Sugar daddies?

[Jackie S]

Nina, of course we all applaude honesty, but often the realities of the World place limits on just how we are allowed to act.

For instance, I have numerous employs who depend on my expertice as a business owner to keep business flowing so that they have a steady paycheck. In short, their ability to feed and cloth their famillies is directly related to my abilities as a responsible businessman.

If it is just you, and you have no others depending upon you, the luxury of telling it like it is perhaps easier. If the customer base dries up, you have nobody doing without but yourself.

Most of us do not have that luxury. The respossibilities of being an employer and maintaining a good customer relationship trumps all personal considerations.

[burkalini]

I just wonder how anyone that can be on this site for what seems like 15 hours a day really has time to make all that amazing money and gets wonderful reviews. Seems to me like they spend most of their time trying to justify it on this site.

[NinaBrooke]

Burkalini: Its fairly easy... i currently do researches ..... and therefor i sit on the computer all day. and work very hard. so - to relax i am fishing for compliments in this forum and on facebook and wherever. ... Plus i have extreme multi tasking abilities.....and am extremely smart.... and can do like more than one thing at once (which is jerking a guy off AND talking to him for example...) . you have a problem with that? You should try it, to do a few more things than gathering reviews and collecting money.. What about collecting money, being a smart-ass , AND work a regular job at the same time?
Why would that be so hard to understand? I have a regular job too and do scientific research and happen to use a computer with internet access. So - what are you trying to imply? That taking breaks between writing research papers or during interpreting interviews for that same matter are forbidden? I have the luxury to live in a country where internet access is on the same computer i use for working on.... WOW!!! How do you do it usually when you post on boards?.....oh and since i am in europe we don`t have these lousy "forbidden access" stuff on our computers at work. Like in the USA in kinkos and on most workplaces sites like these are blocked, right?
Immigrate to Africa?

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Jackie S

Nina, of course we all applaude honesty, but often the realities of the World place limits on just how we are allowed to act.

For instance, I have numerous employs who depend on my expertice as a business owner to keep business flowing so that they have a steady paycheck. In short, their ability to feed and cloth their famillies is directly related to my abilities as a responsible businessman.

If it is just you, and you have no others depending upon you, the luxury of telling it like it is perhaps easier. If the customer base dries up, you have nobody doing without but yourself.

Most of us do not have that luxury. The respossibilities of being an employer and maintaining a good customer relationship trumps all personal considerations.

I respectfully disagree. I worked hard to live in a subculture that allows me to be honest and have a decent job as well. Plus, the people who lie so much in my experience have mostly no one depending on them either. So that does not serve as a good excuse :-). But you are right. Once i have kids i will also tell them fairytales.

Other than that, i think it all depends on which people you are surrounded with. I still do think being a psychotherapist and being an escort is a little bit different than being a "regular" service provider. So - when i used to work for my telephone company i also did not tell my clients the truth, but i only worked within a small area of their personality.
Escorting - especially the SD kind of relationships involve more than jerking someone off within 15 minutes. So therefor other ethical implications apply.
In psychotherapy (which i am pursuing as career) the rule is if you have problems with a client on an ethical base and you grow somehow resistant to him - you give him away to another therapist, because it might screw up the client-therapist relationship and you cannot assist him in the long run. Or you make supervision and try to work on the issue that is bothering you with that particular client. If the situation does not improve, you refer him to someone whose skills suit the client better.

I also do not see doctors or therapists in my life that are offended by me. For example , it was HARD to find a therapist that was not OFFENDED by me being and ESCORT.
Some of them are. And have the usual prejudices. It took me years to find somene that doesn`t have these prejudices. Plus i am polyamorous, and it also took me years to establish a community of friends that are not offended by that lifestyle (hell yeah, cheating and the usual hypocrisy is soooo much more culturally adapted..) so everything is possible if it matters to you much. For me honesty matters and it is the quintessence in a relationship for me.

I do not judge people who lie to me or anyone, i just do not want to be involved with them. Period. I cater to married clients because its my duty as an escort and its more respectful to endulge in these adventures than have a secret lover... in my opinion. an escort gets paid for secrecy and not because the sex cannot be gotten somewhere else. Its a therapeutical setting.

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

Burkalini: Its fairly easy... i currently do researches ..... and therefor i sit on the computer all day. and work very hard. so - to relax i am fishing for compliments in this forum and on facebook and wherever. ... Plus i have extreme multi tasking abilities.....and am extremely smart.... and can do like more than one thing at once (which is jerking a guy off AND talking to him for example...) . you have a problem with that? You should try it, to do a few more things than gathering reviews and collecting money.. What about collecting money, being a smart-ass , AND work a regular job at the same time?
Why would that be so hard to understand? I have a regular job too and do scientific research and happen to use a computer with internet access. So - what are you trying to imply? That taking breaks between writing research papers or during interpreting interviews for that same matter are forbidden? I have the luxury to live in a country where internet access is on the same computer i use for working on.... WOW!!! How do you do it usually when you post on boards?.....oh and since i am in europe we don`t have these lousy "forbidden access" stuff on our computers at work. Like in the USA in kinkos and on most workplaces sites like these are blocked, right?
Immigrate to Africa?

I always enjoy people that describe themselves as extremely smart. They wear it like a label for everyone to see. Intelligence is self evident and it's not necessary to wear a sign or let everyone know you possess it.I was really not talking about you when I wrote that but since you seem disturbed by it I will include you also. I applaud your abililty to multitask. It's a rare ability I also possess as I am chewing gum as I write this. I am also juggling and texting too. I guess I am extremely smart.

