Sugar Daddy

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by Goddess Athena

I would love one as long as the boundaries are clear.

Most times, the boundaries aren't clear cut. Well, no more than in any dating relationship.

The best sugar relationships I've seen do not involve a set monthly rate. Of course, it's not good to be a sugar baby siting by the phone waiting for a call from a jerk who always expect her to be available. Those relationships fail just like their civilian world counterparts.

My rule of numb is this...if you can calculate what your hourly rate is and care about that, then that's not a sugar relationship. It's having a hooker on retainer.

[sheiskarmyn]

That's great I post too for sd on the sd site but its one's who want to I.m. and skype for what see me in per.

[jframe2]

A contribution from a SD-
approx 5 years ago, I was taking a class at the local University and found I had a lot in common with a good looking older female student, (early 30's). She was a Vet (as am I) and was very focused on finishing her advanced degree and getting a job.

We studied together and as I realized her personal situation ( living in small, 1 -bedroom apt, trying to avoid getting a job so she could stay on track, needing some things for her car) I started helping out with a few things as needed: put gas in her car, bought her some tires, nothing really extravagant (from my perspective).

Then it happened- she just laid it out there: let's have sex. I had helped her and we both had needs, etc. So it started. Approx 2 years later she graduates and gets a job with a Govt agency I had told her about.

Her going away surprise to me was that she had broached the SD/SB thing with another girl and they brought up the subject to me. WOW, I was floored.

Girl #2 lasted approx 2 years and then she got a job out of state.

Great times for approx 4-5 years.

Flash forward, it has now been going on two years since girl #2 left and I have been trying to find another arrangement using all types of opportunities; SD/SB sites, AFF, CL, etc.

Nothing but disappointment!! Unrealistic expectations, time-wasters, scams, druggies, alcoholics, you name it!

To end this missive on a high note, I have found some great ladies here on Eccie that are smart, intelligent and have some chemistry.

But the SB/SD was the TOPS!

Everyone is looking for something!

[Fancylady]

I have had no luck finding sugar daddy. Help wanted Sugar daddy!

[heinz5710]

In a good SD/SB relationship, neither party is counting the benefits. He shouldn't be expecting her to be available at all times. She shouldn't expect that the flow of funds is endless. My impression is that the relationship is a little like friends with benefits. If it is all about sex and money, it is a problem. It is then that you see things dropping when either says no.

[Gotyour6]

Originally Posted by Fancylady

I have had no luck finding sugar daddy. Help wanted Sugar daddy!

They look for you. They haven't found you yet or did and are not interested.

Being a verified provider is not going to get you a sugar daddy either.

[Prime Time]

I'll take a bucket of fried chicken over a SB any day.

[alias77]

What common interest could a 20 year old have with a old man? Good luck with that relationship or you can use the money you make to become self reliant. Either way.... good luck.

[RoxanneReynolds]

I was in the same boat as you when I first joined eccie....and seekingarrangement....and p411....all within a week of each other. I found some SD's on seekingarrangement, but they didn't pan out. They were hobby amateurs and didn't know how to keep their married life separate from their SB life. Then there are the ones that just want A LOT of free sex and talk about shopping and money, but never actually do it. A girl's gotta have hardships and starving children to interest some men.....but I have learned, those are the boyfriends you don't want. As soon as they "help" you, they are on to the next hoe that needs $ for broken cars and dreams. My BEST and current SD's started out as eccie/p411 clients.....and became regulars. In my humble opinion.....it is the best way to see fewer clients, guaranteed cash in hand.....and they also hook up things I actually need (or want). I love them and they do have priority over my time....new boyfriends are fillers for when I'm horny and SD is at work or if I want some extra cash. Good luck, don't give up!
xoxo

[alias77]

If you can find men like that? Keep milking them for all they have.

[Audrey Astor]

I'm concerned how it is milking if both parties are happy and getting what they want? I have some rather extravagant habits and expenses. When I pay for services or "things" that I want, but are not necessarily a need, I don't feel like I got "milked". I just like the finer things, as do some men. Nothing wrong with that if everyone that is "actually involved" in the transaction are happy IMO.

[Grey_Wolf]

I totally agree with Holly Love. If two consenting adults come to an agreement & both parties deliver, how's that getting milked? If you don't like the service, just don't go back & you can even post on this site what you didn't like. That way, everyone else looking to do business with that person has some idea what it is the offer or don't.

[Gotyour6]

Lol

This is funny as shit.

Hookers that claim they have a sugar daddy.

You have a client that is a sucker.

[RoxanneReynolds]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Lol

This is funny as shit.

Hookers that claim they have a sugar daddy.

You have a client that is a sucker.

No need to be insulting to me/hookers/prostitutes/providers/escorts/UTRs/sugar babies/whores or my boyfriends/husbands/sugar daddies/ johns/clients....whatever your perception of yourself is is your opinion. Many of the "sugar babies" and "sugar daddies" on SD/SB sites are also on escort sites, strip clubs and massage parlors.

[Blaze]

Maybe he is just mad that all he has enough money for is in the "trick" category instead of being Mr Mac Sugar Daddy? Just the random thoughts of a whore who has her solids...