BBW & There Language

[Guest062217]

[Tony Gambino]

Originally Posted by Lucas McCain

You're obviously really dumb judging by your posts...Don't own it like you do. Try to give a shit.

I hate to disagree Lucas, but her threads , have multi thousands of views combined, so if your basing the nasty comment on her grammar, you might have missed her marketing genius...which is possible because as the rifleman there's a lot going on

[Lucas McCain]

Originally Posted by Tony Gambino

I hate to disagree Lucas, but her threads , have multi thousands of views combined, so if your basing the nasty comment on her grammar, you might have missed her marketing genius...which is possible because as the rifleman there's a lot going on

I agree that there is some marketing behind her threAds, and that they get plenty of comments.....Wait, why am I even responding to a retard who is banned from chat where the retards are plentiful?

[Tony Gambino]

Originally Posted by Lucas McCain

I agree that there is some marketing behind her threAds, and that they get plenty of comments.....Wait, why am I even responding to a retard who is banned from chat where the retards are plentiful?

because what I'm saying is true, and I think you generally see things from a normal point of view, and generally call it like you see it, but I'm hardly a tard and if you want to get into my ban, I'd be happy to talk about it in PM, this site makes money with ads, the amount of clicks....sets the amount paid.....pretty simple really.....

[Lucas McCain]

Originally Posted by Tony Gambino

because what I'm saying is true, and I think you generally see things from a normal point of view, and generally call it like you see it, but I'm hardly a tard and if you want to get into my ban, I'd be happy to talk about it in PM, this site makes money with ads, the amount of clicks....sets the amount paid.....pretty simple really.....

Fair enough

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by anita

Last time I checked BBW doesn't stand for unattractive.

It depends on the ACTUAL physical appearance...

....but just as important in personal encounters involving attraction to one another to be successful the provider's personality, genuineness, and natural warmth can often overcome some deficiencies in the rating of one's appearances.

A problem with the OP is that it ridicules other people and belittles them for the sole purpose of "enhancing" or increasing the business of the OP, which is why.... it like so many others is described as a "ThreAdd" .... and the really sad part is that the OP is so insecure with herself and her appearances that she must ridicule and belittle others in order to "feel" better about herself, when she really doesn't. Not to mention her denial of her overweight condition.

It is the old saying: Bad publicity is better than none.

There are so many fine providers in this metropolitan area, and who visit here, who hardly, if ever, post, and NONE start threads. They are successful and pleasant company. There is in fact a lot of providers who are hot, pleasant, and personally enjoyable to meet, who don't advertise on Eccie and/or won't even see a person who is an Eccie member. Another group won't allow reviews any where.

I don't speak for anyone but myself, but paying someone for companionship requires a level of companionship that is commensurate with the amount paid. I suspect that every hobbyist on this board has at one time or another worked on an "hourly" basis, either computing a "flat fee" based on the time expended for the task or a straight hourly rate for their time. They got paid for the "production" for which they were hired ....

Unfortunately, for some, the "production" for which providers are pursued is physical appearances ... which is why so many use others' pics, distorted pics, photo-shopped pics, and/or "glamour" shots from better days in the past. That is also why they post in an ad they are 130 when they are really closer to 170. Just like asses .. if asses sell they stick their ass out so it looks bigger ... because they see comments on here about "big asses"!

It's "marketing 101" ...

... the problem is some of it approaches "deceptive trade" practices like the civilian world.

[Lexieinhouston]

And then there are some guys here who though they would never see someone even borderline BBW, really get off on tearing this group of people down just for the hell of it. Some people are just clueless about the fact that guys who do like BBWs know there are in fact different levels, and they usually don't consider someone on the edge to be what they are looking for. Just as if someone wants a true spinner, they will be disappointed when some more athletic shows up.

Curvy, thick, voluptuous, small bbw, bbw, super-sized bbw, etc. If you're not in the market for someone in one of these categories (which none of you making fun for sport in this thread are), why the hell do you care? Do you imagine by ridiculing this group long enough, they will simply vanish in shame? Do you think by doing this you will stop those who do enjoy them from seeing them and convert them to lovers of the thin or more fit?

Several have said, as a rule if someone doesn't wear plus sized clothes they are not a BBW, yet they continue to mock people who are even slightly overweight to borderline BBW...geesh, I'll bet most of the guys doing this here are far from perfect themselves & clearly not where it comes to being a kind & decent type of person.

I once knew a family who mocked my weight even when I was a size 5 and weighed 115, which would be considered a spinner here. I couldn't for the life of me, figure out why they did this. Then I realized they just really got off on making fun of people's weight. Well, guess what? Now they are all overweight themselves. Be careful who you make fun of, it may very well come back to bite you in the ass.


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[anita]

All women are beautiful to me. But I also know beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So, it is okay if we don't all agree. We are all grown, whether or not I agree with the OP marketing techniques, she is free to act however she wants. I don't believe all men like big asses. Just like I am sure not all men prefer big breasts. I don't think it is wise to photoshop pictures or post pictures from years ago, but we all live with the consequences of our actions. I agree, some ladies never post. To each their own.

