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PaganGuy · 10-06-2010, 06:33 PM

Would love to see some of you ladies 'reviews' of guys.. curious as to who and what you /really/ enjoy and to what extent...

SofaKingFun · 10-10-2010, 06:35 AM

Yup, I've got to agree with H8edbyOne (which one H8s you incidentally? j/k).

Just be honest (key word here is "honest")...I suppose you'd have to put in objective too.

For example: If a client does something that a provider doesn't approve of, or isn't cool with, and he is not made aware of his transgression(s), then does anyone honestly expect a change?

All she has to do is give this guy a "No" and he's up the proverbial creek.
And what's worse, this 'No" could have been for a very minor infraction and one that he could have easily corrected or remedied had he been made aware of it.

By the same token, by bringing this to his attention it could easily bring unwanted *noise* and *mess* to this provider?

So what to do.....hmmm?...?

Shit, I've got nothing. I'll just try to be a good monger and hope that if I screw-up that she'll be cool enough to let me know. No noise, no mess, and everybody's happy. I'd like to believe that I'm a pretty-good monger because I don't have any problems booking dates. But ladies, I will readily admit that while I am wicked-smart in some areas, I am a complete dolt in others; so if it's not brought to my attention, I can't fix it and make it better.

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Tazion · 10-10-2010, 01:52 PM

You know, I clicked on this thread by accident, and I am sooooo sorry I did. I went ahead and started reading, and couldn't even get 1 page in before I felt my blood pressure starting to go up.

Hey...here's a real simple thought, why don't you just tell the fucking truth? Why go to the trouble of reinventing the wheel when you could just say "He was safe since he wasn't a cop or killer, but he had BO and I wouldn't see him again." And then that provider that is looking for info can make up her own mind.

Or is that just too damn simple?

Probably not enough drama involved for some.

H8edByOne · 10-10-2010, 03:39 PM

LOL - I am H8edBy (Ex-wife)...Long story short, she got mad at me years ago and changed my AOL log-on to H8edByWife....Liked it and when we divorced simply changed Wife to One...Should I review her? I would not recommend her....

I tell everyone that we divorced over a religious issue...I am Christian and she is Satan!

Guest081519 · 10-10-2010, 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by H8edByOne

... I tell everyone that we divorced over a religious issue...I am Christian and she is Satan!

Pepper_Springfield · 10-10-2010, 11:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Tazion

You know, I clicked on this thread by accident, and I am sooooo sorry I did. I went ahead and started reading, and couldn't even get 1 page in before I felt my blood pressure starting to go up.

Hey...here's a real simple thought, why don't you just tell the fucking truth? Why go to the trouble of reinventing the wheel when you could just say "He was safe since he wasn't a cop or killer, but he had BO and I wouldn't see him again." And then that provider that is looking for info can make up her own mind.

Or is that just too damn simple?

Probably not enough drama involved for some.

I guess, for me, it's more about actually getting a reply for a ref. I don't always use refs, but they definitely help. So, I guess the "ok's" system, like on p411, is easiest. You don't hurt anyones feelings, and it doesn't make anyone look bad for a specific reason. If you can't get a hold of ref's then u can see if the person has been ok'ed or not and take it from there.

Tazion · 10-11-2010, 12:57 PM

Pepper, I can understand that, you (and other providers) being nice people, don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. However, if you thought they stunk, or really rude, or whatever, and you weren't going to see them again, then why care? You shouldn't.

Maybe if enough providers say "No, I'm not seeing you stinky", they might clean up.

BTW Pepper, I'm seriously digging the new avitar. You look fabulous!

Pepper_Springfield · 10-11-2010, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Tazion

Pepper, I can understand that, you (and other providers) being nice people, don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. However, if you thought they stunk, or really rude, or whatever, and you weren't going to see them again, then why care? You shouldn't.

Maybe if enough providers say "No, I'm not seeing you stinky", they might clean up.

BTW Pepper, I'm seriously digging the new avitar. You look fabulous!

Ahhhhh, well, thank ya!