Need a lil advice on going Greek for my first time...

[iso40dds]

One of the problems many people have is that they think professional anal porn is easy. I have a couple of friends in the adult industry and it takes girls quite a while to work up to take those big dicks so easily. Lots of dildo work, lube...one thing to start working on is giving yourself enemas and getting good at it....it's a slow process but if you enjoy the feeling...and I do myself...you will take the time to work up to it. But, right out of the shoot...you are not going to take a 8" cock to the balls...not going to happen!

[MsPrittiKitti]

i greek!!!!
when i first started doing it....
i used a finger first. then a small but very powerful dildo!!
the vibration made it feel really good & helped me relax more, where inserting it was easy.

i have to admit..when i first started going to greece...
id have to be in a certain position to be able to take it.
just remember to "relax" dont tense up at all. then it wont be pleasant.

hopefully when you try it, youll love it!!!

[NipLover]

I have had civvie partners who claimed they climaxed much harder from anal than vaginal.

[Guest103012-2]

I LOVE IT... as long as the guy is gentle at first!!

[rCoder]

Technically the nerves for both the clit and g-spot wrap around the anus on their way to the spinal cord. This is why gals can discover greek to be extremely pleasurable.

The initial problem is learning how to relax the splinter muscles. Besides starting small, a couple of other tricks include deep relaxing breaths and stimulating the clit (but not to orgasm) while penetrating. It does take patience and practice. Don't be afraid to call it a day if it's not working, just try again another time.

The biggest hurdle to overcome is the mental, you have to want to experience it.

[DRorchia]

I have a friend who claims to have a 100% success rate getting first timers to try anal....he uses what he likes to call Pavlov's theory. This is not a fast process according to him, it takes months but like I said, he claims it's never failed even with ladies who swore they'd never try it. He starts during intercourse.....when the woman is about to come he simply places his small finger on her anus. No pressure, no insertion, simply places it there. He continues to do this until the woman becomes "conditioned" to feeling his finger there when she comes. Next, when he notices that she's comfortable with his finger there (after numerous sessions or weeks) he applies slight pressure, again right as the woman reaches climax. He claims that after a while the woman wants to feel that pressure there when she comes, simply because her mind is conditioned to that feeling each time she climaxes. He states that he NEVER pushes the finger in, never applies hard pressure, just gentle enough pressure for her to feel and get used to. After a while he swears that when a woman comes, she'll start pressing back onto his finger, without any prodding or pushing on his part. As she now becomes used to feeling his finger inside her anus when she climaxes, slowly but surely she'll push down more and more and deeper. This is when he slowly starts switching fingers, same technique just using his larger fingers. Once a woman is used to his middle finger being inside of her when she climaxes, again, all on her own doing, he swears that most women then broach the subject of anal sex with HIM, without him ever having mentioned or suggested it. I have yet to try this myself but it certainly is an interesting theory. Anyone heard of this approach before?

[FWR]

The girls I've been with who were first time anal were all civies. I used a few drinks to relax them, and lot of forplay to get them in the mood. From K-9 I inserted a vey small toy with lots of lube. The musscles tends to relax after the first insertion, lots of lube helps grease the way. The, after a few minutes of toy play, more lube on my condom and i go in.

many girls are surprised about the anal O. They never thought that would happen

[austin_voy]

Originally Posted by MarleyMonroe

For your 1st time... do it with a guy who is small, gentle and knows how to lead. Have fun! Its worth a try!!

Oh well, two for three. Good enough for major league baseball.

[austin_voy]

Originally Posted by knotty man

FUCK IT!! go balls deep. which for me is only about 3". usually when i ask for greek the lady just giggles ,pats my head and says "aren't you cute".

"You sure you can get to Athens?"

Or the "compliment" I once heard about when a woman was confronted by a stereotypical flasher in NYC. "Wow, does something that small work?"

But I suspect that most of us are at least capable of doing that much. Or we wouldn't be here.

"Hey, there was this one guy who couldn't get rock hard. But it was a nice pebble."

I can probably think of hundreds. Need to get into stand-up.

[austin_voy]

Originally Posted by iso40dds

One of the problems many people have is that they think professional anal porn is easy. I have a couple of friends in the adult industry and it takes girls quite a while to work up to take those big dicks so easily. Lots of dildo work, lube...one thing to start working on is giving yourself enemas and getting good at it....it's a slow process but if you enjoy the feeling...and I do myself...you will take the time to work up to it. But, right out of the shoot...you are not going to take a 8" cock to the balls...not going to happen!