The thread sounds as if women that fall in the category of BBW are hideous. I was just pointing out that a few extra pounds doesn't equal unattractive. Who cares what they eat. I hope one day women support each other instead of tearing each other apart. Perhaps that is just wishful thinking.

I do agree with most of the things you said.

[anita]

And I hope the women concerned don't feel bad or ashamed. You are beautiful. Don't you know that you are art? Keep your chin up and own it ladies.

[Lexieinhouston]

I don't feel bad or ashamed about my current body type, more annoyed at those who have nothing better to do than tear a group of people down. I also get tired of those who are fit telling BBWs not to feel bad, lol. BBW's would not be here if they were not comfortable with who they are, but I'm sure you meant what you said in a positive way. You are very beautiful, btw.


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[anita]

Originally Posted by Lexieinhouston

I don't feel bad or ashamed about my current body type, more annoyed at those who have nothing better to do than tear a group of people down. I also get tired of those who are fit telling BBWs not to feel bad, lol. BBW's would not be here if they were not comfortable with who they are, but I'm sure you meant what you said in a positive way.


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Of course. Rock on

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

"Big" and "beautiful" and "woman" do not have individual negative connotations in the English language, so why should they when used in conjunction?

You mean like the words "protection" and "squadron"?

You fail...epic fail...

[blackrican11]

Originally Posted by Lexieinhouston

And then there are some guys here who though they would never see someone even borderline BBW, really get off on tearing this group of people down just for the hell of it. Some people are just clueless about the fact that guys who do like BBWs know there are in fact different levels, and they usually don't consider someone on the edge to be what they are looking for. Just as if someone wants a true spinner, they will be disappointed when some more athletic shows up.

Curvy, thick, voluptuous, small bbw, bbw, super-sized bbw, etc. If you're not in the market for someone in one of these categories (which none of you making fun for sport in this thread are), why the hell do you care? Do you imagine by ridiculing this group long enough, they will simply vanish in shame? Do you think by doing this you will stop those who do enjoy them from seeing them and convert them to lovers of the thin or more fit?

Several have said, as a rule if someone doesn't wear plus sized clothes they are not a BBW, yet they continue to mock people who are even slightly overweight to borderline BBW...geesh, I'll bet most of the guys doing this here are far from perfect themselves & clearly not where it comes to being a kind & decent type of person.

I once knew a family who mocked my weight even when I was a size 5 and weighed 115, which would be considered a spinner here. I couldn't for the life of me, figure out why they did this. Then I realized they just really got off on making fun of people's weight. Well, guess what? Now they are all overweight themselves. Be careful who you make fun of, it may very well come back to bite you in the ass.


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Beautifully said Lexi

[Falcon58]

Some people are just haters. Nothing can make those kind of people happy. Just don't let them bring you down to their level.

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by LexusLover

It depends on the ACTUAL physical appearance...

....but just as important in personal encounters involving attraction to one another to be successful the provider's personality, genuineness, and natural warmth can often overcome some deficiencies in the rating of one's appearances.

A problem with the OP is that it ridicules other people and belittles them for the sole purpose of "enhancing" or increasing the business of the OP, which is why.... it like so many others is described as a "ThreAdd" .... and the really sad part is that the OP is so insecure with herself and her appearances that she must ridicule and belittle others in order to "feel" better about herself, when she really doesn't. Not to mention her denial of her overweight condition.

It is the old saying: Bad publicity is better than none.

There are so many fine providers in this metropolitan area, and who visit here, who hardly, if ever, post, and NONE start threads. They are successful and pleasant company. There is in fact a lot of providers who are hot, pleasant, and personally enjoyable to meet, who don't advertise on Eccie and/or won't even see a person who is an Eccie member. Another group won't allow reviews any where.

I don't speak for anyone but myself, but paying someone for companionship requires a level of companionship that is commensurate with the amount paid. I suspect that every hobbyist on this board has at one time or another worked on an "hourly" basis, either computing a "flat fee" based on the time expended for the task or a straight hourly rate for their time. They got paid for the "production" for which they were hired ....

Unfortunately, for some, the "production" for which providers are pursued is physical appearances ... which is why so many use others' pics, distorted pics, photo-shopped pics, and/or "glamour" shots from better days in the past. That is also why they post in an ad they are 130 when they are really closer to 170. Just like asses .. if asses sell they stick their ass out so it looks bigger ... because they see comments on here about "big asses"!

It's "marketing 101" ...

... the problem is some of it approaches "deceptive trade" practices like the civilian world.

Since Your Doctor Dumbass How Are You Diagnoseing Me Overweight?

You dont like me thatd already valid but that doesn't make me overweight..

If Im Overweight For Being 5'10 & 160lbs Then What Names Do You Call True BBWs?