The Local Hobby Scene - perpetual thread

[Dreamgurrl]

Originally Posted by bambino

I said it wasn’t ok. You probably know the person personally. You post it. How did they get it? Were you being sloppy or did they steal it. I have no idea. But you do. And it’s your problem, not mine.

Sir. You bragged about it in several posts. You’ve been trying to walk it back since. You brought it up here, correct? Yes so if it wasn’t you, who was it ? You said several people saw it and that I’ve been “screened” by many. You said this to threaten me. Do not try to diminish that now.
You brought it up so if it wasn’t you who was it ?

[berryberry]

Originally Posted by bambino

Hey BUDDY, you’ve been calling her “dear” a lot. I know of a room that hasn’t been used if you’re interested!

Ummmm. BUDDY - looks like you and DG really need this unused room after all

[berryberry]

Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl

My apologies. She did. Based on lies and slander. Several of her points have been addressed by others.

I am really confused dear. How is it that basically every person here is "lieing and slandering" you when they post? Seems like quite the conspiracy to have that many people against you.

Just spit balling here, but did you ever consider that just perhaps, all these different people have told the truth and you are simply upset about the truth getting out?

Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl

Honey. We all know who originally shared it.

Actually we don't all know this. You certainly know who did this to you, maybe Bam knows it too. But why are you upset and want Bam to out the person who did this to you rather than you just to name them yourself?

I don't think anyone here would condone what that unnamed person did to you and in fact, we would condemn them. But of course to do that, you have to name them.

Seems to me Bam is doing the right thing not naming their name. Just like Bam did not identify the specific handle of the Erie gentleman who said you extorted him. I don't think it is his place to identify these individuals.

Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl

So why is it okay to protect someone who shared my ID.

Sweetheart, again, you have to ask yourself that question since you seem to be the one protecting whoever shared your ID at some nebulous point in time somewhere online.

[Jacuzzme]

Originally Posted by bambino

Lusty, I’m kinda leaning towards this model:

https://www.gmc.com/trucks/sierra/25...uild-and-price

The HD2500 duramax is the bomb. Preferably in Quartz red Tri-coat. Hope she has it!!!!!!

The Yukon XL Denali is the perfect family vehicle, imo.

I’m not sure why we are discussing whether I choose to lease or buy?

I’m an anti-debt crusader and spread the message whenever the opportunity presents itself.

[Looker151]

The local scene took another hit, as of last week, Allureous TeriLee has retired. Don't know why, said she is too busy moving to talk to me.

[bambino]

Originally Posted by berryberry

I am really confused dear. How is it that basically every person here is "lieing and slandering" you when they post? Seems like quite the conspiracy to have that many people against you.

Just spit balling here, but did you ever consider that just perhaps, all these different people have told the truth and you are simply upset about the truth getting out?



Actually we don't all know this. You certainly know who did this to you, maybe Bam knows it too. But why are you upset and want Bam to out the person who did this to you rather than you just to name them yourself?

I don't think anyone here would condone what that unnamed person did to you and in fact, we would condemn them. But of course to do that, you have to name them.

Seems to me Bam is doing the right thing not naming their name. Just like Bam did not identify the specific handle of the Erie gentleman who said you extorted him. I don't think it is his place to identify these individuals.




Sweetheart, again, you have to ask yourself that question since you seem to be the one protecting whoever shared your ID at some nebulous point in time somewhere online.

Well BUDDY, this is why the PGH hobby is Fucked up. Nobody can deny Indys was the epicenter of the Pgh hobby scene. It was founded and run by a sociopath. He handed it off to another sociopath. Sociopaths fuck with people. And they did till the very end. Animosity and hatred run deep. Trust is non existent. Or very low. A hobbyist organized a physical beat down of DG. A provider, according to DG, blasted her DL on the internet. They obviously weren’t too happy with her. Call it payback, karma, chickens coming home to roost.

And don’t kid yourself. DG still has her crew of providers that she’s mentored. If you happen to give them your RL info it’s like giving it to DG. So who do you trust? It didn’t have to be this way. But it is. The hobby should be fun, and anonymous. That’s why we have handles on hooker boards. That’s why I dumped Indys years ago and came here. Yeah, it was dead on Eccie then. But it grew. I saw what was going on at Indys and just SMH.

