What does it take to be a top provider

[Lana Warren]

Originally Posted by fawn

Remembering this is your job and as much effort as you put into it, is as much as you will get back.....
So many girls start taking this job for grant, and once you do that you will start wondering why your
phone isn't ringing any more....... Give it 100% and I promise you will get that back....

And above all, ALWAYS be a lady.

[Guest071613-2]

Originally Posted by Lana Warren

And above all, ALWAYS be a lady.

Amen! This applies during the screening process, and interaction with other providers, as well! The top-notch providers that I know, are always pleasant in their responses to reference checks. I'm just saying.

[surfindick]

The ladies I enjoy the most always make me feel like a man-ho....

[CM]

A pulse, good personal hygiene, and three usable holes.

[gptxman]

Originally Posted by CM

A pulse, good personal hygiene, and three usable holes.

Careful what you ask for because you might show up one of these days and find her three gay guy friends nude on the bed with their asses in the air for you. LOL... I am GREEK loving guy as well and I like it with a girl that enjoys it as much as I do. With that said there are lots of great providers around that don't offer it I enjoy just as well and hold them to the same high praise as the ones that I enjoyed GREEK with.


All it takes is someone who can handle the business side of it and do what you can with in reason and your boundaries to make the guy, girl or couple you are currently with happy.

[Playr Unknown]

Telling me I have a big dick and that I'm not like all the other guys....oh wait, wrong thread.

[Guest021812-3]

Originally Posted by Playr Unknown

Telling me I have a big dick and that I'm not like all the other guys....oh wait, wrong thread.

Now that's funny!

[Bobster36]

CIM, weigh < me, be on time, DFK

[MrKlean]

Great thread and advice by all.
I would also like to suggest this idea to providers.
Most hobbyist are looking for these following needs to be met:
1. The feeling of being wanted or desired
2. The feeling that he can still please a woman
3. Wants to try something new....a curiosity or type of encounter that is out of the norm
(what's normal for the hobbyist)
4. Littlehead is up and ready to play (Just horny)

Guys change between these and other reasons often. Job, stress, Real life issues dictate this change.

A GREAT provider can decipher which need he needs filled today. It's not the same on every visit. Sometimes a guy may want to hear you talk about your life, dreams and aspirations. Sometimes they don't want you to talk at all.

(HOBBYIST NEVER LIKE TO HEAR ABOUT HOW BAD THE HOBBY IS...... he could infer a totally different reason for why you are telling him this now...... right before or during the session)

I would advise providers to treat the hobby like a job. A job with a salary that matches any profession. The salary however is based on one main thought.

I want this hobbyist to want to call me whenever he has a problem. Not that he will call, but you are who he thinks about when he is happy, sad, or HORNY.

He thinks of you because you make him feel great. You treat him like he is the best man in the world, and for this time that you two are together, you are going to do your best to show him that. That you the provider really believes it.

Think about this game where you win a million dollars if this hobbyist feels so good about the session that he has to tip you his last $20 in his wallet because you just made him feel great.

The hobby is all mental. Even though most hobbyist are doing well financially, sometimes we need ego boosts.

This is an art that every provider can learn. Some do it better than others. But for most hobbyist, the most important part of it is the effort of the provider.

Give 100% on every visit. I you can't give 100%, RESCHEDULE.....or tell the hobbyist before he comes over that (you are upset, spotting, cramping... whatever) so he knows what to expect and then make a truly informed decision.

Lastly..... Update your pictures. If you are unhappy with your size, shape etc, work out, cut back on fast foods etc. But providers have to first be happy with themselves before they can make a hobbyist happy. But please know that there is a hobbyist that would love to get your 100% effort regardless of your size, color, age....whatever!


We are men and as good as our world is......it would not be spinning if it were not for you providers......so Thanks

Sorry that took so long and I apologize for any misspellings or run-ons....typing on the IPhone

[pmdelites]

now that you, versace, or any other provider have read some of these responses, the next question is [or at least could be] ...
are you willing to incorporate some or all of these "best practices" into your business?
[ignoring the funny responses - hey why not incorporate them, too??]

even if you, versace, or any provider reading this dont, you now know a bit of what some dallas-ft worth area guys would like and/or hope for and/or expect in a consulting engagement [my code word].

and, more importantly, assuming you have read this thread, you should NOT be surprised that by NOT incorporating these kinds of things your consulting business experiences a slowdown or does not meet your expectations.


like the wise and lovely fawn said "as much effort as you put into it, is as much as you will get back..... "
kind of like what the beatles said...

And, in the end,
the love you take
is equal to the love you make.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YH9P_vwpLXk

[doublebogey49]

Originally Posted by tsrv4me

She should call V-nurse and take lessons on proper behavior ......Vickie has always been accomodating ,cordial ,professional ,and a good friend .....and damn good in the pleasure department .......

I agree completely - Vicki is a sweet lady who always makes me feel welcome and that she is glad to see me. Can't wait to see her again...

[TexTushHog]

I've tried to boil it down to the essentials in terms of personal traits, rather than the results of the personal traits. I think it's really pretty simple, but amazingly elusive.

1. A modicum of good sense (or as some say, an IQ higher than your shoe size);
2. A decent work ethic;
3. Average or better social skills;
4. Good to better than good BCD skills.

I really think that these four things alone can insure things like a) reliability; b) discretion; c) illusion of passion; d) the ability to manage time and money; etc.

If you have an abundance of 3, and 4) along with decent looks, you can be a superstar provider. Period.

[Randall Creed]

Originally Posted by Madison May

Hey guy's my friend Versace posted a thread in Houston asking what it takes to be a top provider, I would like to ask ya'll the same question... what do you look for to happen or not to happen.

I saw a porn title the other day, and thought of you and Versace.

It was called, 'Giving It Up to the Black Man'




Give in to temptation.

[Avalon]

For me, there is a common occurance that happens everytime I am with a great provider - during a session, I lose contact with the outside world. The woman has me under her spell and I am so into her look, smell, sounds, movement and body that a bomb could go off outside the incall and I wouldn't notice. I doesn't happen all the time, but, when it does - I am with a Top Provider.

[Int3rested]

the sizzle...