How do you screen a new provider??

[cutiebuffny]

The providers have a screening process, and I am always very sceptical about seeing a new girl, and I usually stick with the few that I have seen. Usually about the location and making sure I am feel safe and the pics and profile are accurate.
What percautions do you take to make sure your "new" provider is on the up and up?? Especially if they have no reviews and has an out of town number.
Just wondering if anyone has some usefull information.

[offshoredrilling]

welcome. one of the mods will let you know soon i'm sure.

[cutiebuffny]

I dont want a mod point of view. I am looking for random answers from random hobbiests.

[offshoredrilling]

opps sorry read only the title, and was thinking you where a female

[Stud Daddy]

cutie, I try & get them to come to the hotel lobby or motel back or side door to grant me access to the place while I remain safely locked in my car. If she fits the bill Great!
If Not I can just drive away or in the case of the hotel lobby walk away as she isn't likely to make a scene in public and call undo attn to herself.

I hope this helps.

[cutiebuffny]

Thats a good method. What if it is a private residence or room with acccess to outside?? Also what about the concern of her being undercover??

[Stud Daddy]

Originally Posted by cutiebuffny

Thats a good method. What if it is a private residence or room with acccess to outside?? Also what about the concern of her being undercover??

a private residence ( house ) if neighborhood is safe, I'd still call her & have her come to the door to let me in. If I did have to walk up to the door or into an apt bldg. I'd have my wallet and most keys locked in the car. just enough $$ on me to cover what should be a pre-arranged and agreed upon price for time & services.

If that portion has been confirmed before hand, you can pretty much rule out LE and entrapment. If the lady has not stated a price for time or services Then watchout or avoid completely. Most Eccie Providers have references that make mention of these things so minimal discussion of them is the norm. just refer to a review & her ad & that will generally do it & keep you from being entrapped by LE.

[cutiebuffny]

WOW...................... That is an incredible help. TYVM Stud

[m2244]

cutiebuffny no offense to anyones ideas and thoughts but I think it is rude to just drive away maybe you thought the pics looked different ect ect.....at least have the courtesy to say i am sorry but your not what im looking for.....we have feelings to. Also my advice reviews do one good thing if the description is the same on all of them....chances are thats what you will get.....good luck

[jekemo48]

mary, would you be accepting if someone simply said that, thay youre not what im looking forward to? would you try to urge the fellow to stay, or would you just let him go and just accept that he didnt want to stay?

and i do think youre right, reviews, which i never write, as you know, should be the ultimate screening tool.

[Niktu]

Originally Posted by jekemo48

and i do think youre right, reviews, which i never write, as you know, should be the ultimate screening tool.

just a question, but with the value you place in reviews, why don't you write them?

[heatherelite]

Originally Posted by Stud Daddy

just enough $$ on me to cover what should be a pre-arranged and agreed upon price for time & services.

If that portion has been confirmed before hand, you can pretty much rule out LE and entrapment. If the lady has not stated a price for time or services Then watchout or avoid completely. Most Eccie Providers have references that make mention of these things so minimal discussion of them is the norm. just refer to a review & her ad & that will generally do it & keep you from being entrapped by LE.

I have to disagree on both points. First: I've known several providers (none in this area) who got arrested even though the donation had already been discussed and agreed upon before the actual meeting. It was simply when the pre-arranged amount of money touched their hand that the actual arrest took place.

Second: entrapment would almost never apply here. The basic definition of entrapment is when the government persuaded you to commit a crime when under normal circumstances you wouldn't. It's kinda hard to make up an excuse as to why you were at the hotel/home of an escort-or at least someone you thought to be an escort-with the exact amount of money in your pocket that her ad states she is requesting for her services. Entrapment would be more along the lines of LE saying something like: "we'll forgot all about this solicition charge if you go rob a bank and then buy us some [staff edit by jymie: prohibited topic]." You wouldn't under normal circumstances go rob a bank and buy drugs (at least I would hope not); you're being persuaded by the government to do so in order to get a charge dropped.

[nytefyter]

If you check my reviews here, you'll see that I have been known to meet a new girl every now and then. Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't. However, that's not what you asked, and not what you care about - so I'll share some (not all because we all know there are prying eyes here) of my tricks.

1 - never call from a phone that can be traced to you.
2 - listen to what is being said on the phone, how it is being said, and what is going on in the background.
3 - always have a plausible story.
4 - never carry valuables with you.
5 - be aware and if it feels bad - it is bad; get out!

Although I've had a few from whom I should have waved off, I've only ever felt once that I was in danger of being arrested or robbed. After learning from that event, I've been completely comfortable with every visit where I make the first review since.

[m2244]

jekemo I think you may know me well enough to say "okay good luck in your search"........and I disagree about the law of donation touching your hand. I have tryed to read every law possible.....have you ever gotten a message from a provider stating "donation is for my time only".........that sums that up LOL

[heatherelite]

Originally Posted by m2244

and I disagree about the law of donation touching your hand.

I would like to state for the record that I never said that that was a law. I was just relating what several other ladies had told me happened to them in their specific cases. I'm sure there are numerous ways that LE will bust a person depending on the jurisdiction and the individual cops themselves.