Yeah, many, many years ago, in a previous life, I had the "opportunity" to work in a studio that did porn. Saw some actresses working themselves over before a scene, bigger and bigger dildos with lots and lots of lube. And if there was going to be any A2M they spent a lot of time in the head doing multiple enemas.

One of the ladies said they sometimes would let a real bitch newbie go on set before giving her the tips, just to hear the screams when the guy went deep.

[Mature Companion]

Originally Posted by st929

I wouldnt recommend doing it with a client you dont know real well.

Just how well DO you have to know someone to enjoy THAT pleasure?Why cannot someone you meet on a first date, enjoy said pleasure?



For a lady to find it pleasurable (or so they have told me) it takes alot of teasing and relaxing before it to be let in.

Perhaps some DATO! But there's not much teasing a man needs to do nor any relaxation that I feel needs to be had. To enjoy such pleasure.
The woman either likes it or she doesn't. To over think it it. Simply spoils the pleasure. If a woman truly enjoys it. The man need not have to ask. She will take it! (per my experience)


Some ladies just dont like it period and some really get off on it. Some are in between but I shutter to think the first time would be on the clock.

It matters not where or when one enjoys it. So long as he & she ENJOYS IT!

To the OP:
IF you've never enjoyed the Grecian pleasure before. First make sure you prep yourself (cleansing wise) learn how to do that first. As it takes a good bit of cleansing before you can enjoy the Grecian pleasure. (each and every time).
And the first time you may find it uncomfortable and unappealing.

Then forgo the fingers. Unless your going in for a check up at the doctors. Fingers are NOT the most appealing nor satisfying way to enjoy greek.
A dick is bigger than fingers and therefore you need to practice with toy of all shapes & sizes. Try with lube or no lube. (as there's a certain feeling that you may or may not like when using lube.) (Personally I dislike lube & don't use any) just down right hot wet spit!

Then when YOUR ready to enjoy the Grecian pleasure with a man. Take it when you want it. And go at your own pace. Never allow a man to pressure you into it.
And don't be surprised to find that any size dick will be a pleasure to enjoy back there. Not just the small ones. Too small and you might as well use your fingers and feel like your getting an exam.


Don't over think it. Just enjoy it!

[Reese]

Originally Posted by DTorchia

I have a friend who claims to have a 100% success rate getting first timers to try anal....he uses what he likes to call Pavlov's theory. This is not a fast process according to him, it takes months but like I said, he claims it's never failed even with ladies who swore they'd never try it. He starts during intercourse.....when the woman is about to come he simply places his small finger on her anus. No pressure, no insertion, simply places it there. He continues to do this until the woman becomes "conditioned" to feeling his finger there when she comes. Next, when he notices that she's comfortable with his finger there (after numerous sessions or weeks) he applies slight pressure, again right as the woman reaches climax. He claims that after a while the woman wants to feel that pressure there when she comes, simply because her mind is conditioned to that feeling each time she climaxes. He states that he NEVER pushes the finger in, never applies hard pressure, just gentle enough pressure for her to feel and get used to. After a while he swears that when a woman comes, she'll start pressing back onto his finger, without any prodding or pushing on his part. As she now becomes used to feeling his finger inside her anus when she climaxes, slowly but surely she'll push down more and more and deeper. This is when he slowly starts switching fingers, same technique just using his larger fingers. Once a woman is used to his middle finger being inside of her when she climaxes, again, all on her own doing, he swears that most women then broach the subject of anal sex with HIM, without him ever having mentioned or suggested it. I have yet to try this myself but it certainly is an interesting theory. Anyone heard of this approach before?

Sounds like ur friend knows what he is doing! Tell him to give me a call!!!

[Sidewinder]

Read "The Surrender", by Toni Bentley. Lots of verbiage, but some good information.

The biggest key to success in this area is relaxation. The second is lubrication. The third is TAKING YOUR TIME.

[tron]

One provider I know that offers greek said she likes Wet Platinum lube best -
http://www.stayswetlonger.com/wetpro...platinum.shtml

[lifeisgood]

I have a relatively high success rate with Greek starters (NOT 100%). basically from a guy perspective the key is :

1) Make her feel comfortable- this means don't push it, don't' be aggressive, keep a good sense of humor
2) Use " A LOT of LUBE"
3) resist the temptation to go "all the way in", right away--- I know this one is difficult
4) This one is very important: alcohol helps, a couple of drinks can really make a difference


at the end, the women that I have gone down these road, REALLY loved it!


Have fun