Sugar Daddy

[Zimmie6942]

Whatever I have girls who are friends who I help out and we have a lot of fun together. I like it better that way. My new sugar baby or what ever you want to call it is more like a girlfriend then SB but I still have the provider/SB/Whatever who we hang out with as well. Fun Is Fun in my book.

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by Zimmie6942

Whatever I have girls who are friends who I help out and we have a lot of fun together. I like it better that way. My new sugar baby or what ever you want to call it is more like a girlfriend then SB but I still have the provider/SB/Whatever who we hang out with as well. Fun Is Fun in my book.

Fair enough, I'm all for fun...

[bladtinzu]

Originally Posted by Zimmie6942

I just got done with 4 live in sugar babies and on a break until I find the next nice house with pool and hot tub. Two girls are escorts and two were off seeking arrangements. I still see the providers, one as a friend, taking her and her dog to vet today, she is out of the biz but we still do some sessions. But seeing a visiting provider later tonight. The other provider/sb is still in working and I help her out with her ads and scheduling and we still do sessions. Big discounts with both girls. Normal rate is $300+ but right now I just give them $100. So I don't see why providers make bad Sugar Babies. I like both of them way better then the girls off Seeking Arrangements. One was totally fucking hot and I was the 6th guy she was ever with but sex wasn't all that amazing. The other SB was so clueless if kinda fucked everything up. I'll take the blame on that one, not enough screening, more bored while other girls were away and had an extra bedroom to fill. Bad Idea... New set up will be one of the providers on the side, one living with me, and a new SB that I have been working on for 6 months.

I guess if your trying to save money and want cheap and you have low standards then Sugar Babies are a better way to go. But if you want super hot girls who are also really good in bed and your not counting pennies then providers are the way to go. Don't get me wrong both are super crazy, take more then they give, and test your patients but isn't that why we love women so much. They make life interesting.

And what I highlighted in red proves beyond a shadow of a doubt parents should legally be allowed to cull their young if they show signs of being that weak.

[Annika]

Originally Posted by lovesbustyblondes

Someone rode the short bus to school I see.

It's called sarcasm, please go Google that word so you'll understand what it means!

+1

[MollyPop]

That is not necessarily true honey not a women are gold diggers most on eccie yea they work hard for their $$ but then again some might be actually seeking a good man that can love them care for them and provide for them and accepts her just the way she is ..

[Hayden Hightower]

Originally Posted by MollyPop

That is not necessarily true honey not a women are gold diggers most on eccie yea they work hard for their $$ but then again some might be actually seeking a good man that can love them care for them and provide for them and accepts her just the way she is ..

EXACTLY. ......☺

[SA Angel]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

I met mine where she works. That is where we find them.
We see someone, hand them a business card and ask them to text us after work.

And suddenly I realize why all those men gave me their business cards when I worked at a grocery store many moons ago.

[BossyWillson]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Lol

This is funny as shit.

Providers that claim they have a sugar daddy.

You have a client that is a sucker.

<Had a provider that went exclusive with a Client.

They come and go. Then they come back.

[Gotyour6]

Originally Posted by SAangel27

And suddenly I realize why all those men gave me their business cards when I worked at a grocery store many moons ago.

Lol

[GemmaVanDyke]

Originally Posted by Zimmie6942

Whatever I have girls who are friends who I help out and we have a lot of fun together. I like it better that way. My new sugar baby or what ever you want to call it is more like a girlfriend then SB but I still have the provider/SB/Whatever who we hang out with as well. Fun Is Fun in my book.

As a provider, I COMPLETELY agree. In fact with many of my "clients" I no longer can consider them simply such. It's so much more than that for some. They know me and genuinely care for me. I have no children, therefore until that point, my cat is ihe so when my cat became critically ill, the money to save his precious (to me) life was provided immediately. An additional example, I was hospitalized for months with a horrible deadly illness and three of my clients came to visit me, one of which came at least every other day if not more. That goes beyond client/provider. That is a friend who cares. When deciding who to meet I try to find clients worthy of the same care and compassion I show. I prefer to see it as a friend helping a friend

I'm quite selective on my clients. Like I say, I have a lot of first dates but not a lot of 2nd! I must be able to be myself so that you can get the best of me. This allows for more dynamic than just a provider/client exchange. There's always a place for that limited interraction as well. I by no means intend to discount it entirely. "Jesssayin"....

