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burkalini · 10-28-2010, 06:13 PM

I havn't heard any responses that the matue gentleman is more likely to be able to afford more things. I have heard that from providers when speaking to them

anita · 10-28-2010, 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by China Doll

This is a great question! I am going to give you some reasons that apply to many providers, but I am not necessarily speaking for myself. I do not have an age requirement. Some of these things have applied to my experiences as well, though.
Younger clients:
- Expect to be able to pound a woman as hard, as long, and as many times as he wants
- Are more likely to be aggressive and inexperienced enough to accidentally hurt us
- Often expect a PSE from a girl who only advertises the GFE
- Ask for discounts and/or more time because they are “young and hot” (This is a fact!)
- Often verbally express the idea that we are or must feel lucky to be seeing them
- Feel the need to explain over and over that they’re not with us because they “can’t get some” on their own
- Often don’t know the rules of the game

It has been my personal experience that they tend to respect us less. Most of the younger men I have seen (most, not all), see me as a delicious piece of meat. Now, I most certainly am that very thing, but the older gents see that there is so much more that goes along with it!

+1, very well explained and true! I do not have an age limit though. Just be over 18

DallasBella · 10-30-2010, 01:32 AM

Okay, I hope I don't get slammed.
I love each and every one of you hobbyists age, shape, color(you give me a place to live!!), but for me PERSONALLY it is easier to provide for a younger man. Physical attraction is just the tip of the iceburg to 'eroticism.' However, let's be honest ladies... How many of you would approach a client the same if you met under different circumstances?
If we are closer in age we normally have more in common=smooth session.
The better the attraction for both of us=HOT HOT HOT!

burkalini · 10-30-2010, 02:32 AM

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Originally Posted by DallasBella

Okay, I hope I don't get slammed.
I love each and every one of you hobbyists age, shape, color(you give me a place to live!!), but for me PERSONALLY it is easier to provide for a younger man. Physical attraction is just the tip of the iceburg to 'eroticism.' However, let's be honest ladies... How many of you would approach a client the same if you met under different circumstances?
If we are closer in age we normally have more in common=smooth session.
The better the attraction for both of us=HOT HOT HOT!

As a man in his late fifties I think it's refreshing to hear someone be honest. I think it's great. Now would I call her after hearing that. Probably not. Hey it's my turn to be honest.

ilsjs · 10-30-2010, 08:21 AM

+1,

I thought in any business: "Customer satisfaction always comes first" ....

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Originally Posted by burkalini

As a man in his late fifties I think it's refreshing to hear someone be honest. I think it's great. Now would I call her after hearing that. Probably not. Hey it's my turn to be honest.

wildwooly1 · 10-30-2010, 10:11 AM

As an older guy I can tell you that with age you learn not to judge a book by its cover and you learn to respect each person for what they are.
Women become more that just a piece of ass or another one you conquered and you learn to enjoy every aspect of a woman...the way she smells, the way she smiles, her personality, and the way she carrys herself and conducts her business.
every provider I meet i learn more about them and enjoy them for what they are and not just their bodies and good looks.
They are beautiful individuals each with their own little querks and personalities and its great to get to know them and get a smile from them.
Make life fun and enjoy every minute of it !
Back when I was younger I dont know if I knew that and I was always in too big of a hurry to notice the little things.
The key word to remember is RESPECT!

vnurse · 10-30-2010, 01:45 PM

I have never discriminated regarding age. Actually I have never discriminated against anyone for that matter.

I have seen gentlemen as young as 21-25 and while it was a bit strange, it was fine. I have seen gentlemen as old as 86 as well...you'd be surprised at what some are capable of!

In my opinion, it's all a state of mind and by that, manners and respect are a big factor as well!

TexTushHog · 10-31-2010, 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by China Doll

- Often verbally express the idea that we are or must feel lucky to be seeing them

Gee, and here I thought that providers were lucky to get the fat, pudgy, bald guy who actually took a bath and has a serious case premature ejaculation!!!

Bigal103 · 10-31-2010, 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by TexTushHog

Gee, and here I thought that providers were lucky to get the fat, pudgy, bald guy who actually took a bath and has a serious case premature ejaculation!!!

LOL LOL. gee, I thought I was the only one !

cabletex7 · 10-31-2010, 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by burkalini

As a man in his late fifties I think it's refreshing to hear someone be honest. I think it's great. Now would I call her after hearing that. Probably not. Hey it's my turn to be honest.

-1

Actually agree with the honesty part but would definitely call her if she ever paid a visit to Houston. I really, really appreciate it when a provider half my age (or less) is, with every moan and groan, wild thrashing, dirty whisper, etc., letting me know what a stud I am and how much she is enjoying the fucking of her life that I am giving her. But do I believe it? Of course not. As this balding, fat man is thrusting away and contorting his face in shapes that gets her to wondering if Hollywood's next scary movie would pay for referrals, she is actually making up her grocery list and wondering what to feed the kids that night.

