just seems to have worked out that way. I have seen providers of all body types but do avoid anorexic or obese body types. Average girls are fine for me. Height is of no importance and even have as a bucket list to some day see a tall provider. Guess I need to make it a point to see some white and Asian providers to avoid discriminating LOL.

[oldbutstillgoing]

In DFW, the population is 25% black and 52% white. Racism is to hold someone is disregard because of their skin color. Preferring to associate or simply be attracted to someone of the same color is not in and of itself racist. In fact, is quite normal to prefer those more like you. Given the population breakdown, it is not surprising black providers as a whole, have a tougher time competing. My observations, though not backed up with any research is black women are disproportionly represented here. Why this may be true is an entirely different subject.


So, there are more black providers competing in a market dominated by non-black men. Without any racism factor at all, your already at a disadvantage competition wise. Surplus of supply drives down price.

Now, throw in the still very real race issues and is it a real supprise the average black provider makes less?

To compete in an over supplied market, you have to either find a niche and/or do everything better.

And yes, I am white and a product of the deep south and raised during the 60's and 70's. Look at my reviews to see who l prefer. But if you think l only like the color of women in my reviews, your completely wrong. I see women of all colors.

[Eva Damita]

Think outside of the box. The mainstream women, obviously not hobby related are appropriating black features and are killing the game.

Here is an example, the Kardashians. Take your business outside of this world and get off of the plantation. Target Men Who *WANT you.

Other than that staying in this world, you will see the same results. We literally saw Kylie Jenner transform herself from a princess of the Caucus mountains, to a bronzed, full lipped, wide hipped phenomena, a clone.

Best wishes to you.

[anonsull]

Originally Posted by Eva Damita

Think outside of the box. The mainstream women, obviously not hobby related are appropriating black features and are killing the game.

Here is an example, the Kardashians..

Ok, let's play your little game. What black features mainstream women are "appropriating"? Big ass, thick lips & twerking aren't copyrighted to black chicks and those Kardashians women are with black guys, you know the same black guys that many escorts refuse to see. The majority of women who die during bootleg ass injects are non white. I saw a white pornstar/escort get harassed on twitter by black girls for braiding her hair lol, what's wrong with you gals.
Why are you shaming white men into booking you then refuse to see the black guys?

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by anonsull

Ok, let's play your little game. What black features mainstream women are "appropriating"? Big ass, thick lips & twerking aren't copyrighted to black chicks and those Kardashians women are with black guys, you know the same black guys that many escorts refuse to see. The majority of women who die during bootleg ass injects are non white. I saw a white pornstar/escort get harassed on twitter by black girls for braiding her hair lol, what's wrong with you gals.
Why are you shaming white men into booking you then refuse to see the black guys?

What the fuck are you talking about?

How did you get all of that trash from me advising her to reach a larger audience and that features common to the Africana diaspora are desirable, even by non-blacks dude?

Read, then comprehend much??

Fucking weird. Like, socially awkward weird.

You can't sit at the cool table.

[pfunkdenver]

Originally Posted by rockerrick

Shoulders, arms, flab under raised arms, and ass... She is chunky. Couple that with no pics

As you noted, no pics...based on the one pic, she's certainly not "big, big".

By the way, I have twice the reviews, and years in this hobby, as you. The reviews are on a different board. Feel free to keep insulting people, it makes you look like a ........dummy......

[DSK]

Originally Posted by Wakeup

Do you have a point?

I don't like black women...I don't like fat women...I don't like Hispanic women...I don't like dumb women...I don't like Mixed women...I don't like cheap women...

I like expensive, slim, white women...I must be racist...

I appreciate that you can admit you are a racist - I always figured you for one.

P.S. I love petite women of all races, but like the racist WU, I do not like fat women, stupid women, or cheap women...sorry

[Smpslt7]

Originally Posted by DSK

I appreciate that you can admit you are a racist - I always figured you for one.

P.S. I love petite women of all races, but like the racist WU, I do not like fat women, stupid women, or cheap women...sorry

Does that make you a weightist? 😁
Sorry, couldn't help myself.