What would you do if you got "caught"?

[TexAss]

I really feel like I'm getting my "hobby legs" under me lately. I've seen some great providers, am learning the ropes on how to wade through all of the options in beautiful girls available here in the Dallas area and basically have been having the best sex of my life recently.

But what if I get "caught"? It would be the end of my marriage for sure and I know that, I've have accepted the risks and what it would cost me. I try to keep it on the down low but everyone makes mistakes.

What would you do it you get "caught"?
Lie about it?
Come clean and take your medicine?
Leave town? LOL

I think it would be interesting to know how you would handle it?

[Guest120614-1]

"It Wasnt Me!"

[Guest082216-1]

Never admit anything. Then STFU

[Tara Evans]

Deny, Deny, Deny

[Tetas]

"You gonna believe me or your lying eyes?"

[motor]

i am single........glad that I don't have to worry about getting caught

[hotlips_houlihan]

Originally Posted by motorload

i am single........glad that I don't have to worry about getting caught

So our relationship means nothing to you then? Wow, I'm hurt. How could you?

LMAO

[Lana Warren]

Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan

So our relationship means nothing to you then? Wow, I'm hurt. How could you?

LMAO

Yep Meg, the sumbitch cheated on both of us!

[vnurse]

Interesting and scary thought for sure!

I am SO more than happy to have my license so my gentlemen friends have the excuse of seeing a massage therapist. I have clients whose wives have been on my table AND I have a gentleman whose wife buys him massages from time to time. Go figure...great idea, isn't it?

Gift certificates available!

[looiecypher]

I would do it again.

[Iaintliein]

Flop around on the ground wide eyed and gasping, all the time hoping she throws me back in rather than clubbing me.

[Avery Blake]

Originally Posted by Tara Evans

Deny, Deny, Deny

Tara beat me to the punch by saying exactly what I was going to say.

Great minds think alike girlfriend.........

[JustMe68]

Tex,

Everybody's situation is different so I guarantee there is no definitive, "I would absolutely do this..." answer. It depends on your SO, your relationship with her, why you are with her, why you are hobbying (what is missing w/your SO and not just sexually), what you have to lose, etc.

The very best answer of course is not to get caught, and if you are smart, discreet, and careful with your hobbying, it shouldn't happen. Obvious Advice Alert: Use a separate phone & eMail (preferably whole other off-site computer) with strong passwords, use cash only, date only known, high quality, well-reviewed, non-drama ladies, NEVER get emotionally entangled with a date, date infrequently and not in any set schedule pattern, etc.

I'm not a hobbyist or a provider, but I was "the other woman" once and had no interest in seeing my friend lose his other life. We talked about what-ifs and how to avoid them and they were similar to the risks of hobbying.

Suspicions can be allayed with the right words and behavior, but caught is another story. In many of the "caught" scenarios I've seen (whether it's pilfering pens from the office, cheating SOs, kids surfing porn, shoplifting, etc.), it's often the sneaking around and lying that causes the most anger and pain, more so than the original precipitating event.

Although the immediate consequences may be painful, honesty is the best policy for me because then everybody knows "what is" and can take action to move on from there. Lying just makes everybody feel like crap and drags out a bad situation longer than is necessary. Especially if the one being lied to knows it but can't necessarily prove it or doesn't want to believe it, and everybody involved is just two-stepping around it.

Anyway, I'll step off the soapbox now, but wanted to chime in. Happy (Safe) Hobbying!

~JM68

[motor]

um,well,ah,you see, i didnt'.........awww shit

Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan

So our relationship means nothing to you then? Wow, I'm hurt. How could you?

LMAO

Originally Posted by Lana Warren

Yep Meg, the sumbitch cheated on both of us!

[oglfp12]

I am very careful not to get caught. However, if I am, I will add everything up, divide it by two, and move into an apartment. Actually, that's not a totally unpleasant prospect.