So, it's all about the fantasy. I don't think she was saying that she couldn't fake it, just that you can't possibly expect her to be really into it as she would for someone closer to her own age. And she is right.

JustaGuyinMS · 10-31-2010, 07:59 PM

What a great conversation. I especially enjoyed it because I'm an old fart who still enjoys that there are ladies who are willing to put up with me. But, the thing I could not get out of my mind was a quote by Mark Twain:

"All generalizations, with the possible exception of this one, are false."

It's something to remember.

Ciao,

JaG

Lea Madisson · 10-31-2010, 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by JustaGuyinMS

What a great conversation. I especially enjoyed it because I'm an old fart who still enjoys that there are ladies who are willing to put up with me.
Ciao,

JaG

Besides being GFE, sometimes PSE, I am also OFF (Old Fart Friendly)!!!

Smooch!

Lea

AngelaKharma · 10-31-2010, 10:33 PM

It has nothing to do with the amount of "work". GFE sessions don't really feel like work for me, because I do enjoy it. However, I prefer to see clients over the age of 40. I just feel more comfortable and older gents seem to be more respectful (just in my experience). I have made some exceptions though, but I just prefer the sexier older guys lol.

bestoralntexas · 10-31-2010, 11:19 PM

Very good question. Ya know, used to be, guys that were pre-marriage, would date and go to clubs etc.. Single meat market places, and eventually get married or knock her up, Very few in there twenty's, were pay for play preferred. It was definitely not customary, nor even considered a option to replace dating. You met someone, got married whatever, but you didn't commit to being a "John/Hobbyist". On the same note a chic didn't really come out and tell the family at dinner she was not going to college or getting married; but was gonna be a Escort/Provider/ Hooker/Porn Star....you got the picture. I did not hide my career choice when i was premiering, and OH BOY! They seem to except it 15 years later, and it's not a disgrace, I think it's becoming more excepted.
I consider young; 25 and under,that is when guys are supposed to chase free tail, and be grateful for bad dry blowjobs! Sure the occasional trip to the chicken ranch or the local in call, but many young ins are opting out of dating to score.
There is a huge spike in the under 30 hobbyist ranks. And many of them have sworn off normal old school traditional sexual relationships. This will and is already effecting our society. There are more women than men regardless, but most of the women are not of "Provider Breed", I call us Mistress Types.
The majority are "Wifely Types", and now there are high numbers of single and lesbian ones, not to mention the Wifely converts.
But all the men are hobbyist! See my train of thought on this? The Hobby is huge these days, and not even a secret to society, Hell my Dad hobby's!

Also, being around a long time, you learn what you think you want and need are two different things, and you gain wisdom. Men generally don't mature as rapidly as us. Gentleman, is a characteristic that is not only taught, but refined over years. A young man that presents himself exceptionally well, polite, well spoken, and sure of his request; I would see, and have.
He is a gentleman in training.
But an arrogant, loud, aggressive, dominant, and overbearing young man; who wants whatever for whatever, etc... He is in training too, but I am not the one, he will agree! I did my time, and it boils down to, age , color , size have noting to do with your manners and the way you present and conduct yourself. But few of the younger ones have the years, or experience to have developed or refined anything outside of high school.

Its just like the NBA policy I see all over. To me, I know better. It has nothing to do with color or race whether someone is "bad" or "good". In fact, it is quite sad and offensive to me even that there are still people in the world who separate and segregate groups of humans based on a generic label borrowed from a box of crayons! White or black? I have white skin, but the KKK says I need not apply being a Jewish girl. Food for thought.
Generally age is irrelevant, but just as women my age are "specialty", we like to be able to connect to the client. Young ones learn from trial and error.

Amy has spoken her piece.

burkalini · 11-01-2010, 02:01 AM

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Originally Posted by cabletex7

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Actually agree with the honesty part but would definitely call her if she ever paid a visit to Houston. I really, really appreciate it when a provider half my age (or less) is, with every moan and groan, wild thrashing, dirty whisper, etc., letting me know what a stud I am and how much she is enjoying the fucking of her life that I am giving her. But do I believe it? Of course not. As this balding, fat man is thrusting away and contorting his face in shapes that gets her to wondering if Hollywood's next scary movie would pay for referrals, she is actually making up her grocery list and wondering what to feed the kids that night.

So, it's all about the fantasy. I don't think she was saying that she couldn't fake it, just that you can't possibly expect her to be really into it as she would for someone closer to her own age. And she is right.

Her statement said she only preferred young hot guys. No while I can't blame her for that as we like young hot women on occasion. The fantasy is now gone with her as I know she is thinking of her shopping list while saying she is cumming. If your going to give a fantasy keep it that way. If the magician gives away how he did a trick its no longer amazing