If you could, would you?

[Action77]

Was wondering what if you found out that a coworker, friend, associate that you have always wanted to get with had actually been escorting on the side, would you make the call?
Or would that be crossing some sort of line?

[nascar88888]

i would in a heart beat

[smokey1187]

for sure

[cutiebuffny]

I absolutely would do that.

[NormalBob]

Probably. There are a few things that could get in the way but I can't think of any right now.

[guest032013]

happens all of the time to me....

[wantsome]

Years ago I worked at a place where one of the employees had a side job as a provider. She and another co-worker conducted business outside of our "traditional" business and it did not end well. They met a few times and after a while she started to unravel. I think she may have gotten mixed up with drugs. Well, she ended up lossing the legit position because she was missing so much work, and got pissed at everyone that remained and outed "John".
The poor duded was devistated. He and his wife broke up and he ended up leaving his job within the next few months.

I don't think I would ever want to put myself in that type of situation. My motto remains - DON'T EAT WHERE YA SHIT!

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by Action77

Was wondering what if you found out that a coworker, friend, associate that you have always wanted to get with had actually been escorting on the side, would you make the call?
Or would that be crossing some sort of line?

coworker: nope, not on your life

friend: maybe, not likely

associate: After looking up, maybe, not likely

or where you thinking "acquainiance"
1} knowledge of a persons or things gained form experience with them.
2} person known to one, but not a close friend.
And #2 is where many would find a UTR

[jackfengshui]

I agree with wantsome and OSD. It will be very tempting, but too risky for me.

[retone]

although, in reading the question, i had at least 4 co-workers pop into my head at the thought of it

[elghund]

Hard to stay discreet and/or UTR if you hobby with someone who knows you personally.....

....too risky.



elg....

[MajorHands]

If she were comfortable with it, I'd be game. I once had a former rub n tug attendant I'd seen apply for a job where she would work for me. I had someone else do the interview and we hired her...she did a good job although the massage thing did eventually come out...in my situation, that wasn't a factor in my job, but I could see it being risky.

[Action77]

Thank you for the feedback....have to say I am still tempted but know I would still have to interact/ work with this individual so kinda stumped.
Then what happens if she were to tell another female co-worker. This could be bad or good????

[BrookeButtons]

I say stay away. I have always had "other jobs" besides this one and if somehow it came up or a co-worker found out that I was a provider....I would kindly decline. Way too messy for both parties and a lot to loose from both. If you really have to think about seeing the lady in question....its probably your inner person telling you what you already know, that it isn't a good idea. As far as her telling other employees, you shouldn't have to worry. Many of us girls realize that when the session ends, that is that. We go about our lives and ask you to go about yours. And the only time this session is ever brought back up, is when a reference is in question. Bottom line, I would say stay away. Too many what if's could happen and probably would happen. Especially if you feel as though she may not be able to handle keeping this UTR.

[m2244]

two things one it is risky for you and two you will make her feel very uncomfortable most likely