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olgreedyb · 11-12-2010, 11:12 AM

and she knows who she is. I've been hobbying for going on eight years now, seen lots of attractive, skilled, engaging, intelligent providers; but very few that were all of the above. And after the session was over, I've felt there was something, maybe something I couldn't put my finger on, that just didn't click.

But I recently had sessions with someone I can finally say is my ATF. She's all of the above and more, and I now leave the session wishing she didn't have to leave, that we could just cuddle and talk and hold each other a little longer. We've exchanged emails between sessions, and we've exchanged RL info about each other, and trust each other to be discreet. We understand this is a hobby, I'm not leaving my wife/life for her and she's not going to be sitting around waiting for me to call her. It's comfortable, and the time goes by too fast when we're together, and not fast enough before we're together again.

Not romanticizing this too much; she's not my girlfriend or SO, she's a provider and I'm a client. But the experience is so much richer than in my past experiences. So, does that answer your question? (at least from my perspective?)

Murf76 · 11-12-2010, 11:14 PM

For me,it's much more than the physical thing.I enjoy good chemistry between us.A delicious sense of humor( she has to have one to put up with me) and a quick wit are big plusses with me!!! Crazy socks or a "12" Packer Jersey doesn't hurt either!!

DallasRain · 11-12-2010, 11:41 PM

quote---Crazy socks

Murf baby...wonder who wears those.....lol!!

and yes good chemistry is so very important!!

naughtynatale · 11-13-2010, 12:09 AM

I have so many ATF'S and each one is different. They are all special...

"12" Jersey huh ???? Oh my wonder who that is. tee hee

Murf76 · 11-13-2010, 12:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DallasRain

quote---Crazy socks

Murf baby...wonder who wears those.....lol!!

and yes good chemistry is so very important!!

Quote:

Originally Posted by naughtynatale

I have so many ATF'S and each one is different. They are all special...

"12" Jersey huh ???? Oh my wonder who that is. tee hee

Damn,Guess I was too obvious,huh??????

DallasRain · 11-13-2010, 12:22 AM

lol---we gotta do a threesome!!

oops sorry I hijacked thread!

Eden_Monet · 11-16-2010, 05:14 PM

that's to be expected Ms. Dallas :-p what other provider has the skill to change an ATF thread into a threesome possibility lol