Tiffany,
I'm just going to speak as a woman just as yourself and not as a moderator or making any type of statement with regard to ECCIE's policies.
You're asking a completely unanswerable question. Who are we to judge or even be the hobby police in any way? Who would that job fall to if there was a policy to not allow a certain sector of "this" in our midst?
Would we include boyfriends who are supported by their stripper girlfriends or other sex worker types? What would we do with the women? And the change within the dynamics of these type of relationships are ever changing.
You KNOW this.
So as one woman to another, let's think about your question. One just cannot sanction, on a public board, the private actions of an individual. It's not "policable" (if that is even a word) and even if it were, I wouldn't wish to be associated with a board that would do it.
In life, and with all things, judgments are a narrow slippery slope. And one that I don't believe either of us wish to become involved with in regard to this issue.
Hope my very personal philosophy on this matter helps.
Warmly,
Elisabeth
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