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by burkalini

I always enjoy people that describe themselves as extremely smart. They wear it like a label for everyone to see. Intelligence is self evident and it's not necessary to wear a sign or let everyone know you possess it.I was really not talking about you when I wrote that but since you seem disturbed by it I will include you also. I applaud your abililty to multitask. It's a rare ability I also possess as I am chewing gum as I write this. I am also juggling and texting too. I guess I am extremely smart.

and i enjoy people who cannot make a distinction between sarcasm and stating facts - yawn. I assume someone who is extremely intelligent would not have to write about it, right? Its the same with women who think they are beautiful and have to wipe it in everyone`s face all the time?

it was meant to be sarcastic. But for someone who chews gum during juggling and texting :-) this must be a little hard to understand . Oh btw. wasn`t there a study years ago that chewing gum improves the intellect as it improves connections in the brain? so keep on chewing :-)

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

and i enjoy people who cannot make a distinction between sarcasm and stating facts - yawn. Oh btw. wasn`t there a study years ago that chewing gum improves the intellect as it improves connections in the brain? so keep on chewing :-)

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

and i enjoy people who cannot make a distinction between sarcasm and stating facts - yawn. I assume someone who is extremely intelligent would not have to write about it, right? Its the same with women who think they are beautiful and have to wipe it in everyone`s face all the time?

it was meant to be sarcastic. But for someone who chews gum during juggling and texting :-) this must be a little hard to understand . Oh btw. wasn`t there a study years ago that chewing gum improves the intellect as it improves connections in the brain? so keep on chewing :-)

Well gee golly maam. I really sorry to get you in a fit over this. I guess doing all them chores at the same time just got me up and riled. Me pappy always said if it sounds a little fishy then add some tartar sauce and make it real tasty. I guess a fancified lady like you must be have way more smarts than me. I'll just get back to my hollar and study my rhymic tick.

[Naomi4u]

oh my i missed a lot! :/

[bigbear25]

Any provider want a sugar daddy pm me, I've always wanted to try this out

[Memory757]

Originally Posted by BellaIsabella

I was just wondering, how many providers have tried having a sugar daddy or how many hobbyists have been sugar daddies? What was your experience? Good/bad? I was thinking trying the sugar daddy thing, for the fun of it...

I have tried the sugar daddy scene. In bigger cities it is successful, I didnt have to work as a provider or even a regularjob my sd took care of it.

My experience with sugardaddy.com at first was horrible when I paid for the membership. I cancelled the membership and thats when I started meeting nice for real guys. Its kind of common sense when you think about it though, if a guy cant pay for the membership most likely they dont want to meet women right? So with having just the free membership paid people are the only ones who can write you. Not all are legit but some are. I would say that the best site to use would be seekingarrangements.com though. More legit people for the fl area.

Currently, I have an sd we meet about once a week he pays for my expenses there and back and my hotel stay ( he married ) Also he takes me shopping and gives a good allowance everytime we meet. He even surprises me with green dot cards throughout the week.

I can say that having an sd is alot of work though. They call you at times just to say hello like they are a bf but it is very rewarding if you find the right one and can also be very fun.

[SlowHand49]

Any women wanting a sugar-free sugar daddy pm me. *L*

[BellaIsabella]

If I can connect with that porn star hottie you guys helped me find the name of here, I will gladly be his sugar mama...even though he is like 25 years older then me LOL

[JoanJet]

I had a pt one from June 2010 to Dec 14 , 2010 , here's my deal think I may have wasted time . I did enjoy his company big IT guy. When it came down to need of a washer dryer set he told me to goto the laundry matt. I have never spoke to him again , poor guy only made 150. hr. There OK about the same as a great reg.

[caramelqtee mila]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Um just because one is not an open escort as you say does not make them a hypocrite dear...it makes them discreet. A hypocrite would be someone who preaches NO escorting while doing it, not one who has a bit of common sense to protect the very life they worked so hard to attain. Just because you feel it necessary to shout it from the roof tops with no regard for anyone else in your life, does not make you a better person lemme tell ya.

I find it very funny that you claim to have all this education yet you think it's smart to broadcast the fact that you are indeed a hooker? You can chum it up to escorting, being a courtesan, whatever, but you are still spreading your legs for money lol. I have never had a BF while doing this, and that is a conscious decision on my part. I don't however tell my parents, teachers, or friends what I do...it's not hypocritical, it's my choice to be DISCREET! That's what this business is built on....lies, lust, and discretion lmao!

I guess all that faux education didn't tell you that in the real world employers don't find hookers to be the best candidates for new hires, and heaven forbid one of the soccer dads seeing you on the net. It also did not teach you how to use a spell check and put spaces between paragraphs, but that's another story entirely. When you can't even use proper capitalizations and use the word "proof" when it should be "prove," you lose credibility on so many levels.

Just because someone does not do things the way you do does not make them a hypocrite, and it certainly does not make them any less credible especially when they have the facts to back it up.

You're new so I won't be too hard on you, but don't expect the masses to be the same. It's a good thing you didn't post this in Houston lol.

On another note...if you are so not a hypocrite why hide your face? Are you ashamed of someone finding out what you do or is for other reasons? Just curious.

Very interesting and informative thread ladies! I took the time to read it and im thoroughly enjoying it specifically your post Ms London. Thank you for addressing and verbalizing what so many of us were thinking. Its not so necessary to pass judgement on people you don't know,or generalize an entire age bracket,demographic,etc based on what you think you know. Very good thread indeed