[sexymaid_69]

Originally Posted by Dreamgurrl

Ma’am? I bullied you? Or any one else? Please do tell

In the ladies room after you attained your high horse you bullied anyone who didn't agree with you or conduct their affairs the way you thought they should.
You constantly put up posts about "How Things should be done right" and belittled, harassed and bullied anyone who disagreed.
Some feature providers started wondering where their featured placement had gone after saying things you didn't agree with.

I called you out on it. I said that you weren't all that you thought you were and you shouldn't keep schooling women who'd been in the long than you nor should you have been telling them how to act on a site where you were the noon.

I could very easily prove these statements, but unlike you I don't publicly publish screengrabs.



And finally to the guys...
The state of the hobby IS NOT accurately reflected on eccie threads or reports.
You have practically ZERO ladies actively participating for two reasons.
1. There are far more better sites for contacting, chatting up and meeting with gentlemen so why bother.

2. Y'all really are a group of bullies.
At least the majority of active posters are.
The quiet ones are gentlemen

(Seriously though, I'm gonna need an address for those bobbleheads if this goes on much longer)

[lustylad]

Originally Posted by sexymaid_69

And finally to the guys...
The state of the hobby IS NOT accurately reflected on eccie threads or reports.
You have practically ZERO ladies actively participating for two reasons.
1. There are far more better sites for contacting, chatting up and meeting with gentlemen so why bother.

2. Y'all really are a group of bullies.
At least the majority of active posters are.
The quiet ones are gentlemen

Aww shucks, ginny! I'm an active poster. How about putting me in the category of "gentleman-bully"? That means I only bully people who deserve it, like tatas!!

As for those "far better sites" - would you care to name a few? We all know about SA and Ashley Madison, etc. If you've encountered any lower-profile sites with a bustling Pittsburgh UTR scene, please share!

[bambino]

Originally Posted by lustylad

Aww shucks, ginny! I'm an active poster. How about putting me in the category of "gentleman-bully"? That means I only bully people who deserve it, like tatas!!

As for those "far better sites" - would you care to name a few? We all know about SA and Ashley Madison, etc. If you've encountered any lower-profile sites with a bustling Pittsburgh UTR scene, please share!

There’s a private, invite only site. But since you’re a bully, I doubt they’ll let you in.

[berryberry]

Originally Posted by bambino

Well BUDDY, this is why the PGH hobby is Fucked up. Nobody can deny Indys was the epicenter of the Pgh hobby scene. It was founded and run by a sociopath. He handed it off to another sociopath. Sociopaths fuck with people. And they did till the very end. Animosity and hatred run deep. Trust is non existent. Or very low. A hobbyist organized a physical beat down of DG. A provider, according to DG, blasted her DL on the internet. They obviously weren’t too happy with her. Call it payback, karma, chickens coming home to roost.

And don’t kid yourself. DG still has her crew of providers that she’s mentored. If you happen to give them your RL info it’s like giving it to DG. So who do you trust? It didn’t have to be this way. But it is. The hobby should be fun, and anonymous. That’s why we have handles on hooker boards. That’s why I dumped Indys years ago and came here. Yeah, it was dead on Eccie then. But it grew. I saw what was going on at Indys and just SMH.

Yeah - Indys helped destroy the hobby in Pittsburgh. Between the grifters running it, the ways the Local 250 providers destroyed their competition, the collusion on rates, destruction of trust.

And yes, it is amusing for DG to talk about pandering when she had her crew of providers she groomed / mentored / whatever you want to call it

I came here to ECCIE years ago like you as it was nice to have an alternative where truth could be exchanged.

[berryberry]

Originally Posted by bambino

There’s a private, invite only site. But since you’re a bully, I doubt they’ll let you in.

Is that the one run by the old Local 250 Indy's crowd? What is the average provider age there - probably pushing close to 50.

[bambino]

Originally Posted by berryberry

Is that the one run by the old Local 250 Indy's crowd? What is the average provider age there - probably pushing close to 50.

It’s certainly an offshoot of Indys. It’s still around. It’s outlasted the “new” Indys format. Which didn’t last long.

[biomed1]

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[Charley3]

The highlighted part sure seems relevant.