http://gemmavandyke.greatescortgirl.com/

[Old-T]

Gemma,well said. This whole corner of the world is a continuum, and for the most part we gravitate to the part and people who have compatible preferences. Those who like blondes tend to pick out blondes to see. Those who offer only multi-hour dates tend to attrack guys who aren't looking for a 30 min event. The same it true for the level of intimacy or friendship that is mixed in with the physical. Any names we try to put on them be it GFE, MILF, or SB is in actuality ill defined and only an attempt to convey some idea of the subculture we are all playing in. I find it both sad and funny at the same time when someone says "The lady I see is a REAL GFE, but that one is not because she doesn't fit MY image", or "She isn't a MILF because she is (too old/too young)", or "How can you say she is a spinner?". Or in this case "This one is a SB, but that one is not. This one is an escort, that one is a kept woman". Friendships and relationships certainly don't follow a script and they certainly don't always look the same.

I know a lady who is now completely retired, but about 4 years after I met her a very lucky man essentially took her exclusive. He bought her a condo, took her on trips literally all across the world, and made sure she wanted for almost nothing. They had their separate lives but were also recognized in many real world circles as connected. They went to opening night at the Kennedy Center, week long fishing trips to northern Canada, the pizza place down the street, and she accompanied him to Stare dinners with foreign ambassadors and heads of state (sometimes she was the "+1", sometimes it was her invitation and he was the "+1". Was she an escort, a sugar baby, or a kept woman? Say two of the three to her face and she would slap you. Did it matter? Of course not--what mattered was that the two of them had a relationship they both understood and could live with, and either one would always be there for the other's needs.

[Gotyour6]

And when it comes down to it, when all is said and done and when you are out of the hospital and you are all good you charge by the hour and they don't come over for coffee and a slice of pie.

[juuicyjvasquesz]

I've never had a SD but I would love to have one.

[JayceeRivers]

This topic has captured me yet again. So often posted and so often debated. Yet rarely, if ever, do I see the real answer.


All types of relationships are subjective and individual. Period.


In some circles, any woman who relies on any man for anything is a hooker. Did she require a dinner before putting out? Well of course she is a prostitute! sarcasm inserted here


There is no direct defining answer to what a sugar baby can be, is, or where she can be found. What defines a sugarbaby or sugar daddy are the two individuals involved. If a man pays a woman's electricity but does not live with her, he could be a boyfriend, a client, or a sugar daddy. He could be her family member, friend, or a best friend with benefits. He could simply be a generous stranger.


Just like any relationship one approaches the possibilities with their own personal view in mind. In the effort of objectivity this would mean every single opinion on this topic is completely correct. Oh how it pains me to say that. I cringe at some of the definitions. However as much as I may not like some of the opinions, they are all correct to their individual selves and situations. Trust me, some of the opinions cast a rise of bile in the back of my throat and sent a burning desire to roll my eyes rushing through me.


From my perspective and my past sugar daddies perspectives, I have been a sugar baby. Labels are meant to define something in an effort of communication.


For the men and women. When you decide to pursue something like this make sure you are aware of your own personal definition. After discovering what you believe it to be make sure this belief is exposed. This will attract those that have similar or same beliefs. You should not have to change your own belief systems or personal perspectives to accommodate another's. For every yin there is a yang and for every belief you will find more followers.


To the OP, attracting a sugardaddy no matter what his or your perspective usually comes down to a couple of basic requirements. Time, compatibility, matching belief systems. Make a website and define your views of being a sugar baby and what you seek in a sugar daddy. Make sure you detail the minimum of what you are interested in, as well as the maximum fantasy man. Describe yourself and what you have to give into the relationship. What are you willing to give up? How much time and availability do you have to designate for him? Can you last minute travel? What are your dreams and goals in life. Make yourself available. Finding a SD outside of the online world can have its challenges but has a higher likelihood of success. Frequent places that you enjoy but are high class or nicer. Expensive or nice malls, high end bars, golf courses, 5 star restaurants. As stated before, if you are a provider, treat every client with respect. Any one of them can turn out to be your next sugar daddy. Most men do not like to be treated like an atm anymore than most women like to be treated like a walking blow up doll.


Don t be discouraged. Sugar relationships are often harder than traditional relationships or cut and dry provider/client relationships. It can take time to accumulate the trust and interest between each other that is necessary.


Once again my two cents on the subject.

[Old-T]

Outstanding post.