Sugar daddies?

[London Rayne]

I love a good debate and I must say Nina brings a hell of a lot more to the conversating than someone who types like *&+kuj788* that lmao.

Just wait til it's all THREE of us against one poor guy lol. That's going to call for popcorn!

[Gabriella Golden]

@Burkalini YES!!! My GFE is something...amazing. You guys need a wakeup call and since I don't give a shit Im happy to say it. Don't put words in my mouth, Im not angry, Im just saying what the majority of these girls are thinking. If you only knew what what said between providers.....hahahaha.....yes get off and get out, what you think you're going to stay and clean the place up with me? You pay for a service and you receive it. If you don't like that I say you get off and then you get to leave then you can pay half my rent and become my "sugardaddy" LOL!!!

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by dearhunter

Blah blah blah.....they are whiny, needy, high maintenance bitches......and that is just the sugar daddies.....don't get me started on the sugar babies.

If I had the intellect, I would get in there and spar with you college educated ladies....but, I'm just an asshole who pays the hooktards to leave so I can get my snore on.

[Gabriella Golden]

Originally Posted by Jackie S

Gabriella, just from reading your post, it seems you have some serious issues with the lifestyle you are in.

In the Business World, you seem to lack what we call "people skills". In a business such as yours, (a service industry), this is a very important consideration. Regardless of your good looks, most clients will only put up with so much arrogant distain untill they take their business elsewhere.

But if this is working for you, by all means continue. But if your personality is that which comes forth in your writing, you probably should have a plan 'B' ready.

Thank you Jackie for stating that I lack "people skills". I manage an insurance company and staff a team of 20 girls for promotional events! Yeah thats my real job and I'll say it. I deal with people everyday with the upmost respect. THAT is not the issue but thank you for judging me with no knowledge of who I really am. This so called job is different and I can run it the way I choose. Maybe you should have read my reviews on here before you made such an uneducated remark. During my sessions I am the ultimate GFE and if you didn't read my comment before, you would never think I would write something like that. I am super sweet and the perfect girlfriend for one hour. Thats what they pay for and thats what I provide. Hunny, many providers think exactly the way I do, then turn around and act exactly the opposite of those feeling as I do. Lets get real. Sorry if you guys have a problem with my honesty but lets all put our big boy pants on and grow up. Im actually disappointed I did'nt receive more backlash! haha. I appreciate your input on "plan B" were you referring to the pill? lol. Hunny, I have two real full time jobs and go to school so if I want to say what I feel that is my right and if a guy decides to keep his $300 in his pocket because of this post thats no sweat off my back. I, like any smart businesswoman, have several sources of income, and if one falls off so be it. I don't feel the need to censure myself on something like Eccie. We're all adults and this is all for fun. Oh, but thanks for the "good looks" comment, at least you got something right about me.

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Gabriella Golden

@Burkalini YES!!! My GFE is something...amazing. You guys need a wakeup call and since I don't give a shit Im happy to say it. Don't put words in my mouth, Im not angry, Im just saying what the majority of these girls are thinking. If you only knew what what said between providers.....hahahaha.....yes get off and get out, what you think you're going to stay and clean the place up with me? You pay for a service and you receive it. If you don't like that I say you get off and then you get to leave then you can pay half my rent and become my "sugardaddy" LOL!!!

another provider exactly how i like them :-) its an honor to get to know you

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Gabriella Golden

Thank you Jackie for stating that I lack "people skills". I manage an insurance company and staff a team of 20 girls for promotional events! Yeah thats my real job and I'll say it. I deal with people everyday with the upmost respect. THAT is not the issue but thank you for judging me with no knowledge of who I really am. This so called job is different and I can run it the way I choose. Maybe you should have read my reviews on here before you made such an uneducated remark. During my sessions I am the ultimate GFE and if you didn't read my comment before, you would never think I would write something like that. I am super sweet and the perfect girlfriend for one hour. Thats what they pay for and thats what I provide. Hunny, many providers think exactly the way I do, then turn around and act exactly the opposite of those feeling as I do. Lets get real. Sorry if you guys have a problem with my honesty but lets all put our big boy pants on and grow up. Im actually disappointed I did'nt receive more backlash! haha. I appreciate your input on "plan B" were you referring to the pill? lol. Hunny, I have two real full time jobs and go to school so if I want to say what I feel that is my right and if a guy decides to keep his $300 in his pocket because of this post thats no sweat off my back. I, like any smart businesswoman, have several sources of income, and if one falls off so be it. I don't feel the need to censure myself on something like Eccie. We're all adults and this is all for fun. Oh, but thanks for the "good looks" comment, at least you got something right about me.

Honey don`t worry, they say the same about me lacking people skills :-). Well at least i have character :-) I don`t think that catering to every person on this planet in a polite manner is really having people`skills.

"a good buddy for everyone is a good friend of no one"

[Gabriella Golden]

Originally Posted by Legal Tender

When I read this diatribe, I had several thoughts. First, what a beautiful young woman whose despise for those who seek her services is simply sad. And, pragmatically, it just isn't a recipe for good karma. It is an economic argument: giving pleasure for an hourly compensation certainly beats the constraints of a SD/SB relationship.

The writer of that venom is certainly a girl one would want to spend an hour or two with, if at all. I have had two very successful relationships with women half of my age. In fact, both were young enough to be my daughters. Both were serious women who never wanted to be in a position in life to be economically dependent on a man for her security. Both were students and becoming educated was their primary goal. But, both were beautiful young women who understood the pleasure they could provide. I really wanted them to succeed, and they both are succeeding. I made no demands but I wanted to know how their university study was going. Soon it was clear that the newest fashion jean was not a priority, and that I was going to do what I said I was going to do, and that was to treat them like I would treat one of my children. Tuition, books, an allowance for a cheap college apartment, which was shared with other girls - the typical university existence, was offered and given. I never felt neglected or used. To the contrary, both physical relationships lasted several years and I reaped the benefit of sex that was offered without request more often than not. Perhaps it was the realization that I really cared about these young women and they knew it. Perhaps it was because I was the father figure they wanted but never had. Perhaps it was simply they knew I would do what I said I would do. Everything is impermanent, so I never expected that the sex would continue after they go into the work force. It didn't, but I still have two beautiful friends (one is married and the other is engaged - serious relationships they would never have entertained while in school) that are still in my life, but not "in the biblical sense." Don't forget Karma.

Hunny, lets not go there with Karma seeing as most men have their wedding ring on when they knock on my door. Furthermore, do not make a comment on the way I feel about escorting. Since you do not know me you would not have enough knowledge about me to make such a statement. I would not do anything that I despise. I know it hurts a lot of men out there to hear that the way I feel is the way many of us feel and we talk about it all the time in private. Since you have never paid to see me, you have no idea how I am when on the clock so please go judge someone else, or better yet, read my reviews. (hmmm novel idea!) I can say what I feel and act a completely different way. You pay for an hour, you don't pay for me to keep my thoughts to myself on not on an Eccie board. Thank you for having that much disdain in your heart to feel the need to bash me. I don't care so much so I'm going to get off this now and on to my real job, enough attention on you for free. lol

[GabrielaSweetheart]

I've had a couple sugar daddies. hardly any of them knew the ropes and really just wanted a relationship. still open to someone who knows what they are doing (;

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Gabriella Golden

Hunny, lets no go there with Karma seeing as most men have their wedding ring on when they knock on my door. Furthermore, do not make a comment on they way I feel about escorting. Since you do not know me you would not have enough knowledge about me to make such a statement. I would not do anything that I despise. I know it hurts a lot of men out there to hear that the way I feel is the way many of us feel and we talk about it all the time in private. Since you have never paid to see me, you have no idea how I am when on the clock so please go judge someone else, or better yet, read my reviews. (hmmm novel idea!) I can say what I feel and act a completely different way. You pay for an hour, you don't pay for me to keep my thoughts to myself on not on an Eccie board. Thank you for having that much disdain in your heart to feel the need to bash me. I don't care so much so I'm going to get off this now and on to my real job, enough attention on you for free. lol

and anyway, i know for a fact that most of the providers who pretend to be "oh so polite in public to anyone and their clients" are nice in the face of a client and then talk bad shit about him behind their back. This is something i do not EVER do, because my character forbids me to backstab people, while smiling in their face and pretending all is ok. If i have issues with a person i tell it in the face!
People who talk to me about their issues with clients and dare not to talk to him in the face are - sorry - iritating me ! And i pity those clients.
As i said - if you have friends like that , you don`t need enemies anymore!

[London Rayne]

Gabriella, you will find that any woman here who does more than suck up for attention is made out to be "mechanical and businesslike." Funny thing...the guys who are secure with themselves and see this for what it is (an illusion), never make those remarks lol. They know that certain women don't like certain guys here, and that it does not apply to the business as a whole.

If every woman that had something of substance to say was robotic in person, I highly doubt she would continue to charge premium rates and garner stellar reviews every week lol. I think some people forget we are not on the clock when posting, and we can actually say what we want. That's where the fantasy comes in....you be exactly what they want once that appt. starts. As far as I know, that's what customer service consists of.

We have no repsonsibility to be nice to people that DON"T pay us who want to act stupid, and that's where the line gets blurred. I have few compaints about the men I have seen....it's the peanut gallery that I have issues with. It's not what you say here, but how you say it I suppose. Either way, be yourself.

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Gabriella, you will find that any woman here who does more than suck up for attention is made out to be "mechanical and businesslike." Funny thing...the guys who are secure with themselves and see this for what it is (an illusion), never make those remarks lol. They know that certain women don't like certain guys here, and that it does not apply to the business as a whole.

If every woman that had something of substance to say was robotic in person, I highly doubt she would continue to charge premium rates and garner stellar reviews every week lol. I think some people forget we are not on the clock when posting, and we can actually say what we want. That's where the fantasy comes in....you be exactly what they want once that appt. starts. As far as I know, that's what customer service consists of.

We have no repsonsibility to be nice to people that DON"T pay us who want to act stupid, and that's where the line gets blurred. I have few compaints about the men I have seen....it's the peanut gallery that I have issues with. It's not what you say here, but how you say it I suppose. Either way, be yourself.

London you are right! Also me has to learn a little more diplomacy in bringing points across! Its good to have feedback on that here from people like you. I love that! Thanks!

[London Rayne]

You don't need to change for anyone either...who has the time to conform lol. You obviously know what you are doing, and are quite unique. Keep it that way. This place would be rather boring if everyone always said the same thing over and over...and that's usually what it's like most of the time.

[Jackie S]

Gab, just stating an opinion based on what you wrote.

I am also in a service based industry, the manufacturing end, and I depend on a loyal clientel, just as you do.

The last thing I would do is write in a trade journal, or any other publication that my clients were apt to read, would be anything that would come accross as holding contempt.

But, as I said before, if it works for you, by all means continue.

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Jackie S

Gab, just stating an opinion based on what you wrote.

I am also in a service based industry, the manufacturing end, and I depend on a loyal clientel, just as you do.

The last thing I would do is write in a trade journal, or any other publication that my clients were apt to read, would be anything that would come accross as holding contempt.

But, as I said before, if it works for you, by all means continue.

I respectfully disagree. Some people prefer honesty. If i were a man, I^d book her in a minute! I personally get bored of all these sophisticated "nay" sayers easily. she sounds like you have a great time with her and like she is honest. And i `d prefer that ! And i do work in a service profession too. But that does not mean i have to "eat shit" any time any day. It just means i have to honestly approach issues and adress them :-). Not sliming my way up to the top (or was it just the middle?)

[LAVixian]

Originally Posted by BellaIsabella

I was just wondering, how many providers have tried having a sugar daddy or how many hobbyists have been sugar daddies? What was your experience? Good/bad? I was thinking trying the sugar daddy thing, for the fun of it...

Lol, cute thread. I am jaded with the idea of a SD because I briefly tried it once.... by briefly I mean that I actually spent maybe a total of 1 hour with the dumbass... he said he wanted to give me 200/week but see me 3x's a week for 4 hrs a pop

I told him he could go screw himself